smhIf it took it personally then I apologize. It seemed like baiting to me and I didn't appreciate that. Is it ok to not want my son to be gay? Is that allowed? If some people want to be gay that's not for me to decide, but can't I have a preference as a parent?
How the hell can a sane human father think this way? This is so stupid.
When I was in high school an older friend of mine came out to his father and was disowned and kicked out of the home as well. He lost his mother to cancer when he was little and his father was really his only family. He spent more than 6 months incredibly depressed and homeless. His friends would hold late night parties every weekend and we'd trick him into staying over, because he felt like he deserved to be homeless because of his father's disappointment.. As his 18th birthday drew near he seemed like he was doing better, but after he went home on his birthday, his father told him that if he saw him again he'd shoot him. He wrote a few letters and went back to the house, waiting for his father to leave. When he had, my friend broke in and shot himself with his father's gun.
RIP Jason.
Get bent. I can have preferences just like everyone else. I would still love my son if something like this occurred.
Get bent. I can have preferences just like everyone else. I would still love my son if something like this occurred.
well said =/ . everyone should represent his own views, as long he does not hurt others mentally, emotionally or physically.
That's fine, you don't HAVE to know how you'd react. It is something to think about though. I think you should remember though if your son does grow up to be gay or bi and does meet another guy... that's part of his family and you will need to accept it.
You help situations like the one in the OP happen. Congrats.
When I was in high school an older friend of mine came out to his father and was disowned and kicked out of the home as well. He lost his mother to cancer when he was little and his father was really his only family. He spent more than 6 months incredibly depressed and homeless. His friends would hold late night parties every weekend and we'd trick him into staying over, because he felt like he deserved to be homeless because of his father's disappointment.. As his 18th birthday drew near he seemed like he was doing better, but after he went home on his birthday, his father told him that if he saw him again he'd shoot him. He wrote a few letters and went back to the house, waiting for his father to leave. When he had, my friend broke in and shot himself with his father's gun.
RIP Jason.
Do you watch porn? If you do, you've already seen more cock than 99% of all of human beings ever. The day you stop watching random Californian bro cocks is the day you can have that preference.
I think it's a fair question. If you really love your son then shouldn't his happiness dictate your "preference". No one was insulting or demeaning towards you, we just genuinely want to understand your mindset.
What have you got to apologise for? You're not to blame if other people don't understand their own religion and its teachings.I'm honestly shocked at this. As a Christian I wish I could find words to apologize for such a hateful behaviour.
And this is why I'm afraid to come out to my parents![]()
Just realize that people don't just wake up one day and choose to be gay. That's why people were judging your "I don't approve" comment, because it's really not something that needs any approval or disapproval- your hypothetical gay son won't be able to help it no matter what you think, so your disapproval would only prove to be psychologically damaging, even if you add the caveat that you'll love him regardless.If it took it personally then I apologize. It seemed like baiting to me and I didn't appreciate that. Is it ok to not want my son to be gay? Is that allowed? If some people want to be gay that's not for me to decide, but can't I have a preference as a parent?
And this is why I'm afraid to come out to my parents![]()
If it took it personally then I apologize. It seemed like baiting to me and I didn't appreciate that. Is it ok to not want my son to be gay? Is that allowed? If some people want to be gay that's not for me to decide, but can't I have a preference as a parent?
Do you watch porn? If you do, you've already seen more cock than 99% of human beings ever. The day you stop watching random Californian bro cocks is the day you can have that preference.
How would you feel if your father told you they didn't "approve" of you dating someone from another race?
Just realize that people don't just wake up one day and choose to be gay. That's why people were judging your "I don't approve" comment, because it's really not something that needs any approval or disapproval- your hypothetical gay son won't be able to help it no matter what you think, so your disapproval would only prove to be psychologically damaging, even if you add the caveat that you'll love him regardless.
You help situations like the one in the OP happen. Congrats.
When I was in high school an older friend of mine came out to his father and was disowned and kicked out of the home as well. He lost his mother to cancer when he was little and his father was really his only family. He spent more than 6 months incredibly depressed and homeless. His friends would hold late night parties every weekend and we'd trick him into staying over, because he felt like he deserved to be homeless because of his father's disappointment.. As his 18th birthday drew near he seemed like he was doing better, but after he went home on his birthday, his father told him that if he saw him again he'd shoot him. He wrote a few letters and went back to the house, waiting for his father to leave. When he had, my friend broke in and shot himself with his father's gun.
RIP Jason.
Amazing.Do you watch porn? If you do, you've already seen more cock than 99% of human beings ever. The day you stop watching random Californian bro cocks is the day you can have that preference.
How would you feel if your father told you they didn't "approve" of you dating someone from another race?
Then don't? Another thing I don't understand is coming out to the parent. My parents are huge prudes. My mother thinks oral sex is degrading and anything but missionary is sinful. Do I feel the need to come out that I like anal sex? No, I hide that shit like a normal person. Egh maybe this is a bad example since I tend to keep my parents away from anyone I care about :-/
When I was in high school an older friend of mine came out to his father and was disowned and kicked out of the home as well. He lost his mother to cancer when he was little and his father was really his only family. He spent more than 6 months incredibly depressed and homeless. His friends would hold late night parties every weekend and we'd trick him into staying over, because he felt like he deserved to be homeless because of his father's disappointment.. As his 18th birthday drew near he seemed like he was doing better, but after he went home on his birthday, his father told him that if he saw him again he'd shoot him. He wrote a few letters and went back to the house, waiting for his father to leave. When he had, my friend broke in and shot himself with his father's gun.
RIP Jason.
This is the single most rediculous post I've read all year on Gaf
I was raised in a familial environment that ensured us total freedom of expression. My dad would tell me his opinion, and he would still reassure me that he loves me. As I said, expressing one's own opinion without hurting someone mentally. Nothing wrong with that. The guy in OP is cold , bitter and ruthless.
well said =/ . everyone should represent his own views, as long he does not hurt others mentally, emotionally or physically.
When I was in high school an older friend of mine came out to his father and was disowned and kicked out of the home as well. He lost his mother to cancer when he was little and his father was really his only family. He spent more than 6 months incredibly depressed and homeless. His friends would hold late night parties every weekend and we'd trick him into staying over, because he felt like he deserved to be homeless because of his father's disappointment.. As his 18th birthday drew near he seemed like he was doing better, but after he went home on his birthday, his father told him that if he saw him again he'd shoot him. He wrote a few letters and went back to the house, waiting for his father to leave. When he had, my friend broke in and shot himself with his father's gun.
RIP Jason.
All I'm saying is that if you willfully watch videos of sweaty arm-length penises, you automatically forgo the right to be critical of a sexuality that leans towards men.
You help situations like the one in the OP happen. Congrats.
Indeed! Excellently expressed bigotry! Bravo!
You say you're not supposed to harm anyone mentally or emotionally, so please introduce me to the child who wouldn't end up just a little bit scarred from his father telling him that while of course I still love you, gee I sure would have preferred if you had been born someone else?
I think you would acknowledge your father is an exception. I think most people would be upset and understandably so if a parent told them they "don't approve" of someone that they love whether because the person is male, or black, or Jewish or has whatever characteristic. I can't imagine it cultivating a happy relationship, if anything it'd make me want to cut off ties with my parents if they can't accept me and the people I love who love me.
And this is why I'm afraid to come out to my parents![]()
And this is why I'm afraid to come out to my parents![]()
Yea Gaborn, I ain't talking about parents who won't accept you because you what you are. Parents can simply express their views and opinions, whilst accepting their kids totally and providing them warmth and love. How does it contradict.
No one is born religious. But yeah, indoctrination is a powerful thing.some people are just born religious, been going to church since they were like 1 years old.