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Over the last year:

Things seemed hopefully.
Things got really bad.
Things got hopeful again.
Things are now getting bad again.

Edit:
Guess I'll do the thing:
- Your job?
N/a
- Your home?
N/a
- Your location?
mixed
- Your relationship status?
yes aka N/a
- Your social life?
mixed
- Your health?
mixed
 
- Your job? Don't have one right now, and very thankful to not need one at this moment. I can pursue personal interests and projects, but I will eventually need personal income.
- Your home? It has seemed more lovely than ever recently. I'm getting things to where I want them. Maybe it's just because it's nice out.
- Your location? Potentially related to previous answer. Yeah, actually.
- Your relationship status? So far so good. She's got everything I want. Asian. (tee hee)
- Your social life? Overwhelming. Too many friends, literally. But it's fun.
- Your health? Excellent and only getting better. Reaching a certain level of athleticism. Feeling excellent.


Short answer: Yes. Yes I am.

I had a shitty life for like 20 years and now things are fantastic. Got all the shit out of my life early on.
 
Age 52 and quite happy.

- Your job?
Retired. Military pension pays the bills. Do some occasional volunteer work.

- Your home?
Own a decent sized condo. Currently debt free.

- Your location?
Love Canada but my city is too damn cold. Location was sacrificed in order to find an affordable home and retire early.

- Your relationship status?
Shacked up with my best friend. No kids. Very happy.

- Your social life?
Fairly quiet. A frugal lifestyle is required, but I've definately mellowed as I've aged anyway. Much prefer to do home hobbies now.

- Your health?
Average, although getting old sucks. Still work out regularly in my home gym but maintaining a good weight is getting harder and harder. Cardio sucks.
 
- Your job?
Code monkey and I enjoy it very much. Always want more money though.
- Your home?
I live in an apartment. Hopefully move into a house next year.
- Your location?
I love Colorado but Cali has always been appealing to me.
- Your relationship status?
I have a wonderful GF which I live with and love dearly.
- Your social life?
Lots of great friends. No complaints there.
- Your health?
Want to get stronger. ORA ORA ORA!
 
Job: not satisfied with current job but I'm in a better situation than previous years

Home: not satisfied. Still living in apartment, but the city which is where I want to be.

Relationship status: single. And with all the nutcases I meet, I'm in no hurry to change.

Health: I'm in the best shape physically and mentally since early teens

Location: i'd love to get out of the northeast and move out west. I'm tired of winter
 
I am on the precipice of great things. Until then, however, I live with my brother and father, who are two of the most detestable, lazy, stubborn slobs to ever walk the planet.
 
- Your job? - Unemployed student
- Your home? - Living with the parents
- Your location? - Just outside of London, Constant wanderlust but i've recently got into couchsurfing which is quelling the beast
- Your relationship status? - Never content whether i'm in one or out, serious problem I will eventually have to tackle
- Your social life? - Im an ambivert but I would say I generally end up craving more time alone, something always seems to come up
- Your health? - Only thing I have?

Am I content with life in general? Definitely
 
- Your job? I do contract work for Game Design (which is awesome but inconsistent/difficult to find work) and am my father start a side business in audio recording (which im also interested in)

- Your home? Recently moved with a roommate above my parents floor, giving me some added privacy and a good price with the tradeoff being helping my parents out. A good compromise.

- Your location? A good location overall though not necessarily in my field im working in. May have to move for work purposes

- Your relationship status? Been single for a long time now. Probably has to do with the question below

- Your social life? The only semblance I have of a social life is being somewhat active with a group of friends who i play games with and discuss, but NOTHING else. And its been driving me nuts. I've been a singular focus type of guy, and for the past few years, ive been focused on graduating the various schools i've gone, then finding myself a job. I'm now at a point where i have satisfied all those focuses and i turn back and it's a preverbial wasteland as far as my social life goes. And the worst thing is I have no idea on how to meet people, much less make friends or start some sort of relationship. A bit of a "reap what you sow"moment for me that I've been dealing with.

- Your health? Glad to say I lost over 40 lbs over the year and getting various sickness and medical issues treated. I walk/jog 3 times a week and am now starting to do sit-ups/push-ups on my rest days and overall trying to be more proactive about my health this year.
 
Life situation

Your job?-No job, full time student 
Your home?-Living with parents 
your relationship status?-Single w/ long distance sex partner
Your social life?-Social life is alright, chat with friends pretty frequently and hang out maybe once a month. They don't really have much money or they're flakes. So chats or playing cod together is usually done the most
Your health?-health is good, no overwhelming sickness, been in the gym since oct 2010

I'm in the op's situation, no huge passions in life save for video games. Studying mechanical engineering because of its wide job prospects. But also scared of the future since my heart isn't really in the degree and I don't want to end up at a dead end job or as a bum. 

Thinking about taking the next semester off and taking a good look at my life and try to get on the right track or at least a better one. 

So I'm not really satisfied but it could be worse. 
 
Happier by the day! I had kind of thrown in the white flag over the past couple years but I've been making an effort this summer to reclaim my life from the negative spiral I found myself on. It is a lot of hard work but always worth it. ^_^

Your job? Unemployed (disability)/stay-at-home parent. I'm trying to write more again, but that's more of a hobby than a job unless I get really lucky someday. ;p
Your home? Love our little house, just had some landscaping done on the backyard. We've lived here three years now and it's finally starting to look and feel like "us."
Your location? Portland, Oregon. I moved here eleven years ago and I don't see myself ever moving anywhere else. This is the longest I've ever stayed anywhere, and it feels pretty damn good. I love this city.
Relationship status? Married, celebrated our 7-yr anniversary in July. Very happy. We had a rough patch in 2011, but our relationship feels stronger than ever now.
Social life? This is an area I should probably work on. My best friend died two years ago and I've been hovering around that gap, afraid to try filling it. I've gotten much closer to another friend (who was once just a player in a D&D 4E game I ran years ago), but I need to spend more time with him. It's amazing how time gets away from you. I was hanging out with him about once a week, but it seems like it's been almost two months now since we both had time. Putting it on the list for this weekend!
Health? Fucking terrible but I'm doing something about it for the first time in years. Started going on brief walks a couple of times a day, maybe ten or fifteen minutes apiece. This might sound lame, but for me it's a pretty big deal. I'd like to start swimming in the near future, too. I'm also preparing to get off of a couple of prescriptions, including oxycontin. This will be the first time I will be off narcotic pain medication in eight years. I'm pretty nervous about it, but I think it will be worth it in the end.

I'd give my life a B- right now. In May I probably would have given it a D. I became a "guy with a problem" instead of a "guy looking for a solution" without even realizing what was happening. I feel like myself for the first time in years.
 
- Your job? Yes. Self-employed. I do freelance tech work for a bunch of different language translation companies. Basically I'm the guy who makes software work when it's translated into foreign languages.

- Your home? Yes. Just bought my first home earlier this year.

- Your location? For the most part, yes. I live in a suburb of Baltimore. I'm not going to live there forever but for right now it's fine. Close to family & friends.

- Your relationship status? Yes. I got married on 12/27/2011.

- Your social life? For the most part, yes. It would be nice to widen my circle of friends a bit but I've found that as you get older it's harder to make new friends. It probably doesn't help that I work from home 3-4 days a week. Wife's friends are great, however, and are becoming mine as well

- Your health? Yes. At 35 I'm probably the healthiest I've ever been. I'm 6 feet tall and 155 lbs. No major health issues. I don't smoke, don't eat much meat other than fish, and I don't drink, except on special occasions.

As happy as I am now, if you would have asked me the same questions last year my answer to most of them would have been "No." A lot can change in a year.
 
- Your job? - Minimum wage working for a family member
- Your home? - Live with my parents
- Your location? - I love my town, I guess?
- Your relationship status? - Single, never had a girl, depressing
- Your social life? - Meh. Hang out with my best friends once a week. We just chill and don't do much. We need to start exploring more.
- Your health? - Need to lose weight and get more fit and eat better. Asides from that, I'm okay.
 
- Your job? I'm a student enjoying what I study. I changed majors late in the game from education and I think I'll be much happier for it, as I'm much more engaged with what I'm studying now.
- Your home? It's fine.
- Your location? Small towns have their quirks but I do OK.
- Your relationship status? Wonderful, have an amazing girlfriend.
- Your social life? Pretty solid, a few friends I'm tight with and hang with regularly, and acquaintances in classes.
- Your health? Above the ground, upright, and lucid.

I'd say my life is pretty sweet.
 
- Your job?

I'm not satisfied in an overall sense with what I have right now, but I am satisfied in the direction I'm going. I have a full-time job in my field (though with a small business of a friend of mine), and now I also have an internship with a larger corporation. So, my resume is really filling up, and I'm very confident in my future.


- Your home?

I love where I live now. It's in a great small community with a lot of nice things to see and do. It's beautiful here. It's got plenty of room for us, and I love how we have everything looking.


- Your location?

As I said up there, it's a very beautiful town. That said, I don't like its location. It's too far away from both my jobs and a lot of things in general. We spend far too much on gas because of this.


- Your relationship status?

Married to a wonderful woman. Love her to death. Pretty satisfied with that.


- Your social life?

I do wish I had more of a social life. Mostly I can't see friends and people that I work with when they have cool get-togethers because we're located waaaaay too far away from them.


- Your health?

As far as overall health I was really active, healthy, and good looking about a year ago. I've been getting a bit pudgy over the last few months, especially and had less time to be out and active. So I'm not as satisfied there. I'm also not satisfied with my teeth. No matter how much I take care of them I feel like they fall apart. It really sucks.
 
- Your job? No. It's just an internship and it finishes in a month, but I had no experience at all whent I got it, I like the company a lot and I have some hopes of getting something a bit better when it finishes. In Spain the unenployment rate in young people like me is over 50%, so I can't complain.
- Your home? It's OK. Comfortable and not very expensive.
- Your location? I'd rather live in my hometown, but Seville is a very nice city to live in, so yeah.
- Your relationship status? Very happy. 6 years with my boyfriend ^^
- Your social life? Not good, I am studying a master's when I'm not working and most of my friends live in another city.
- Your health? Overall happy. I have migraine, but not frequently and that's the only thing, so I'm happy.
 
- Your job? I am a student right now, but I hate it. I worked full time in the Summer and it was okay, but I'd never want to do it for a living.

- Your home? I live with my parents still since I'm a student. Okay I guess. Want to move out in the near future though.

- Your location? I actually like where I live. Nice mix of seasons and temperatures.

- Your relationship status? Single and no outlook of that changing soon.

- Your social life? Shitty. I lost all my friends because they went to different colleges. I commute so I can't meet people. It kind of blows.

- Your health? I've been having a major health scare over the last 4 months. I'm at the tail end of knowing for sure if it's a major thing, or a minor issue. If it is the major thing, then I don't know what I'm going to do, if it's the smaller thing, then I'll be happy, but it still sucks. Kind of guessing how much I lose at this point. This past 4 months have been the absolute worst. I worry about this shit every day. Besides that, I used to work out every single day; lifted weights hardcore and what not, but I haven't these past 4 months because of the health thing, although I could have. I don't really think I look worse yet, but I feel like shit every day. I want to get back to it, but I'm waiting till I know what's wrong with me for sure first.

So all in all, no job, no girlfriend, all my friends are gone, and mediocre to bad health (health health, still semi fit), so I guess bad overall? No I guess.
 
not at all.

I have everything I need, and material things I require/want.


But I don't have the one thing I want above all the others, and won't be able too either.
 
Yes and no. I'm happy with my fiance and the fact that I am in college now pursuing a degree in what makes me happy. I'm content with my living situation with a little crappy apt, but I am not happy with my health. Sure it could be worse but constantly watching my sugar intake is a pain. I hate my job and boss but I guess I should be happy I have a job in the first place. It's a temp job for me and I do not wish to be there any longer than I need to be.
 
- Your job?: Still looking for something full time, might have to settle for something else in the interim. Essentially I'm looking for finance jobs that aren't investment bank ones, or anything else I'm qualified for.

- Your home?: Living with my parents, which is sort of shitty. I like them but there are a lot of reasons why it's a strange home life. If I get this job I interviewed for, I'd want to move out and get a studio/1B somewhere closer to work, but I'm not sure if I could swing it financially. I lived with some friends in college and it was a lot of fun, although I don't know if there's a location we'd all want to live in.

- Your location?: Suburbs of Boston. I like it here, here being most of New England, but I would like to move someday. I think I'd love living in England, and I am eligible for a UK passport so it wouldn't be very difficult to move. I want to make a dent in my loans and secure myself professionally before making a move like that though.

- Your relationship status?: Perpetually Single! It's not like I have a ton of options really, can't bring home girls to my parent's house. Well, I suppose I could but it'd be weird. It gets lonely sometimes but I've been single my entire life, minus a few weeks so it's no big deal. I also don't really have the money to throw down for lots of dates, which makes it a bit easier to accept. I might give it a shot when I had a job/my own place, but I have made these sort of comments before. I do get worried that my lack of experience will make it difficult when I do start making an effort.

- Your social life?: Could be better, but I've been seeing more people from my home town now that I live here full time for the first time in 4 years. It's been nice catching up. I had the realization the other day that while I met a lot of people at university, few were better than my old high school friends. I thought it was supposed to be different..

- Your health?: Can't complain, I have asthma and some stomach issues but I am generally healthy. Once I have a health care plan I will try to do something for anxiety, although I can generally function without meds

To answer the big question: No, but I'm not really miserable. It's just a work in progress
 
- Your job? Paid 13.50 an hour, so it's not great, but it could be worse. Monotonous though, hopefully there's opportunity to move up. Also have a ton of debt to pay off too due to College.

- Your home? Live with my parents....okay at times, sometimes not.


- Your location? It's alright. I don't mind it, but it's not my ideal city


- Your relationship status? Single, never been in a relationship, so not good, still young though so it's not a serious problem yet

- Your social life? Terrible since I moved to my parents' home, I have zero friends here, all my friends are in the Midwest or have gone their own way.

- Your health? Pretty good. Always been fit, though perhaps I could stand to gain a bit of muscle.
 
- No real job, I have multiple game projects, but nothing that pays.

- My home situation sucks, I have a reallly tiny room, and I'm sharing it with my best friend while we look for a new place. I'm also sharing my desk too, no room to just be myself for any period of time. I go biking alot to remedy this.

- I love/hate living in san francisco, I'ts a really exciting place to be, lots of really smart and creative people, always something to do, lots of opportunity, but on the flip-side I'm paying so much to be here, cost of living etc.

-Relationship? Haven't had one in over 6 years, I really want a girlfriend, my attempts have failed spectacularly.

-My social life is good, have two different groups of friends currently. One of em is mostly friends from my former school, other is friends from santa cruz who moved to the city.

-My health has honestly never been better, I'm doing really well keeping my weight off, something I have struggled with for a while, I'm mostly vegetarian, exercise at least 4 times a week, if not more, getting that bike was the best decision I've made all year.

My situation is ok, but it could be alot better, honestly if I just had a decent room that I could have my desk and my bed in, I would be significantly happier, because I could close the door and just work on my games, I value solitude.
 
- Your job?
I lost almost all zest and enthusiasm I ever had for my job. Someone once said that do something you love and you won't have to work a single day of you life... but what about the BS office politics? The main reasons why I stay at my job is

1) I get a decent pay and have to pay little expenses, makes saving easy.
2) I can be late for work. Nobody asks me where I'm going or where I've been.
3) It's very hard for me to get fired.

I'm slowly turning into Wally from Dilbert...

- Your home?
I don't have my own house. The place I'm staying is alright apart from the barking in the middle of the night.

- Your location?
Most other people would call this the most boring place on earth but I'm used to it. I hate large crowds and the hustle and bustle of city life. The pace here is slow but if I ever want to go on a trip to somewhere more vibrant, it's only a short plane trip away.

- Your relationship status?
I've got a date tomorrow :D
I really hope this turns out well.

- Your social life?
I have a very, very, very small social circle... but I don't mind it, I prefer having a best friend rather than a hundred acquaintances.

- Your health?
Apart from a few minor issues with my knee and right hand, I think I'm doing alright.

My life did not turn out the way I expected it to be. I really shouldn't be complaining from a financial perspective but a long time ago there was a part of me that wanted something more out of life but it just never happened.

I grew old, jaded and cynical. This is becoming a depressing post...

I've a date tomorrow and I'm happy :)
 
- Your job?
I only recently started my first full-time job. Enjoying it so far especially because I love the field I'm working in (energy).

- Your home?
Right now I'm renting out a room. Trying to find an apartment to share with a colleague. Until then not really happy with where I'm staying.

- Your location?
New city for the job. Don't really like it, but not much can be done about it.

- Your relationship status?
Single right now.

- Your social life?
Social life has been difficult to have these days. Barely any friends since the job, not much contact with friends through online (I should use facebook more, I guess). Reason why I'm single.

- Your health?
Pretty fine.

Overall, I'm happy with where my life is headed. I have some tentative long term plans but need a few things to fall in place before I can confirm those plans.
 
- Your job?
Unemployed, but looking.

- Your home?
Been living with my dad for the past two months since my mom passed away, but it isn't going to be permanent.

- Your location?
Somewhere where I don't want to be.

- Your relationship status?
Single, and not looking in the least. Got out of a serious relationship last April, and I'm still soured from it.

- Your social life?
Non-existent. You'd be surprised at how being out of school for two years with no path or career in mind can so drastically affect your social life. My old friends are off doing bigger and better things. Me? Not so much.

- Your health?
Robust, as always. Maybe I've gained a few pounds out of shear depression and anxiety in the last few months, but it's not a huge deal. I'm young, my body can take some abuse.

I'm 21, nearly void of any type of dreams or ambition. I want, no, need to go to college, but I REALLY don't want to stay in the city where I'm currently located. Something in my life has got to change, but I'm not quite sure where to even start. I don't want to stay where I'm at now that my mom is gone, and I have some money saved up to leave, but I'm afraid I'm going to get homesick and regret my decision.
 
- Your job?
Things are tough, but I keep moving up. Interesting stuff, as always, too.

- Your home?
I'm comfortable enough. I've ended up with a 2nd cat, though, and it's feeling a bit crowded with all the hissing and meowing.

- Your location?
Not a huge fan of L.A. I miss storms and real trees something terrible, though. Mass transit blows here as well. There is some decent hiking at least.

- Your relationship status?
Got a great guy but he's thousands of miles away and between last time I saw him and the next it'll be 6 months. :(

- Your social life?
Ha! What social life?

- Your health?
Not getting much sleep, but damn this body can eat anything it wants no problem. Stomach of iron and pretty tough overall, if not strong exactly. Going past 30 killed my alcohol recovery rate, though.

Altogether it sounds a bit blah, but I feel OK. 6-7/10 surely.
 
I'm 28 years old.

- Your job? I'm unemployed for now and looking for job i was iin school but the school kicked me out until spring due to piss poor grades. I have 1.45 GPA.*
- Your home? I love my new home. I live in a house duplex and I only pay $246 a month due to Section 8 housing. I live alone with no roommates. Can't stand roommates. I only pay rent and electricity. Water, gas and trash are free.
- Your location? I live in beautiful town in Santa Barbara. Been living here since 1991.
- Your relationship status? I don't care about relationship anymore. When i was 21, My first girlfriend was 1 year older than me and she treat me bad and harshly however I learn a lot from her which is good thing because she helps me with figuring out who i am and we are good friend. She helped me through things. Been together like 2 years 2005 to 2007. So yeah. Then 2 years ago there's this girl I met and I started to have feelings for her but she has a boyfriend at that time and she started flirting with me and wants to do stuff with me an I felt very stupid and found out she was using me and manipulated me :( maybe because she sees me as weak due to my disability. So I like to be alone most of the time and have fun. Don't like dramas and yeah. I have hard time trustin people because I been taken advantage a lot. I only had 1 girlfriend in my life.
- Your social life? It's okay I guess. Lost a best friend to me, she was my best friend and everything. How did I lost her? It's because of my attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) I cause problems and dramas which I don't really mean to but I regret everything and I even apologize to her for my behavior but she doesn't accept me or my behavior and that hurts me so much and made me feel guilty and still have heavy guilt from it. I have many friends but I really miss my best friend.
- Your health? Never cared about my health. I'm normal average looking. Many people I know go to gym to look good an I don't even care. Even though that I don't have big muscles and Im happy for who I am. I know Im weird.

*reason why I got bad grades for 10 years is because I recently diagnose with ADHD, Aspergers, minor OCD, and I have learning disability since I was a child. My parents didn't help me as much because they work everyday in different city and I was spoiled by them with gifts or whatever. I didn't get much help from school either because I'm deaf. I don't feel comfortable talking to people who don't communicate well. If people know sign language and I would be comfortable. I really want to finish school and not graduate late because I feel jealous when people already finished young and I beat myself for that and it was hard fr me.

Sorry for long post. Just feel like sharing.
 
Your job?

I'm employed part time at the moment and am looking for full time work. I have a solid educational background and several internships and part time positions on the resume, but finding an entry level job anywhere has been difficult. I'm hoping to eventually become a Foreign Service Officer (just missed being invited to the in-person interviews last year), but until then, anything vaguely related to economic research and analysis would be welcome.

Your home?

Still living with the family in a medium sized condo. I have my own bedroom and bathroom, and I have a nice entertainment setup, so I can't really complain. I get along well with my my family, too. Despite this, it would definitely be nice to have a place of my own and be able to have people over without any fuss.

Your location?

This has improved dramatically for me in the past few months. I used to live in a small town in Colorado for about a decade and I hated it, but now I'm in Southern California and it's great. The food tastes better, there's more to do, the weather is incredible, and it's easier to meet people and try out new things. I would like to live in a city that would allow me to be car free, but other than that, it's nearly perfect.

Your relationship status?

Single and content. I was more introverted in high school and I kept busy in college so I never really made an effort to pursue a relationship. At the moment, I want to stay single, enjoy life with little responsibilities, and experience new things. I'm much more interested in traveling, for example, than I am in trying to hit up bars and flirt with strangers.

Your social life?

Pretty great! I'm actively keeping in touch with close friends from Colorado and it's fun meeting new people in California. There is a much more active local fighting game scene here, and being near L.A. allowed me to finally attend one of GAF's meetups. Living in a new place and not being in school is forcing me to take more of an initiative than I'm used to, but that's fine.

Your health?

Good, if not perfect. Outside of minor things like allergies and poor eyesight, I don't have any chronic conditions to grapple with. I was overweight three years ago, but I shed over 50 pounds in college by just exercising more while listening to podcasts. I need to eat better and I could stand to put on some muscle, certainly. In general, though, I'm in decent shape and very comfortable getting around wherever I need to on foot.

General

Things were already going well before I moved and they have been even better since the move. I'm getting a little restless with my work situation and I would like to get a place of my own in a major city, but I'm young and optimistic about my future prospects.
 
- Your job?

I'm a nurse. Despite all the complaining we get payed pretty well and there is work everywhere. I also happen to really enjoy my job and i love the people i work with.

- Your home?

Living with my parents for a little while until my partner and i find our own place but i really like my family. Not the best situation but we have our eye on a place now so things will be really good soon.

- Your location?

Yeah i like it where i live.

- Your relationship status?

Fantastic. Got back together with the girl i love and things are going incredible.

- Your social life?

I'm not really big on social life. I have lots of friends but i don't tend to go out much. I spend most of my time with my GF.

- Your health?

I'm healthier and fitter than ever before so definitely yes.
 
- Your job?

Unemployed, but looking. Way too picky in where I work though, so it's not going well.

- Your home?

I'll never complain about a roof over my head. I like where I live, and it's comfortable.

- Your location?

I love Atlantic Canada.

- Your relationship status?

Single, and not looking. I have no desire for a girlfriend, but wouldn't be opposed to it if I met someone interesting to me.

- Your social life?

Non-existent. My best friend moved away before the Summer, and I slowly drifted away from the rest of my social circle over the years.

- Your health?

I don't know, I have stomach issues and it sucks. Nothing too serious, I think. Nothing found with all the tests, anyway.
 
- Your job?
Still with the Navy but retiring in a few months. Still not sure what to do next. Free college and living allowance, but what to study...

- Your home?
Japan for a couple more months, but once I retire, I'm on my own. Nothing owned. Will be renting a room at my best friend's house in San Diego

- Your location?
Love it in Japan, but it's difficult to do things when you're saving for retirement without knowledge of how long you will be unemployed. The yen rate makes it prohibitably expensive

- Your relationship status?
N/A. I had a couple Japanese girlfriends but both ended up weirding out on me.

- Your social life?
Non-existant out here now, as I'm trying to save money and all my friends are back in San Diego

- Your health?
Good. Knee problems, some surgeries. Should mean some of my retirement is tax free as it becomes disability.
 
Being a 28-year old with an education in Economics and a complete disinterest in actually working in economics but not having any huge passions in life and thus not knowing what to do instead, I thought I'd ask GAF how you guys feel about your current life situation.
Are you satisfied with

- Your job?
- Your home?
- Your location?
- Your relationship status?
- Your social life?
- Your health?

job: love it. not my dream job, but a lot better than people would think if they looked at it on paper. work environment is fantastic, and i have a lot of freedom to flex my brain and put my degree to use.

home: nice. moved in in mid-july. it's not too far from work, but i don't like living completely by myself.

location: very good. tustin is a nice area.

relationship status: i'd like to be in a relationship, but only with someone i really like. something i thought was mutual didn't go through, but we're good friends.

social life: getting better. still adjusting to the move, and i'm slow to get used to new people. fortunately, i've been able to hang out on the weekend with some of the few people i know in the area. it's been good.

health: i eat shit, but exercise daily. it keeps my weight the same, and i've never quite reached my final weight goal. stress is kinda keeping that from happening.

overall it's a definite improvement over last year, where i didn't have my own place, i was constantly doing freelance work for money, and i had no relationship status at all, or much of a social life either.

the only significant drawback is that my grandmother is dying. she was so good to me and my sister our whole lives and it sucks to see her suffer so much.
 
Are you satisfied with

- Your job? it's ok. like any workplace, it has it's problems. i'm valued as an employee and can see a lot of areas where i can have a positive influence. pay is ok, but could do with a bit of a bump up. given the positive feedback i've gotten from some project managers i could probably get a raise in my review.
- Your home?it's ok. housemates are fine, but i'm kinda sick of sharing an apartment. wouldn't mind moving in with my girlfriend. 7 minute work from work, which is fucking awesome.
- Your location? brisbane (aus) is a nice city. could do with a bit of modernisation. nice mild weather though. i wouldn't be opposed to moving interstate or overseas.
- Your relationship status?in a realtionship. i think i love her and i could see myself living with her and maybe having kids someday. maybe.
- Your social life?i wouldn't mind expanding it a little more. could probably do with socialising at work a bit more. i have a few circles of friends though.
- Your health?yeah, i'm ok. i'd like to go to the gym, but i'm reasonably healthy. i'm one of those guys that can't put on any weight.
thanks for that. it's good to take a step back and reflect on my life.

things have certainly improved from a year ago... man... what a pit of despair that was.
 
- Your job? LOL
- Your home? Not Mine
- Your location? Slum
- Your relationship status? LOL
- Your social life? LOL
- Your health? Poor
 
- Your job? Part time, counting cars. Money for food and hobbies. Also part time college.
- Your home? Living with my mom + her boyfriend. Truly appreciate my mom and her patience with me, especially her boyfriend who has been nothing but great.
- Your location? Silicon Valley, expensive.
- Your relationship status? Girlfriend of six years. Happy usually.
- Your social life? A good handful amount of friends. Most from elementary school.
- Your health? Decent. Was in an accident and the future looks good, considering what happened.

Life would be a 6/10. Would want to finish college or make more money.
 
- Your job?
Dishwasher/fryer at the best barbecue restaurant in town. 4 days a week split shift, break in the middle of the day and clock out for the night usually somewhere between 9 and 11. Thanks to my seemingly ironic sense of work ethic (I'm generally apathetic when it comes to adult stuff), I go in on an off day to help with inventory, and recently because of the summer weather, I occasionally do some work on the owner's family ranch. Minimum wage, but I don't care about money.
I have no professional ambition. There's nothing I absolutely want to do when I'm older, so I don't have any real plans for a career. This job is alright for me at the moment, but it's not something I want to do forever. I won't leave unless I have a clear idea of what I want to do, so who knows how long I'll be here.

- Your home?
A regular house in a residential neighborhood. 2.5 bedroom, 1 bath, garage. Living with my dad, who asks for $110 in rent money. I've got my 360 and my sweet desktop set in front of my couch. I only go in the backyard to mow the grass. For my purposes, it gets a 7.5/10.

- Your location?
A decent town of about 50,000 people. The tallest point in the city is the overpass next to the train station leading in/out of downtown. Pretty flat, which is great for riding my bike, and the lack of huge buildings is great for sky exposure. I can get from one side of town to the other in about 20 minutes on my bike. Our city's most notable defining quality is that it's the connecting town between four other cities, two of which are a big deal, one is a college town, and the fourth is nothing important. I like this place, it's the perfect size for me. Huge places like Portland feel crushing and crowded.

- Your relationship status?
None. I have the feeling I might actually end up forever alone. I can barely relate to normal people, so the chances of landing a girlfriend are insanely low.

- Your social life?
I have 1 best friend, and we share similar styles of humor. We have a considerable amount of fun despite how little we actually do. While he can somewhat successfully bullshit his way through a conversation, I have a hard time talking to people at all, so I'm not great at making friends. The two of us met at an anime club, and it still amazes me how well it worked out.
There is a guy at my work who I've been on friendly terms with. He even invited me to his place for a social gathering, even though it was pretty lame (despite my and my friend's efforts to keep it poppin'). He's an alright guy, and I hope we keep on being decent work friends.

- Your health?
2012 is the year my body got messed up. The day before Memorial Day, I pulled a muscle in my back pulling something way too heavy along the ground. My back has been hurting ever since, it mostly being a dull pain throughout the day. It doesn't affect my ability to move or work, but it's always on my mind, and I still sleep on the floor in an attempt to keep it in shape.
I thought I burned my lip on some hot pizza, but after researching lip scabs, I have reason to believe what I had was actually a cold sore. Never had one before, so I had no idea it could have been that at all. Anyway, the scab, being on my mouth which I move and touch all the damn time, didn't heal very well, and now my beautiful lips have a blemish.
Burnt my knuckle of a Cres Cor. As a dishwasher, my hands are almost always wet, so I wore a waterproof band-aid and glove for several days while washing dishes. Didn't work since my hand got all sweaty anyway, so I had to learn to use my left hand for the sprayer in order to keep it out of the stream. Finally healed after two long weeks, but not perfectly.
Years of chewing stuff has finally caught up to me, as I noticed how worn down my teeth are. My canines are about as flat as my other teeth, and there's a noticeable (with my tongue) divot in the ends of my front two teeth. Also, I most likely have a cavity or two going on, thanks to all the sugar I liked to put in tea back when I drank it all the time. Slight pain in my tooth at times, mostly when I eat or drink anything sugary or bad for teeth. From what I know about dental health, my current strategy of brushing better and hoping it doesn't get worse isn't going to do shit.
My teeth and back are the only real issues there, I just don't like my body being worn down at all. At 23 years old, I should have a perfect body, not one showing the first signs of deterioration. I hope my teeth last the rest of my life, and I hope my back doesn't remain in poor shape for too long.

Overall I would say I'm barely not happy, like a 5.5/10. I really need to do something at some point. Just waiting on that inspiration...
 
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