Its good practice. You can ask about that when you are asking for consent before you do anythingFor that matter, are you guys asking people before you kiss them on the lips or they go down on you if they get colds sores?
Its good practice. You can ask about that when you are asking for consent before you do anythingFor that matter, are you guys asking people before you kiss them on the lips or they go down on you if they get colds sores?
Its good practice. You can ask about that when you are asking for consent before you do anything
This. Would you seriously forgo using a condom just because someone says they are clean? They may have no idea, or be lying. Shit, we have another thread on GAF right now where some folks are defending knowingly having sexual relations with someone else without disclosing they have HIV.Both
This. Would you seriously forgo using a condom just because someone says they are clean? They may have no idea, or be lying. Shit, we have another thread on GAF right now where some folks are defending knowingly having sexual relations with someone else without disclosing they have HIV.
Protect yourself.
Why do that when a condom should suffice?If you're that concerned, why don't you wait until you see their paperwork or get tested together?
Yep. Ask and wrap anyway until it's a long term relationship. Then re-discuss your birth control situation if you so desire.Ask, but always use a condom unless it's something long-term and there's trust.
Why do that when a condom should suffice?
Though that's a great idea if you and your partner plan to have unprotected sex, which is, admittedly, the best kind (especially for the long haul).
the condoms I use also cover the tip of the penis.That's why I also asked how often people get checked out with new partners?
Also, condoms don't really prevent everything. They only cover the shaft of the penis, the other exposed skin could pass diseases.
The best way to avoid stds really is not having sex at all
the condoms I use also cover the tip of the penis.
the condoms I use also cover the tip of the penis.
Pretty much this. If you're young and single and just having fun, requiring paperwork kind of kills the vibe. Always use a condom, and when you do get into a committed relationship, get tested before going bareback.
"Kills the vibe" is such a stupid thing to think, your safety should be above anything else.
The expectation that one should get tested or produce paperwork before every sexual encounter is also ridiculous.
Ask AND use a condom (except for oral)
People who don't realize cold sores are visible and rarely rarely rarely transmit when they aren't.
Well you can either enjoy the fact you'll be a father soon or be a selfish prick and force your girlfriend to go through an abortion cause a condom is slightly less goodok real talk, i feel really uncomfortable sometimes about not using condoms, both because of STD and pregnancy issues, but they literally make my dick basically numb
e: fwiw I'm in a monogamous relationship (~4 months), so not super worried about STD at this point, but pregnancy for sure
how can i overcome this??
Well you can either enjoy the fact you'll be a father soon or be a selfish prick and force your girlfriend to go through an abortion cause a condom is slightly less good
I would expect her to bring it up if she had something, asking just seems awkward. Condoms until I know she's on birth control and cool with doing it without.
Everything but a feelingYou think covering the dick is enough to avoid catching something?
ok real talk, i feel really uncomfortable sometimes about not using condoms, both because of STD and pregnancy issues, but they literally make my dick basically numb
e: fwiw I'm in a monogamous relationship (~4 months), so not super worried about STD at this point, but pregnancy for sure
how can i overcome this??
How do you or she know that you don't have anything?
I'm under the impression that you're just wearing the wrong size, look into that if you ever need to get condoms again. Dumbness suggests that it's too tight. If it's possible to have allergic reactions that have the effect of numbness I've not heard of it.No idea if I have any. Me and my gf don't use condoms (which is irresponsible, but they make me numb :/), but she is my first partner. Dunno her status either but I know she's slept with others before me. Haven't had any issues though so I assume she's clean. Should probably both be checked sooner rather than later though.
You sound like a really fun person xoxoJoking about abuse of power nice.
There's never been anything wrong with my dick so I guess I trust that . That's the only thing I can tell her if she asks. I've never met anyone that insist on us getting tested before sex, but if it was important for her I would of course get myself checked.
ok real talk, i feel really uncomfortable sometimes about not using condoms, both because of STD and pregnancy issues, but they literally make my dick basically numb
e: fwiw I'm in a monogamous relationship (~4 months), so not super worried about STD at this point, but pregnancy for sure
how can i overcome this??