bitbydeath
Gold Member
Disclaimer: I’m probably going to come off sounding like a jerk, but everyone seems so scared to say anything, scared of being put in a bad light, or scared to be treated like a predator but here goes, the side which goes unspoken.
There is a reason we hear stories of male celebrities treating women wrong and it not being the other way around. Men have been conditioned since forever to make the first move, we all know this. Sometimes Women do but most of the time it is up to males to make the first move and Women effectively give the green/red light.
Now this is a difficult thing to do, there is no exact science and it’s not as easy as using ‘words’ to get what you want nor should it be.
Flirtation, it comes in many forms from looks, to words, to physical activity and it is up to those making the first move (guys) to find where those boundaries lie, those boundaries are not the same for each person, some do require extra steps to seal the deal. Can it be taken too far? If read incorrectly yes. Is that wrong? No. It is a discovery on what we can and can’t do. We don’t know what is too far and signals can get mixed up.
Even the recent event of Morgan Freeman lifting a ladies skirt could have simply been a signal misunderstanding. There are lines obviously and most will attribute that to the word ‘No’ or simply being pushed away.
There’s no easy answer for this, guys will continue to pursuit women or humans will become extinct. All I can is i’m glad I’m not a single celebrity in today’s times.
There is a reason we hear stories of male celebrities treating women wrong and it not being the other way around. Men have been conditioned since forever to make the first move, we all know this. Sometimes Women do but most of the time it is up to males to make the first move and Women effectively give the green/red light.
Now this is a difficult thing to do, there is no exact science and it’s not as easy as using ‘words’ to get what you want nor should it be.
Flirtation, it comes in many forms from looks, to words, to physical activity and it is up to those making the first move (guys) to find where those boundaries lie, those boundaries are not the same for each person, some do require extra steps to seal the deal. Can it be taken too far? If read incorrectly yes. Is that wrong? No. It is a discovery on what we can and can’t do. We don’t know what is too far and signals can get mixed up.
Even the recent event of Morgan Freeman lifting a ladies skirt could have simply been a signal misunderstanding. There are lines obviously and most will attribute that to the word ‘No’ or simply being pushed away.
There’s no easy answer for this, guys will continue to pursuit women or humans will become extinct. All I can is i’m glad I’m not a single celebrity in today’s times.