Subpar Scrub
Banned
Lmao, wishing the best lookatmego. I think you need to reconsider how much you drink when you have work the next day (or later that morning) though. Seems to be a running worry I've observed.
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Dating Age |OT7| Tough Love
- Thread starter Advocatus Diaboli
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I'm not finding sex very pleasurable, I guess it's because of the condom?
The closest literal translation that I can think is "yes oh yes", the objective of the phrase is to express more agreement than a simple "yes/si".
The closest literal translation that I can think is "yes oh yes", the objective of the phrase is to express more agreement than a simple "yes/si".
Carl-Sagan
Member
Are you death gripping when you're doing the deed to get more 'feeling'?I'm not finding sex very pleasurable, I guess it's because of the condom?
hydrophilic attack
Member
The closest literal translation that I can think is "yes oh yes", the objective of the phrase is to express more agreement than a simple "yes/si".
Well in the end she was probably drunk (she said this at 5am) or had a friend mess with her phone
because she didn't get back to me when i tried to set up a time lol
hydrophilic attack
Member
Yes sure, because that's an obvious conclusion to leap too. way too soon for you to think she's not interested and maybe she's busy right now or even asleep. If she gets back to you great, if not move on.
sure but i go back to my country tomorrow lol
hydrophilic attack
Member
Got to let this one go then, you're too thirsty. Women can usually smell thirsty dudes from a mile off.
that was the plan lol
and better to try and come off as thirsty than not try at all
my schedule for this trip was too full to meet anyone anyway lol
LookAtMeGo
Member
Kidneys intact. Brain cells missing.Check to see if you're missing a kidney or not.
For sure. I've been good the last week or so and was feeling great. Then I got the texts last night from these girls and I caved. Waste of time, waste of money and I'm a little diappointed in myself. At least I didnt go to my friends party or I wouldnt have even made it to work. Back to hibernation today.Lmao, wishing the best lookatmego. I think you need to reconsider how much you drink when you have work the next day (or later that morning) though. Seems to be a running worry I've observed.
LookAtMeGo
Member
Unfortunately 😭Sperm cells all accounted for!
LookAtMeGo
Member
Ok so last night couldnt have gone any worse. Im sure it could have but fuck me.
So I dont even know these girls. They tracked me down on instagram. Ive seen them at the pub downstairs a few times and they were nice. So I met them at the bar. They kept calling me "hot neighbour" all night so I'm like OK this is going somewhere. All night I'm like go home shane just fucking go home, so I didnt. There were 4 of them. 2 of them were hot, the other 2 not so much. All of them were being flirty as fuck. I was having a good time for the most part. Then I bumped into an old friend who wanted us to go party but one of the girls is like "no you are coming home with me" so I'm like ok. The other cute one was grabbing my hand all night and putting it on her ass.
So after the bar I'm like I have to fucking go home I have to work and shes like no come with me. So I went with her and when we get there the other 3 girls are already there. As soon as we get in the fucking house she is like "everyone has to go home Im going to bed" I didnt think she meant me too but she did. So Im like wtf is this shit? So I ask the other girl who kept putting my hand on her ass "whats her deal? She asked me to come back here" and shes like "oh she has a boyfriend" im like "haha ok then. Well what are you saying? You want to come back to my house?" And shes like "ohhh hun I would but I'm married" like WTF!! im like "why the fuck did you girls invite me out then? Wtf is this?" And I stumbled home.
On the way home I bumped into who I'm pretty sure is a hooker and invite her to my house. She comes with me. By the time I got home I was pissed so I just went to sleep. I thought she left but then I saw her on the couch. I tried to kick her out but she wasnt moving so I had to leave her there to go to work. I took the expensive laptop off the table and hid it under my bed and tossed any jewlery under there as well.
Now I'm at work all pissed off and hung over and I was late and Im guna get in shit and Im paranoid that my shots guna get stolen all beacuase fucking nothing.
So I dont even know these girls. They tracked me down on instagram. Ive seen them at the pub downstairs a few times and they were nice. So I met them at the bar. They kept calling me "hot neighbour" all night so I'm like OK this is going somewhere. All night I'm like go home shane just fucking go home, so I didnt. There were 4 of them. 2 of them were hot, the other 2 not so much. All of them were being flirty as fuck. I was having a good time for the most part. Then I bumped into an old friend who wanted us to go party but one of the girls is like "no you are coming home with me" so I'm like ok. The other cute one was grabbing my hand all night and putting it on her ass.
So after the bar I'm like I have to fucking go home I have to work and shes like no come with me. So I went with her and when we get there the other 3 girls are already there. As soon as we get in the fucking house she is like "everyone has to go home Im going to bed" I didnt think she meant me too but she did. So Im like wtf is this shit? So I ask the other girl who kept putting my hand on her ass "whats her deal? She asked me to come back here" and shes like "oh she has a boyfriend" im like "haha ok then. Well what are you saying? You want to come back to my house?" And shes like "ohhh hun I would but I'm married" like WTF!! im like "why the fuck did you girls invite me out then? Wtf is this?" And I stumbled home.
On the way home I bumped into who I'm pretty sure is a hooker and invite her to my house. She comes with me. By the time I got home I was pissed so I just went to sleep. I thought she left but then I saw her on the couch. I tried to kick her out but she wasnt moving so I had to leave her there to go to work. I took the expensive laptop off the table and hid it under my bed and tossed any jewlery under there as well.
Now I'm at work all pissed off and hung over and I was late and Im guna get in shit and Im paranoid that my shots guna get stolen all beacuase fucking nothing.
Puck Beaverton
Banned
Your life sounds cool
LookAtMeGo
Member
Its really not
hydrophilic attack
Member
Ok so last night couldnt have gone any worse. Im sure it could have but fuck me.
So I dont even know these girls. They tracked me down on instagram. Ive seen them at the pub downstairs a few times and they were nice. So I met them at the bar. They kept calling me "hot neighbour" all night so I'm like OK this is going somewhere. All night I'm like go home shane just fucking go home, so I didnt. There were 4 of them. 2 of them were hot, the other 2 not so much. All of them were being flirty as fuck. I was having a good time for the most part. Then I bumped into an old friend who wanted us to go party but one of the girls is like "no you are coming home with me" so I'm like ok. The other cute one was grabbing my hand all night and putting it on her ass.
So after the bar I'm like I have to fucking go home I have to work and shes like no come with me. So I went with her and when we get there the other 3 girls are already there. As soon as we get in the fucking house she is like "everyone has to go home Im going to bed" I didnt think she meant me too but she did. So Im like wtf is this shit? So I ask the other girl who kept putting my hand on her ass "whats her deal? She asked me to come back here" and shes like "oh she has a boyfriend" im like "haha ok then. Well what are you saying? You want to come back to my house?" And shes like "ohhh hun I would but I'm married" like WTF!! im like "why the fuck did you girls invite me out then? Wtf is this?" And I stumbled home.
On the way home I bumped into who I'm pretty sure is a hooker and invite her to my house. She comes with me. By the time I got home I was pissed so I just went to sleep. I thought she left but then I saw her on the couch. I tried to kick her out but she wasnt moving so I had to leave her there to go to work. I took the expensive laptop off the table and hid it under my bed and tossed any jewlery under there as well.
Now I'm at work all pissed off and hung over and I was late and Im guna get in shit and Im paranoid that my shots guna get stolen all beacuase fucking nothing.
breh
LookAtMeGo
Member
I miss just living on my farm tending to the horses every day. This shit is getting tired.
Anyone good in Spanish?
Trying to chat with a South American girl on tinder with my poor Spanish. I asked whether she wants to meet up later for a drink and she says nothing for several hours, then "si que si"
Anyone know what that means, lol. Google is failing me 😔
"Yes, I said yes."
I used the boost feature on Tinder and within a minute I run out of girls 20 miles from me. That's not funny.
How do you mean? I know Boost's "larger" your range search in some way.
Are you Brad Pitt?Ok so last night couldnt have gone any worse. Im sure it could have but fuck me.
So I dont even know these girls. They tracked me down on instagram. Ive seen them at the pub downstairs a few times and they were nice. So I met them at the bar. They kept calling me "hot neighbour" all night so I'm like OK this is going somewhere. All night I'm like go home shane just fucking go home, so I didnt. There were 4 of them. 2 of them were hot, the other 2 not so much. All of them were being flirty as fuck. I was having a good time for the most part. Then I bumped into an old friend who wanted us to go party but one of the girls is like "no you are coming home with me" so I'm like ok. The other cute one was grabbing my hand all night and putting it on her ass.
So after the bar I'm like I have to fucking go home I have to work and shes like no come with me. So I went with her and when we get there the other 3 girls are already there. As soon as we get in the fucking house she is like "everyone has to go home Im going to bed" I didnt think she meant me too but she did. So Im like wtf is this shit? So I ask the other girl who kept putting my hand on her ass "whats her deal? She asked me to come back here" and shes like "oh she has a boyfriend" im like "haha ok then. Well what are you saying? You want to come back to my house?" And shes like "ohhh hun I would but I'm married" like WTF!! im like "why the fuck did you girls invite me out then? Wtf is this?" And I stumbled home.
On the way home I bumped into who I'm pretty sure is a hooker and invite her to my house. She comes with me. By the time I got home I was pissed so I just went to sleep. I thought she left but then I saw her on the couch. I tried to kick her out but she wasnt moving so I had to leave her there to go to work. I took the expensive laptop off the table and hid it under my bed and tossed any jewlery under there as well.
Now I'm at work all pissed off and hung over and I was late and Im guna get in shit and Im paranoid that my shots guna get stolen all beacuase fucking nothing.
Spoiled Milk
Banned
LookAtMeGo, where do you live? I'll stop by and take care of her.
How do you mean? I know Boost's "larger" your range search in some way.
I guess I just swiped on literally every girl in a 20 mile radius. It was telling me to change my location because it couldn't find new people near me. It may have been temporary though since more girls are back.
I guess I just swiped on literally every girl in a 20 mile radius. It was telling me to change my location because it couldn't find new people near me. It may have been temporary though since more girls are back.
I would recommend you not to use either boost or gold. I think you're the dude who also use Gold right.
LookAtMeGo
Member
Far from it.Are you Brad Pitt?
Lol. I hope to god shes gone by the time I get home. And that shes all thats gone.LookAtMeGo, where do you live? I'll stop by and take care of her.
Spoiled Milk
Banned
C'mon, everyone knows you're a looker. But the lesson you have to learn is that you don't have to fuck every chick that looks your way, especially not the losers.Far from it.
LookAtMeGo
Member
But I havent been laid in a while now. Its the only reason I went out last night. Im guna hit up the catfish suspect tonight and see if she wants to catch some Netflix.
Puck Beaverton
Banned
I mean, you have something interesting happening every week. I don't see how that's a bad thing.
LookAtMeGo
Member
I dunno. I guess its not really that bad. Im just getting tired of shit. It was fun for a while but I just feel exhausted. I want to settle down. I need to stop drinking so much first I think. Ive been talking to some older women on Tinder the last few days. Probably more likely to find something there instead of chasing the hot young ass around.
Ive been pretty good the last bit with the drinking and going back to the gym and eating good. Last night was a slip up for sure.
Ive been pretty good the last bit with the drinking and going back to the gym and eating good. Last night was a slip up for sure.
So,
I agreed on a date with a girl. I asked about place. She never replied (Since Wednesday) . Do I...
1) Ask again
2) Remove her
I know I should remove her but... damn shes pretty.
You can send one follow up message, basically asking if we still on.
But no more.
You can send one follow up message, basically asking if we still on.
But no more.
I wrote 1 min ago, she replied immediately. Apparently a relative passed. Now I feel like a major dick. But she still wanted to see me so... yah
I would recommend you not to use either boost or gold. I think you're the dude who also use Gold right.
I got it yesterday just to try it out and it's worthless so far. Definitely not doing that again.
I got it yesterday just to try it out and it's worthless so far. Definitely not doing that again.
Yup it sucks
Advocatus Diaboli
Member
I spent $300 on a stripper last night but she was totally into me, y'all.
If it no longer brings you joy, then why do it? The choices you're making now aren't going to help you reach your goals. Getting there from here requires a conscious effort to surround yourself with the people who can advance, not hinder, your journey.
You may not find it by hitting up multiple older women on Tinder either. You're still chasing ass; it's just, you know, beef instead of veal.
I dunno. I guess its not really that bad. Im just getting tired of shit. It was fun for a while but I just feel exhausted. I want to settle down. I need to stop drinking so much first I think. Ive been talking to some older women on Tinder the last few days. Probably more likely to find something there instead of chasing the hot young ass around.
Ive been pretty good the last bit with the drinking and going back to the gym and eating good. Last night was a slip up for sure.
If it no longer brings you joy, then why do it? The choices you're making now aren't going to help you reach your goals. Getting there from here requires a conscious effort to surround yourself with the people who can advance, not hinder, your journey.
You may not find it by hitting up multiple older women on Tinder either. You're still chasing ass; it's just, you know, beef instead of veal.
Commanche Raisin Toast
Member
UPDATE: Date #4 has concluded, and was a smashing success. We went to a museum for a while and had some bad ass korean fried chicken afterward. She invited me over and we hung out on the couch and talked a bit over drinks.
So it turns out that she just doesn't really text, message, or make phone calls. She said she and her family were late to the cable/internet/cell phones phases so she just never really got into that kind of communication while everyone else her age was. Now she doesn't really feel the urge to do it, and prefers talking in person, or "as needed". I'm fine with that, and considering how well things are going with us there's no logical reason to be bothered by it anyway.
She asked me to stay the night and we slept in her bed again. She wants to get dinner sometime this week and come hang out at her place again Friday night. Also: when we were going to sleep she told me that she's taking things slow with me *because* she likes me so much. I'm really glad I didn't rush into this!
So it turns out that she just doesn't really text, message, or make phone calls. She said she and her family were late to the cable/internet/cell phones phases so she just never really got into that kind of communication while everyone else her age was. Now she doesn't really feel the urge to do it, and prefers talking in person, or "as needed". I'm fine with that, and considering how well things are going with us there's no logical reason to be bothered by it anyway.
She asked me to stay the night and we slept in her bed again. She wants to get dinner sometime this week and come hang out at her place again Friday night. Also: when we were going to sleep she told me that she's taking things slow with me *because* she likes me so much. I'm really glad I didn't rush into this!
Yup, has happened to me tons, years ago - if I had a nickel...So after the bar I'm like I have to fucking go home I have to work and shes like no come with me. So I went with her and when we get there the other 3 girls are already there. As soon as we get in the fucking house she is like "everyone has to go home Im going to bed" I didnt think she meant me too but she did. So Im like wtf is this shit? So I ask the other girl who kept putting my hand on her ass "whats her deal? She asked me to come back here" and shes like "oh she has a boyfriend" im like "haha ok then. Well what are you saying? You want to come back to my house?" And shes like "ohhh hun I would but I'm married" like WTF!! im like "why the fuck did you girls invite me out then? Wtf is this?" And I stumbled home.
Basically, some women just want attention, sometimes due to their husbands/boyfriends not giving it to them, sometimes just because it feels good. Took me a while to figure out when a woman wants me, or just wants attention from me.
I've recently become single. Heart wasn't in the relationship anymore after almost 2 years so decided to cut my losses, not drag it out for both our sakes and break up with her.
I'm just trying to get back into it now, gonna start going to the gym again this week, eat a little healthier and then start looking around d again. Gonna have to install Plenty of Fish and Tinder again, in a way I've missed the patter you can get on it.
I know there's two girls at work who are interested in me as well. I'm not averse to work flings and stuff and my works a hotbed for it so might explore those options but I'll definitely keep my wits about me.
As sad as I am that my relationship is over I'm actually quite excited to be single again!
I'm just trying to get back into it now, gonna start going to the gym again this week, eat a little healthier and then start looking around d again. Gonna have to install Plenty of Fish and Tinder again, in a way I've missed the patter you can get on it.
I know there's two girls at work who are interested in me as well. I'm not averse to work flings and stuff and my works a hotbed for it so might explore those options but I'll definitely keep my wits about me.
As sad as I am that my relationship is over I'm actually quite excited to be single again!
LookAtMeGo
Member
You got worked!I spent $300 on a stripper last night but she was totally into me, y'all.
If it no longer brings you joy, then why do it? The choices you're making now aren't going to help you reach your goals. Getting there from here requires a conscious effort to surround yourself with the people who can advance, not hinder, your journey.
You may not find it by hitting up multiple older women on Tinder either. You're still chasing ass; it's just, you know, beef instead of veal.
Yeah I hear what you're saying. I've been avoiding hanging out with some friends because they're couples and they just want to do "boring" stuff like have dinner at their house and play cards. They still like to drink though. I'm always just wanting to go out and get fucked up and try to pick up at the bar. I do like being social and drinking. I just do it too damn much. I have no balance in my life lately. Its just party party party. Its like, thats who I was in my early 20's and now that I'm single again I just reverted back the only other thing I know and thats to party. But its kicking my fuckin ass now and I'll be 33 in November.
I'm into fitness. I like lifting weights. But its been taking a backseat to my partying the last few months. Plus I'm fuckin horny all the time so when I dont have anything steady I gotta go get it and the only way I know how to do that is to party.
I know I'm just chasing ass. Im always chasing ass. The relationships I've been in is because I was chasing ass and just happen to come across a good one. Thats why I figure I will try it with some older women because maybe they will be less interested in just getting pissed all the time and be a little more sure about what it is they are looking for.
I've always needed a woman in my life to calm the wild bear in me but I need to prove to myself that I can do it on my own and stick with it. And I have before. I just keep falling back into binge drinking and blowing all my money on partying. Its usually after I get my heart broken or something in my life goes to shit and it takes a while to snap out of it. I feel like I am on the verge of another good streak here now that the summer is over.
But you're right about the people thing. I need new friends. Seems like everyone I meet is just another party animal though.
I need to learn this. I was sure I was getting fucked last night. Disappointed.Yup, has happened to me tons, years ago - if I had a nickel...
Basically, some women just want attention, sometimes due to their husbands/boyfriends not giving it to them, sometimes just because it feels good. Took me a while to figure out when a woman wants me, or just wants attention from me.
LookAtMeGo
Member
🙏
A wild Leeness appears
A wild Leeness appears
dreamcastmaster
Banned
Far from it.
Lol. I hope to god shes gone by the time I get home. And that shes all thats gone.
Dude, you now owe that hooker the overnight fee and she knows where you live. She's going to look under the bed, its that obvious.
LookAtMeGo
Member
Lol its all good. I just got home 5 min ago. Shes gone and everything is still here. I'm not worried about anyone coming after me for money or anything.Dude, you now owe that hooker the overnight fee and she knows where you live. She's going to look under the bed, its that obvious.
Advocatus Diaboli
Member
I feel like creepiness is roughly 98% male-domianted here, so I wanted to throw out this question to the field: do you keep mementos of partners?
(I don't. It's always a solemn feeling when I throw out a girl's toothbrush.)
My friend apparently keeps used condoms. She also keeps, and then doesn't wash, her panties that guys used to wipe themselves off with (though I'm not entirely sure of the logistics here). At least the condoms are in trash cans.
I feel slightly ill. And, anyway, back from the edge: Brazilian girl and I texted back and forth a bit all day.
(I don't. It's always a solemn feeling when I throw out a girl's toothbrush.)
My friend apparently keeps used condoms. She also keeps, and then doesn't wash, her panties that guys used to wipe themselves off with (though I'm not entirely sure of the logistics here). At least the condoms are in trash cans.
I feel slightly ill. And, anyway, back from the edge: Brazilian girl and I texted back and forth a bit all day.
I feel like creepiness is roughly 98% male-domianted here, so I wanted to throw out this question to the field: do you keep mementos of partners?
(I don't. It's always a solemn feeling when I throw out a girl's toothbrush.)
My friend apparently keeps used condoms. She also keeps, and then doesn't wash, her panties that guys used to wipe themselves off with (though I'm not entirely sure of the logistics here). At least the condoms are in trash cans.
I thought you meant ticket stubs and trinkets. Not...that.
I keep nothing more than memories and digital photos.
Puck Beaverton
Banned
I'm fucking dyingI feel like creepiness is roughly 98% male-domianted here, so I wanted to throw out this question to the field: do you keep mementos of partners?
(I don't. It's always a solemn feeling when I throw out a girl's toothbrush.)
My friend apparently keeps used condoms. She also keeps, and then doesn't wash, her panties that guys used to wipe themselves off with (though I'm not entirely sure of the logistics here). At least the condoms are in trash cans.
I feel slightly ill. And, anyway, back from the edge: Brazilian girl and I texted back and forth a bit all day.
Lemon Crest
Member
The girl I had a date with yesterday caught the flu so we had to cancel.
Trying to reschedule something, but it's a bit hard since she helps run her family's business.
If I can't, then I'll just forget about it. On to the next one.
Trying to reschedule something, but it's a bit hard since she helps run her family's business.
If I can't, then I'll just forget about it. On to the next one.