ChubbyHuggs
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I'd like to think someone on here as helped at least one member get laid. Shit, if people BabySlayer is about to get a few people laid in the Tinder thread.
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Cute girl at work stopped talking to me
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I'd like to think someone on here as helped at least one member get laid. Shit, if people BabySlayer is about to get a few people laid in the Tinder thread.
nothing yet. depends how today goes.
Guys I'm about to share how to achieve my success. For your eyes only.
First, I befriend a girl I'm attracted to. Next I overthink and analyze every aspect of our interactions. I come up with the conclusion that she wants me even if most people would say she's just being friendly. Because I'm already in love with her (since the first hour I met her) I show subtle signs of affection like giving her popcorn and talking to her while still appearing as a friend. This part is important: she must like me as a friend or this won't work. In five years I finally ask her out (she will say yes) and ten minutes in our very first date I propose to her.
I'm on year 2 with this girl. I'll post a thread of my engagement in three years. Can't wait!
First, I befriend a girl I'm attracted to. Next I overthink and analyze every aspect of our interactions. I come up with the conclusion that she wants me even if most people would say she's just being friendly. Because I'm already in love with her (since the first hour I met her) I show subtle signs of affection like giving her popcorn and talking to her while still appearing as a friend. This part is important: she must like me as a friend or this won't work. In five years I finally ask her out (she will say yes) and ten minutes in our very first date I propose to her.
I'm on year 2 with this girl. I'll post a thread of my engagement in three years. Can't wait!
No, because no one ever listens to our advice.
Uh, only if you actually ask her.
mullet2000
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That dumb "text girls that you have a large bone for them to examine" thread apparently got some people laid.
Yep. Basically, any time I've known someone to "fall" for someone within just a couple of weeks of knowing them, it almost never goes well. I mean, you can be attracted to someone right away. But falling for someone that quick, yeah....
I think the problem is that people that do this, tend to over-analyze everything in the friendship. Also everything is now geared towards it eventually leading to dating. So their actions (or how they act towards that person even if they don't realize how they are acting), is now impacted by them wanting to be in a romantic relationship (which can then turn that person off). Plus, I don't think many people are attracted to people that fall that quickly. It seems desperate.
Professor Lich
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Why is it always a cute girl?
Crazy_Sunshine
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DUDE you just gave away your plan!!! I hope she doesn't know you post here.
Congrats though, Hope it works out
Got to throw caution to the wind sometimes OP. You'll never know till you try something. Actions speak louder than words.
i have no confidence for that.
Why would shy-awkward guys fall deeply in love during the first week with an uggo?
No better time than now to change that.
Professor Lich
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But aren't all the thread titles Cute Girl blah blah blah? Maybe it's all the same girl.
crowphoenix
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No. Just no.
You haven't asked her out so a date that was never on can't be off.
You
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Over
Thinking
This.
Bobs Big Boy
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You had one job.
Sounds like there's still an opportunity here from your perception. Wouldn't let what happens at the office dictate whether there's an approach. Sometimes the only way to know is just to pursue what you're after.
ChubbyHuggs
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Her inheritance is always a good answer.
mullet2000
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That would be love at first sight for me.
Trust me, it's better to ask before waste more time. Right now you are only thinking about what she could answer, doing jokes and not paying attention to other girls. You already are friends, What are you waiting for?
Wasting time man, wasting. If she says OK you will be very happy, if she says no you feel relieved.
Jesus Christ. Just touch her fucking shoulder and get it over with.
But in actuality, leave her alone until she talks to you again. It is legitimately upsetting when this sort of stuff happens, and sometimes people act weird. If you've tried to talk to her and she ignores you, just let it go for now. She may come around again and want to be friends, but there's no other moves you can make at this point without seeming weird or creepy.
But in actuality, leave her alone until she talks to you again. It is legitimately upsetting when this sort of stuff happens, and sometimes people act weird. If you've tried to talk to her and she ignores you, just let it go for now. She may come around again and want to be friends, but there's no other moves you can make at this point without seeming weird or creepy.
Dark Octave
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He could just move on to someone else to fall for within a couple weeks. It's kind of like playing the lottery. Eventually you will win.
inb4 OP gets the date, everyone looks foolish.
"When you consider the other choices, 'manure' is actually pretty refreshing."
just do it. it will feel terrible, but that is your fault. you built her up to be something amazing, and the thought of rejection from her is messing you up. Rip that band-aid off stumble through the words and see what happens.
i think she is starting to talk to me again. that's twice today that she just started a conversation while i only looked at her. so that's good news.
-MD-
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This is seriously the hardest I've laughed since I signed up for gaf. Holy shit that smiley.
60+ seconds of straight laughter.
Jesus Christ man.
Sho_Nuff82
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Not really, you can only win the lottery if you play. Op won't even play (ask).
Dr. Giggles
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Happened to me to bruh, she would always want to hang out and would never follow through. Best advice is to drop her.
That's not even close to what's happening here.
Yes, that's a good sign. Also go buy a love diary to document every single time she blinks while her head is vaguely tilted towards your direction, because it certainly means there's an off-chance that it was a wink and not a regular blink. You can't miss this sort of thing!
OP needs to start participating or he'll eventually lose.
Fair enough point.
Anyways, it's hard to entirely gauge the situation since we don't know either of these people. But if I had to guess, I would say that she put some distance between OP for two possible reasons:
a) She's with another guy (or met another guy), as another poster said.
b) She could tell that OP was thinking beyond friendship (so he was coming on too strong). So her putting distance and slowly talking again, is her hope that OP chills out and just views it as a friendship and nothing more.
But again, that's going purely off what he's written. SO.
Snkfanatic
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Why the ass though...lol
Featheredkitten
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Dr. Giggles
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lol, my bad just read the first few lines. I should read more...
Sho_Nuff82
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Dating-GAF suggested tinder which got me laid, but I don't know if that counts as I was already sexually active.
Fair enough point.
Anyways, it's hard to entirely gauge the situation since we don't know either of these people. But if I had to guess, I would say that she put some distance between OP for two possible reasons:
a) She's with another guy (or met another guy), as another poster said.
b) She could tell that OP was thinking beyond friendship (so he was coming on too strong). So her putting distance and slowly talking again, is her hope that OP chills out and just views it as a friendship and nothing more.
But again, that's going purely off what he's written. SO.
i'm going with option B. it seems like i after i chilled out she kind of started talking again.
Now start raising your left eyebrow a little bit when you look at her. That's look-talk for 'hey if you want to ask me out you should come ask me out because i sure fucking won't'.
Or, you know, you could ask her out.
GolfclapThe pedestal is just gonna keep getting taller. RIP, OP.
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