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Why has it become socially unacceptable to not have a tan?

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I have been sitting with this question over the last couple of months.

I too am the person who lays on the beach when the days are warm and the sun is abundant but it also makes me wonder why just staying natural (white) has become that socially unacceptable.

I catch myself and other people staring at the one's who almost looks like they have never gone out of their apartment, and it is not with a stare that says ''Good for you!'' but more with a stare of ''Where the fuck have you been hiding?''

The world has become so harsh on the persons who stand out amongst the crowd.
 
when i think of tanning, i think of bread getting toasted. then it puts me off, because we are basically toasting ourselves under the sun.
 
Picture of me and my buddy

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I have been sitting with this question over the last couple of months.

I too am the person who lays on the beach when the days are warm and the sun is abundant but it also makes me wonder why just staying natural (white) has become that socially unacceptable.

I catch myself and other people staring at the one's who almost looks like they have never gone out of their apartment, and it is not with a stare that says ''Good for you!'' but more with a stare of ''Where the fuck have you been hiding?''

You kinda answered your own question there. I think it has also become a bit of a status symbol for people who can afford more time in the sun that those spending their day in a cubicle.

The world has become so harsh on the persons who stand out amongst the crowd.

Nah, it has always been that way ;-)
 
While white people want to get tanned, Indian people want to get whiter.

This is a cultural thing throughout Asia. People there in general want to have lighter skin due to it making them look more prosperous.

Tanned skin = you work outside doing manual labour, work on a farm, etc.

Light skin = you work in an office, inside, higher-quality job, etc.
 
I catch myself and other people staring at the one's who almost looks like they have never gone out of their apartment, and it is not with a stare that says ''Good for you!'' but more with a stare of ''Where the fuck have you been hiding?''

The world has become so harsh on the persons who stand out amongst the crowd.

some pale people (like my wife) don't even tan that well cause they burn so easily. as for the world being harsh on those who stand out, you sound like you are part of the problem
 
used to be the other way around. no tan = rich, doesn't need to work on the field = awesome.


i tan very quickly but i wouldn't mind not having one, i never go out of my way to get one.
 
I have been sitting with this question over the last couple of months.

I too am the person who lays on the beach when the days are warm and the sun is abundant but it also makes me wonder why just staying natural (white) has become that socially unacceptable.

I catch myself and other people staring at the one's who almost looks like they have never gone out of their apartment, and it is not with a stare that says ''Good for you!'' but more with a stare of ''Where the fuck have you been hiding?''

The world has become so harsh on the persons who stand out amongst the crowd.

Haters gonna hate.

I'm a fan of paleness, it's a lot more attractive than tanned skin.
 
some pale people (like my wife) don't even tan that well cause they burn so easily. as for being harsh on those who stand out, you sound like you are part of the problem

I agree that I am part of the problem as well. I never neglected that and it pains me that I caught myself doing the exact same thing that I hate others do, but I feel that it is best to go with the flow in terms of that instead of constantly having to proof yourself and answering questions like "why are you so white?"
 
I am cracking up here.

This is hilarious.

"Why are you so white?" lmao

I have never encountered this phenomenon of pale skin being "socially unacceptable"
 
I am cracking up here.

This is hilarious.

"Why are you so white?" lmao

I have never encountered this phenomenon of pale skin being "socially unacceptable"

Just because you never encountered it does not mean it does not exist. Trust me when I said that I had those kind of questions thrown at my head when I was in school.
 
Yeah I think that's the point. The last time I had questions like that I was in high school. High school kids be high schoolin'.
 
present day`s reasoning

1: staying pale during sunny months = you are a hermit who stays home in your basement,
you are not physically active,
and anti-social
 
I kinda like pale skin, but only with dark hair, mmmm.

I'm part cuban and greek too, ironically I have a nice tan!
 
You really care how tanned other people are? This is up there with worrying about what's in fashion at the moment.

Okay, I read this as 'acceptable', not 'unacceptable'. Derp.
 
I'm not albino, but if I were any more pale I would blind people during the sunnier months of the year. It kind of sucks, because it basically forbids me from dressing in anything black or white, lest not look like the nerdiest doofus.
 
I find it funny that I simply stated the obvious of what I encounter during my daily routine of traversing the subway and train and yet I am the one being attacked by GAF persona's who simply seem to have never noticed such things. I do not know where some of you live but this problem is here in Amsterdam and it is getting progressively worse over the years.
 
I find it funny that I simply stated the obvious of what I encounter during my daily routine of traversing the subway and train and yet I am the one being attacked by GAF persona's who simply seem to have never noticed such things. I do not know where some of you live but this problem is here in Amsterdam and it is getting progressively worse over the years.

I've only had people comment on a person's skin if they're at the extreme ends of the spectrum.
 
some pale people (like my wife) don't even tan that well cause they burn so easily. as for the world being harsh on those who stand out, you sound like you are part of the problem

This.

I'm a bit of a mutt but mostly Greek so in the summer I get as dark if not darker than my friend who is half black half russian, I look middle eastern by the end of the summer. Yet in the winter I'm very white.

My girlfriend is very pale and will burn at the drop of a hat but doesn't get tan, we go to the beach pretty often but she needs hardcore sunscreen to avoid a painful night.

I'd rather have her pale and without pain and without a disgusting orange fake tan.
 
Fake tanning is stupid, but being gleaming white makes you look like a hermit who spends all his time asking weird social questions on GAF from his mother's dark basement.
 
I have been sitting with this question over the last couple of months.

I too am the person who lays on the beach when the days are warm and the sun is abundant but it also makes me wonder why just staying natural (white) has become that socially unacceptable.

I catch myself and other people staring at the one's who almost looks like they have never gone out of their apartment, and it is not with a stare that says ''Good for you!'' but more with a stare of ''Where the fuck have you been hiding?''

The world has become so harsh on the persons who stand out amongst the crowd.
Just had this thread
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=484818
 
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