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Am I allowed to look at other girls' breasts?
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Damn, guess I'm supposed to stop admiring breasteses when I'm a relationship.
Guess all other women magically become unattractive.
Guess I can't watch Modern Family anymore (yes, that's the only reason I watch it.)
Get real. I wish a chick would tell some stupid shit like stop looking at other women. It shouldn't be an issue unless I'm actually going after other women.
I'm looking...AND I'm making mental notes (c) Lebron
And if I think a chick has a nice ass, I will turn around.
Guess all other women magically become unattractive.
Guess I can't watch Modern Family anymore (yes, that's the only reason I watch it.)
Get real. I wish a chick would tell some stupid shit like stop looking at other women. It shouldn't be an issue unless I'm actually going after other women.
I'm looking...AND I'm making mental notes (c) Lebron
And if I think a chick has a nice ass, I will turn around.
Broder Salsa
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If you get caught just look into their eyes and keep staring until they look away.
eudaemonic
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Yes.
Next topic?
Next topic?
I feel the same. Sometimes you just walk in a room at the exact wrong moment and you catch a view. Never am able to continue looking once I realize what I'm looking at.
Hmm. I think this is like with everything with girls. Confidence. I see no reason to be embarrassed or feel like a complete asshole for looking at some stonking great hooters (I'm running out of synonyms), but there is of course a tasteless border we don't want to cross when we do it. It should be something along the lines of a tip of the hat to the girl, as to say 'your boobs brightened my day'. Sometimes I do this for no reason to, I just stop a girl and tell her exactly that. It's such an absurd random comment to get on the street that they get a bit baffled. I can't really see any way they'd find that rude. I might imagine some of them say "that's so rude," but even in those cases, I hope they're flattered.
Of course, this has to be girls that aren't full of themselves.
But with people I know and people I am talking to, I never stare at their tits. I think this comes back to the fact that we shouldn't be completely out of control horny so that we just have to look at all tits that come our way. If I'm talking to someone, I'm talking to someone.
Of course, this has to be girls that aren't full of themselves.
But with people I know and people I am talking to, I never stare at their tits. I think this comes back to the fact that we shouldn't be completely out of control horny so that we just have to look at all tits that come our way. If I'm talking to someone, I'm talking to someone.
Opus Angelorum
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My GF also points out more noticeable features of woman than I do.
Only last week she described a woman behind a make-up counter as someone 'who would turn her lesbian'. Obviously I encourage it.
Only last week she described a woman behind a make-up counter as someone 'who would turn her lesbian'. Obviously I encourage it.
Phoenician_Viking
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Good man. That´s awesome.
I dunno man, if she turns lesbian... where does that leave you? I allow her to turn bi, that's it.
Parallax
best seen in the classic "Shadow of the Beast"
you're assed out if she makes the switch.
Why is it so sexy when women bite their lips??
Doesn't only consider women.
OK; why do people look sexy when they bite their lips? I seriously have a hard time understanding why it's so sexy!
I guess it's just something in your mouth, which often looks nice.
The Dark Knight?
Fallout-NL
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Because it implies a level of excitement in the person doing that's so high that they can barely contain it.
Opus Angelorum
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She has said even if she turned lesbian I could still watch/take pictures.
Messypandas
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YES. Now where are the GIFS?
Slayer-33
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So true LOL SUMMER BABY!
Open a new tab in your browser. Type google.com in the address bar. Search "boob gifs".
Summer is fantastic because it involves little clothing AND sunglasses. I love that liberating feeling when I'm out with sunglasses on, and I'm trying to be discreet when looking at someone, then I realise "HEY. Sunglasses!" If I have an icecream at the same time, I'm blissful.
ReBurn
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Classy? Stare. Liberation? Sunglasses
Ether_Snake
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Girls like it. I do it.
I don't even wear sunglasses. I just straight up look at the tits. Girls like it! It's no different than if a girl looked at your crotch.
I don't even wear sunglasses. I just straight up look at the tits. Girls like it! It's no different than if a girl looked at your crotch.
Do girls actually size up your crotch? What the fuck, I always thought this was like an urban myth type deal.
There is no comparison for a guy to look at boobs and a girl to look at a guys crotch. It's not and outline of his dick is popping out, the crotch of a 7incher vs a 4incher are no different, in jeans.
Mattdaddy
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I agree, if some chick's tits are spilling out of her top, that's by design. I'll bite.
Dahellisdat
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Here's my take. You looking at other tits is fine and her being aware that you look at tits is fine. I draw the line at discussing with my girlfriend why I love the tits that I'm looking at with her. I don't see any benefit to having a need to make her aware of what I find attractive about specific women other than her. What good is it going to do to tell her those things? I can't see it making her feel better about herself or our relationship.
What if she wanted to look at other men and maybe sexually experiment with the idea of having threesome with two men?
then she's a whore!
WanderingWind
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Ok, so girls are actually done with that whole stupid phase of "just because I have a cleavage doesn't mean I want to be looked at"? Because that was stupid.
No. I think it still applies but rephrased as "just because I have a cleavage doesn't mean I want it to be looked at by anyone. I want hot guys to look at it so I can catch their attention".
Edit: So ugly guys will either get a nasty facial response or a quick cover up of the cleaveage by the girl. Some girls even cover up because they don't want you to look at just their breasts but to value their whole self. That includes her whole body and personality.
Yeah, I mean it's not like they don't know what they're doing. Here's an example of some friends on FB;
i'm that second reply btw
Monocle
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I think the OP has a very healthy attitude. Like Dan Savage says, being faithful isn't about not wanting to fuck other people, it's about refraining from fucking other people. If your partner doesn't think you should be "allowed" to appreciate others, try to help him or her understand that repression is a poor foundation for a lasting relationship. Humans can choose to be monogamous, but most of us don't have a monogamous libido.
You are simple. This is not an insult nor a praise. You are just a simple man.
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In cases of accidental cleavage/wardrobe malfunction I always cover up because I don't wanna walk around with my boobs hanging out for the world to see. Most girls I know are like that. I don't know many girls that sow cleavage but only want attractive guys to notice them.
That pic is all for attention at its finest.
Monocle said:
This true. I researched human history and noticed we evolved to not be monogamous but to spread are genes with one female and once the child is old enough the male leaves and finds another female to spread his genes onto another. We choose to be monogamous. That's why we have marriage and such.
Inanna said:
I understand. But it doesn't defeat the fact most woman show their cleavage to either catch male attention, for style/fashion or to compete with other females.
Edit: For me breasts or seeing cleavage doesn't do anything for me, since I look at breasts in a scientific/biology meaning and not in a "American sexual crazed cultural view". I myself came to realize that we American men are conditioned by society to like breasts in a sexual way just like the buttocks of a women. I say this because some men aren't turned on by breasts but can be turned on by something else on the female body or the personality of the female herself. This can also be tested by someone growing up in a culture that exposes breasts, naturally. Those woman can walk by men with their breasts exposed and it wouldn't do anything to them. I'm not sure if there is a culture that exists in this day in age considering the American view is spreading like wildfire. But it has existed in the past in human history.
KingOfReading
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If the titties are on display, stare all you like. Just because you go home to someone else doesn't mean she owns you like a slave. If dicks were visible through clothes normally, women would look.
I know, it's great. My college generation is so eager to fuck, you can't see it but in the pic they all have the same perked lips facial expression that just screams "i'm horny as hell right now".
It's a half turn on since they're hot, but kinda a turn off since they're so 'easy'. I don't know, conflicted..
Mammoth Jones
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Nothing wrong with it when she's not around. Just human. Unless you're trying to flirt and get a number it's a non-issue. It's silly to think either one of you isn't going to find other women/men attractive.
Mammoth Jones
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There are so many other cultures and countries on the Earth that appreciate that body-part that I believe it really damages your point to try and make this a nationalistic thing where you're generalizing that it's ONLY an American fetish or something America started. America's only been around for a little over 2 centuries. I promise you men's obsession with well endowed women have existed FAR longer than that.
Byakuya769
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In all honesty, I think the op does an excellent job of making he and his gf sound like creeps.
neutralgamer02
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Kind of off-topic.
So, women who dress well and expose their breast more than usual while in public do so because? They are:
A. Making themselves feel better somehow?
B. Trying to attraction attention from males?
C. Being competitive with other females?
D. More than one of the above.
E. None of the above.
So, women who dress well and expose their breast more than usual while in public do so because? They are:
A. Making themselves feel better somehow?
B. Trying to attraction attention from males?
C. Being competitive with other females?
D. More than one of the above.
E. None of the above.
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