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Zoe Quinn #meToo / Alec Holowka suicide -- Update: Article questions ZQ's account of events (link in OP)

Acidizer

Banned

I take no responsibility for you feel a little dumber after you've read it though

The funniest thing in the thread is that there seems to be about a dozen different complicated definitions of what "non-binary" is

If it is so hard to explain, and people who 'get' the concept cant explain it to just simple folk, then time to look at how valid the concept is

What a fucking circle jerk. It really is. The absolute bottom of the barrel right here.
 

Lunk

Member
You live and die together as a team. I don't think I have even seen a group of people work together like family like in the Halo days of Bungie
Closest I can think of is Frictional Games (Makers of Amnesia, Penumbra and SOMA) but they're also really small.

Yeah, gaming just kinda sucks now, sometimes. The conglomerates have dominated the industry and either you're small-fry or you're big money people. There is no inbetween and corporations feed on LGBT to avert controversy and bolster mass sales to the point where that's all this is about now.
 

Gavin Stevens

Formerly 'o'dium'
How does a selfish git like this get 122 THOUSAND people following her, yet I write stories for god damn kids and can barely get 80... I’m not saying being a kids author is better than other people but it’s better than being a crazy eyed liar who pushes people to suicide...

This world is messed up...

Follow me on Twitter G Gavavva , every follower gets a free pizza roll. Also follow me in real life, where every follower will just get a look of shame because of my hollow life.
 

Acidizer

Banned
I have yet to see a picture of Zoe Quinn (I don't go looking for them admittedly) that doesn't scream out, and I do really mean scream out "attention seeking wretched skank".

Sorry to stoop to that level but had to get that off my chest. Damn she a nasty pollutant.
 

Lunk

Member
Woah, woah. Wait a second. Hold up. Stop the train... Time out. Is that Ryan from 1UP? The legend who used to produce the amazing 1UP Show from the mid 2000s? And he is retweeting that? :messenger_hushed:. Uh...



That dude used to be cool. What do they put in the water in California to turn men into unhinged women?

That's what bewilders me the most. A lot of people that I thought I leveled with are avidly pro-feminist even in these divided times... and it's to the point where I keep questioning if I don't get it. I obviously see the positivity in supporting freedom of choice, will etc. but I just can't understand the agreeableness to the methods deployed of censorship and silencing people who have contrasting viewpoints, and worse, labeling them the second comings of Hitler.

How can I support that?
 

brap

Banned
[I'm not really comfortable in posting this, so please delete if inappropriate or fake]


Obvious fake dude come on. You think people were talking about games journalists and Twitter harassment in 2007 or whatever? Not even defending Zoe here. Also in tired and going to sleep so maybe my research wasn't good enough so don't beat me up if I'm wrong.

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Darak

Member
That's what bewilders me the most. A lot of people that I thought I leveled with are avidly pro-feminist even in these divided times... and it's to the point where I keep questioning if I don't get it. I obviously see the positivity in supporting freedom of choice, will etc. but I just can't understand the agreeableness to the methods deployed of censorship and silencing people who have contrasting viewpoints, and worse, labeling them the second comings of Hitler.

How can I support that?

That reminds me of the paradox of tolerance, introduced by Karl Popper last century. In order to be part of a tolerant society, you must not be tolerant of intolerance, as otherwise you'll give intolerant people the tools to silence others and impose their world views by force.

It has been frequently misinterpreted. The same Popper argued that you must not really suppress intolerants, and instead should fight them with arguments, only using force as a measure against violence, for example. It's the philosophy behind the concept of 'hate speech' and the reason why (in its original definition) hate speech refers only to direct calls for violence.

The paradox is usually quoted by extremists who claim to have the right to silence anyone they don't like. They consider being wrong as being the same thing as being intolerant, and they view themselves as the only ones who can possibly be right.
 

Roitorb

Member

I take no responsibility for you feel a little dumber after you've read it though

The funniest thing in the thread is that there seems to be about a dozen different complicated definitions of what "non-binary" is

If it is so hard to explain, and people who 'get' the concept cant explain it to just simple folk, then time to look at how valid the concept is

As a 39 year old MAN from industrial working class Birmingham U.K. I have no idea what the fuck they are on about. Is this what the worlds becoming?
 

Saruhashi

Banned
I read the post from the other Night in the Woods guy, Scott Benson.

The question I ask myself is "what are these people so afraid of"?

It would have been easier for him to just say nothing. The guy is gone so it's time to maybe just leave it be. Yes, there are accusations but he has passed away and it seems like it should be a private issue and maybe it's more appropriate to just show some respect and leave things alone for now.

The ENTIRE motivation for this just seems to be to say "ZQ was right, he's a horrible guy, I survived him but she had it worse so plz no harrass".

Are folk so irrationally terrified of "GamerGate" that they would go to these lengths to make sure that nobody can ever say that they didn't put absolutely everything the could on the line to defend ZQ from GG?

It was the same with Total Biscuit to some extent too. When he passed away so many were falling over each other to be the first to condemn him. I didn't get it. AT WORST he could be accused of not knowing what GG was and so his "defense" of it was based on thinking it was about "games journalism" when REALLY it was about "harassing women". That's it though. Taking a swipe at a dead man because he disagreed with you on what GG was is terrible behavior. Better to just shut the hell up.

Tim Soret was not such a severe case but again it was like the worst thing this guy did was thinking that GG was about standards or ethics or whatever. As soon as the trailer for his game drops this stance that the relationships between indie devs and journalists can sometimes be used to deceive the people buying the games becomes "OMG he is a monster who supports kicking women out of videogames". Why though? Why even bother?

Something about it all, GG and ZQ, seems to just get people acting crazy.

So when there is some drama going down people feel like they absolutely must get right on there and make sure everyone sees that they are part of the ZQ defense force. Why?

Why wouldn't these guys just keep quiet and say "I am waiting for the details to emerge so I have no comment for now"? Cos the angry mob demands that you step up and declare your opposition to GG? WTF is Gamergate in 2019 anyway? This isn't an organized group or anything like that so what gives?

Back in the day GG could have been stopped in it's tracks by simply admitting that yes there is a bit of a scandal going down in the indie scene, maybe some journos have been propping up their friends games and it will be investigated and things will be a bit different going forward. The end.

It's the same here. They could have said that these claims have been made but they are unsubstantiated and we'll wait to hear Alec's side of the story and we will act accordingly. No further comments at this time. That's it. Probably the dude is still alive today and there is no need for anyone to go grovelling to ZQ promising that they really really really believe her and declaring anyone who doesn't a GG, alt-right, incel.

It's all so needless and I can't figure out why so many feel so compelled to keep on dunking on this guy after he has already taken his own life.
Maybe just keep quiet for a while?

Of course, our friends at ReetardEra pounce on this. Going from "discussion on this topic is locked down" to "no, wait, there is a post that puts forward our talking points so discussion is allowed again" at the drop of a hat. So the discussion was only on lockdown until it started to go the way they wanted it to go?
 
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DunDunDunpachi

Patient MembeR
So the discussion was only on lockdown until it started to go the way they wanted it to go?
That happens often, but it's not a ResetERA thing. I see news stories go through this same cycle all the time.

- inflammatory (and often incorrect) headline
- more news comes out debunking the original impressions of the story
- news outlet throws their deeply apologetic correction on Page 7, often leaving the original (incorrect) headline in place
- rinse, repeat
 

MilkyJoe

Member

I take no responsibility for you feel a little dumber after you've read it though

The funniest thing in the thread is that there seems to be about a dozen different complicated definitions of what "non-binary" is

If it is so hard to explain, and people who 'get' the concept cant explain it to just simple folk, then time to look at how valid the concept is

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buizel

Banned
So I just got banned on Twitter for saying to a guy (who said Alec deserved it) that if he ever killed himself, I hope people drag him through the mud. Obviously a hot take but basically not as bad as what the guy said (never wanted him to die), but kinda shows Twitters double standards and hypocrisy. Kill all men = fine. Saying thats wrong = BAN
 

buizel

Banned
As a 39 year old MAN from industrial working class Birmingham U.K. I have no idea what the fuck they are on about. Is this what the worlds becoming?

Sorry for double post, but how does someone 'come out ' as non-binary? Let alone a man.

If someones 'coming out the opposite gender' wouldnt they have to have a sex change? Or do they just need to say it and it is so?

And then coming out as non-binary... do people neeed to 'come out' for that? Just say you dont identify with either gender. OH BUT YOU DO CAUSE NON BINARY MAN? I think people just make up these additional terms because they don't want to go back on what they said but they want the benefits of both. Also known as... DOUBLETHINK.

ARGGH

I remember growing up, we always tried to get rid of labels cause we liked different or weird things. Now everyone fucking wants a special label just for them. Well I got news for you - THATS YOUR NAME.

I didn't realize the carnival was in town..

How much longer until a gaggle of clowns spill out of a hilariously tiny car?

Got any Flat Earth youtubes for us while we wait? Perhaps some faked moon landing or Bigfoot revelations to hold us over?

Just to reply - lol, yeh I thought it was nuts literally a few weeks ago but I've seen more and more videos and evidence and friends showing me stuff that there was something more. I don't wanna argue but I aint a conspiracy nut or flat earther , im pretty level headed. I dunno if you've watched some videos on it, or the architechts and builders saying it was physically impossible for the building to collapse the way it did if it was just a plane... pretty interesting stuff .

Okay one more, in regards to moon landing. Why does BUZZ ALDRIN ADMIT TO NOT GOING THERE in this video to an 8 year old...? (it's not something you'd make up for a kid..?) Literally in first minute, watch. (anyway thats all the conspiracies im into)

 
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Dirk Benedict

Gold Member
So I just got banned on Twitter for saying to a guy (who said Alec deserved it) that if he ever killed himself, I hope people drag him through the mud. Obviously a hot take but basically not as bad as what the guy said (never wanted him to die), but kinda shows Twitters double standards and hypocrisy. Kill all men = fine. Saying thats wrong = BAN

You should fly under the radar. Like I do. The blue check marks share blacklists that are run through bots that automatically ban you for wrong think, even if they never run into you before. It's just another way to prejudge based on biased, collectivist ideology of extremes. For them, logic is out of the window.

For us, we need to archive everything and fly low, undetected.
 

buizel

Banned
You should fly under the radar. Like I do. The blue check marks share blacklists that are run through bots that automatically ban you for wrong think, even if they never run into you before. It's just another way to prejudge based on biased, collectivist ideology of extremes. For them, logic is out of the window.

For us, we need to archive everything and fly low, undetected.

Good thing it takes 2 MINUTES to make a twitter account.

Yeah man better watch out, the ALT RIGHT WATCH ARE WATCHING YOU. Big Brother. Double Think. ITS ALL COMING TOGETHER.
 
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Thought about opening up a Patreon for my new trans self, I genuinely need the money and if i can rake in a couple hundred it'll help me keep rent. Just gotta half ass some work and jump on every bandwagon.
Don't forget that you have to say that 8 men tried to rape you and you killed one in self defence without any evidence whatsoever.
 
Thought about opening up a Patreon for my new trans self, I genuinely need the money and if i can rake in a couple hundred it'll help me keep rent. Just gotta half ass some work and jump on every bandwagon.
Can't wait to play your fist game, "Transition Quest" !
 

Lunk

Member
Obvious fake dude come on. You think people were talking about games journalists and Twitter harassment in 2007 or whatever? Not even defending Zoe here. Also in tired and going to sleep so maybe my research wasn't good enough so don't beat me up if I'm wrong.

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Even if it could be true it taps into the same problem that they use. You're slanderously accusing someone with hearesay and unconfirmed accounts, asking people to react on that. That's what sucks about all of this and that's what creates a mob mentality.
 

Ogbert

Member
Thought about opening up a Patreon for my new trans self, I genuinely need the money and if i can rake in a couple hundred it'll help me keep rent. Just gotta half ass some work and jump on every bandwagon.

Genuinely not a bad idea. Create a fake profile. Tell everyone you’re working on concept art for a video game (just do some potatoe prints).

You should get a bit of cash in.
 
Just read the Resetera thread on the recent ‘article’ - I survived Alec.

Again, shameless.

It really felt like he wrote that with a metaphorical gun to his head.

I hope others are brave enough to come forward and chronicle Alec’s horrendous reign of terror so we can see how far and wide it spread - with him moving from one vulnerable target to the next pretending each time he was seeking help yet sneakily just continuing his whirlwind of abuse...

What a crock!

They can’t even keep their story straight. Even Alec’s sister said he had positively changed until very recently.

So this article providing true is the equivalent of going up to a family member who is just about to bury their sibling and saying -

“You know you thought xxx was ok and had got better? Well actually he was a complete cunt...”

What purpose does that fucking serve?

Why not all go and spit on his grave and be done with it...

Nasty, nasty pieces of work. Disgusting and shameful, self serving behaviour under the guise of help and support.

The worse kind of hypocrisy.
 

Spukc

always chasing the next thrill
So I just got banned on Twitter for saying to a guy (who said Alec deserved it) that if he ever killed himself, I hope people drag him through the mud. Obviously a hot take but basically not as bad as what the guy said (never wanted him to die), but kinda shows Twitters double standards and hypocrisy. Kill all men = fine. Saying thats wrong = BAN
Maybe stop saying fucking dumb shit to people you don't know on twitter.
You are just the same if you act like that.
 
[I'm not really comfortable in posting this, so please delete if inappropriate or fake]
UPDATE : yeah, fake, I have removed the link.

At his point, we're all just susceptible to throw mud (that other have given us) to make "the other party" look as bad as they can. I was also emotionally invested in the whole thing, but now I'm in a more objective state. Now, I'm not excusing the thing Zoe has done, because it has led to something absolutely tragic and infuriating. But everything has two sides, and she also has a history of being abused by her mother which resulted in her being what she is now; a pathological liar and manipulator.

Same goes for the people on resetera, how they act isn't either sane or morally justified. However, how did these people become what they are? They didn't come out of the blue, all of the sudden. I think all of these people need help, and shouldn't be on the internet at all. And maybe they would be in a better place if the internet didn't even exist. It acts like fuel. People with big psychological problems, hanging out with each other, what would you expect?

Something must have gone severely wrong somewhere, like really bad parenting.
 
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