This thread is amazing
So many new blocked posters
Why can't I hold all these 'this user is on your ignore list'.
Why are liberals always like this?
This thread is amazing
So many new blocked posters
Why can't I hold all these 'this user is on your ignore list'.
Why are liberals always like this?
Why are liberals always like this?
ah! Because there is no vast overriding biological urge to bear children? Because all of that is nurture based and not nature? What this really comes down to is what toys children play with? I would love to see the overwhelming scientific evidence supporting this apparent position of yours. Because if this is indeed a nature vs nurture debate, and is ongoing within society at large, and not already assumed to be concluded in your favor, then I just might not be a complete rock smashing grunting troglodyte for voicing the obvious opposing viewpoint to yours.For thousands of years, women have - mostly - taken a support role in society. Women couldn't vote in western society until a hundred years ago, and didn't have right to equal pay - which still isn't being enforced - nearly fifty years ago. Women are groomed from toddler-hood to be supportive and want babies and large families and to cook and to clean from the very toys they are told they "have" to play with.
I live in the bubble of reality, not some utopianesque world where playing or not playing with specific toys hardwires human brains into specific lifelong activities and behaviors. I have the audacity to suggest that you "suck it up" like men are forced to "suck it up" when it comes to adversity. If a man goes into a field unprepared, what other option is given to them? What other solution is there? But assuming that all biological and psychological differences between the genders are entirely, or largely, due to nurture, means that all differences in basic makeup, career choice, personal preferences and motivations, etc etc are "solvable" because any non-representative differences are and should be viewed as a "problem" to be solved. Of course these perceived "problems" never seem to carry over to human sexual behavior, or we might be trying to "fix" those too, eh?And then you have the audacity to suggest that if we really want equality we just to puff ours chests up, hold our heads high, and just "suck it up"?
What kind of bubble do you live in?
In a way they're right. Race mixing wasn't really a thing until multiculturalism and multiculturalism wasn't really a thing until marxism which also led to communism.
On the other hand, I seem have found a gaming discussion forum where at least this many people aren't on the side of extreme misogyny, and even a few feminists!I'm out. It's impossible for me to have a calm debate about gender on gaming side.
Being born into a higher socioeconomic family does confer alot of advantages though.
Perhaps I should have just left it out though. Classism is huge in places like India, but in the west, it's not comparable to sexism and racism.
Why are liberals always like this?
You know zero about my political persuasion, except that I say homosexuality is natural. Which, unless you're an episcopalian, a baptist, or a transcendentally fuckwitted lunatic who deserves the limitless, unyielding scorn of the very stars, is not that controversial. I'm remarkably conservative across most issues, but I suppose in ways which the above three categories would find incomprehensible.
I block intellectually incapable people, not people I disagree with.
Why does it need "fixing"? Why is it so bad that there will just be some fields dominated by men and some by women?So what are some of the solutions, lets say for the sake of argument that women are generally not interested in CS, STEM degrees, game design and lets through in trades (I always through in trades in every discussion)
How do you fix it?
Do yo force women to take those course and those types of jobs? Which In my opinion is just as bad as not letting them have those jobs.
Offer massive incentives, Higher pay then men, more vacation? Which will lead to massive angry/resentment from the other male workers.
Lower the requirements for women? Which would lead into a environment that views any women in a position as inferior.
The only way I can kinda see working is the massive incentive, but in order for that to balance there must be massive incentives for men to become nurses, dental hygienists, ect..
At the end of the day there are only x amount of jobs in any field, if you want to keep bringing more Y then you have to have somewhere for Z to go if that makes sense.
Well, you're a woman, what do you think?You're right. But you're talking about what if women aren't interested, when we're discussing in a thread about why women aren't interested. Of course women aren't interested, we're trying to figure out the why.
I've gotten quite a lot of support via PM. Might be something for the admin/mods to think about that people feel they can't voice their opinions in the open on this forum.
In the case of video games, it is much like Hollywood, movies in general, and even things like literature(though arguably literature is doing fairly well at bridging the gender gap). These media are all a part of culture and have a huge influence on society, whether we like to admit it or not.Why is it so bad that there will just be some fields dominated by men and some by women?
CHEEZMO;46643540 said:Screencaps pls.
CHEEZMO;46643540 said:Screencaps pls.
Seconded.
That's great that it doesn't bother you as much here. =D I felt the same way the first time I went to PAX, the vast majority of people were mature and welcoming.On the other hand, I seem have found a gaming discussion forum where at least this many people aren't on the side of extreme misogyny, and even a few feminists!
Some of the places I've been to it's been around %99.9 woman hating trolls who need to save precious gaming from those evil feminazis. My faith in humanity has raised a notch and my 6 month or so long wait to be accepted as a member here seems all too worth it.
I'd rather be in a gaming community with over a dozen people who aren't over the top misogynists than... maybe two.
Because Homosexuality appear in most animals. If I have brown hair, why dont everybody have brown hair? People are all different and all animals are different.
So yeah, Homosexuality is natural, since dogs, cats, birds, fish, insects can all be homosexual or have homosexual behavior.
Hell there is even a kind of fish that have sex with member of his own sex to excite the female fish. Two guy fish, have "sex" so that the female can see they can do it and then she proceed to reproduce with one of them.
Yeah.
Why does it need "fixing"? Why is it so bad that there will just be some fields dominated by men and some by women?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffrage
Landownerism!
Armyism!
Ageism!
But of course it's all about you women, isn't it?
CHEEZMO;46643540 said:Screencaps pls.
Whoops, I should have been clearer. I meant that I was surprised someone would compare the benefits enjoyed by people born into affluent families to the "benefits" of being born male rather than female. Being wealthy is advantageous in almost any situation. In western society, being male might give you a slight advantage in some situations, but statistically, it could be to your detriment in many others.
Why does it need "fixing"? Why is it so bad that there will just be some fields dominated by men and some by women?
You are not the thread designator of truths though, and you are certainly not the designator of what is actually reasonable for me to discuss in a discussion where fairness is literally being brought up as the/a major goal of societies. We are specifically arguing about what is "fair" or not and how that relates to percentages of men vs women within fields, innate differences between genders, how that relates to percentages of men vs women within fields, and whether that is "fair" or not. We ARE indentifying potential problems, and more to the point, potential problems with what you consider problems and the varied vague "solutions" being alluded to. Again, you are setting yourself up as some lofty arbiter of objectivity, when you are so decidedly unobjective."Life isn't always fair" isn't a good conclusion to infer in terms of addressing a mere conversation about potential inequality. Yes, there's wisdom to the old adage that life isn't always fair when applied to an individual who think he/she is entitled to something. However, in the broad sense, I find the suggestion to be a lazy and dismissive distraction from the task at hand: identifying potential problems and the underlying conditions therein.
I do feel like it makes for honest dialogue, because IMO that is the original basis for the perceived problem of institutionalized male bias and the legitimacy of proposed "solutions" for it. That undermines nothing. In all of your supposed high minded even-handed objective appraisals of the viewpoints and worldviews of others, you might try accepting that other people might find that a legitimate position to have, and also accept that they might find it to be at the core of this "dialogue". Whether you agree with it or not...It's find in my mind if someone wants to engage in the conversation trying to make a stronger case for the merits of "nature over nurture." But your "life isn't fair" position simply seeks to undermine the whole discussion. After all, life isn't always fair. Why waste time on this nonsense. If any women out there feel like they've drawn the short straw, I suggest they look down at their bootstraps and start pulling.
If you think this makes for honest dialogue, then so be it. However, I don't see much need in continuing on with this particular exchange.
do we really have to justify thing as natural or innatural? i don't think so, we should just let them be.
because, you know, killing is also natural. infanticide too. male harem is natural, sometimes even necrophilia
You are not the thread designator of truths though, and you are certainly not the designator of what is actually reasonable for me to discuss in a discussion where fairness is literally being brought up as the/a major goal of societies. We are specifically arguing about what is "fair" or not and how that relates to percentages of men vs women within fields, innate differences between genders, how that relates to percentages of men vs women within fields, and whether that is "fair" or not. We ARE indentifying potential problems, and more to the point, potential problems with what you consider problems and the varied vague "solutions" being alluded to. Again, you are setting yourself up as some lofty arbiter of objectivity, when you are so decidedly unobjective.
I do feel like it makes for honest dialogue, because IMO that is the original basis for the perceived problem of institutionalized male bias and the legitimacy of proposed "solutions" for it. That undermines nothing. In all of your supposed high minded even-handed objective appraisals of the viewpoints and worldviews of others, you might try accepting that other people might find that a legitimate position to have, and also accept that they might find it to be at the core of this "dialogue". Whether you agree with it or not...
Thank you. I had forgotten about that Pan Am case.Airlines used to discriminate against men as flight attendants (ie: not hiring them at all), but Title VII and the Diaz v. Pan Am case changed that.
http://articles.latimes.com/2007/sep/27/opinion/oe-johnson27
Men haven't been barred from nursing in the same way, but there are plenty of organizations and initiatives specifically to boost men in nursing.
http://www.aacn.nche.edu/aacn-publications/issue-bulletin/effective-strategies
http://aamn.org/
There is no comparable attention given by those pushing for "equality", it is almost entirely one-sided in favor of anti-male bias.Issues of female bias are railed against too, but not in equal measure. I do feel that issues that men face need to be addressed more, but that doesn't detract from being concerned about issues that women face.
I give it as the logical end to any genuine efforts to solve that supposed "problem". If it is nurture based, then requiring specific percentages within fields would force society to change its rules and negate the supposed institutionalized male bias that is supposedly the root cause of this "problem". That IS the basis for the ongoing efforts to expand Title IX to STEM fields. They are already pushing for this.Ehh, that would be a terrible solution; it doesn't actually address how boys and girls are nutured differently.
I don't see the need for large scale attempts at fixing this supposed problem. I don't even see it as a problem per se, just as the end effect of certain choices individuals make based on person preferences stemming in part from natural differences between the genders. If there was a "solution", I would ignore pushing differences in outcomes as the problem to begin with, and push for private initiatives to further self-education or online solutions that encourage and allow for individual students to get interested in and further their educations in varied fields. That and informing students of the real requirements and standards they will face after HS. And of course completely reforming our pathetic bloated K-12 education system...I think nature and nuture are both factors. So we'll never reach 50/50 in all fields, but we can do better in some fields by reducing the effects of societal pressure and stereotypes, and "marketing" to groups that are underrepresented.
I give it as the logical end to any genuine efforts to solve that supposed "problem". If it is nurture based, then requiring specific percentages within fields would force society to change its rules and negate the supposed institutionalized male bias that is supposedly the root cause of this "problem". That IS the basis for the ongoing efforts to expand Title IX to STEM fields. They are already pushing for this.
I honestly felt that you were being hypocritical because IMO you were doing the exact same thing that you condemned him for.Throughout all of this, you still haven't established how I'm being hypocritical as suggested by your "Pot. Meet Kettle. Black." post. I called out what I thought was bad faith posting. You don't like my contributions. So be it. I don't understand the hypocrisy at play. Would you like my apologies in regards to my own bad posting? We clearly would be better off accepting your reasonable position. There are no problems in regards to lack of equality. Anyone who suspects otherwise must realize that the possibility of bootstrapping oneself to "equality" exists.
IMO you did this to him, and most certainly you did it to me.You can react how ever you want, but I'm just going to put this out there. It's pretty clear to me that you aren't interested in an honest conversation about this topic. Mind you, I don't think that it's important for you to be brow beaten and subsequently abandon your worldview and accept what people are telling you. However, it's pretty clear to me that you aren't sincerely reading what people are saying and giving it due consideration.
Every time you have been confronted with something that challenges your worldview, you dismiss it outright without even remotely considering that there may be something to it, even if you ultimately don't agree with the conclusions. And that doesn't make for a productive conversation. You don't have to agree with the opposing viewpoint, but I think you do need to actually read what people are saying and consider that there is the chance that there is some truth to it.
I honestly felt that you were being hypocritical because IMO you were doing the exact same thing that you condemned him for.
But is it inherently bad faith to have a style and tone which may basically suggest that position to begin with? Assuming that was his only position, which I don't think sums it up properly. Assuming it was though, how is that inherently disingenuous or an argument made in bad faith? Is misguided liberalism or naive entitlement even remotely any kind of probable cause that someone might conclude is the basis for some of the pro-institutionalized male bias positions taken here? Or is it just that you feel he was unfairly lumping you in with a one size fits all argument?The thing is, I'm not steadfast in my view. If you haven't noticed, I've never suggested that we must accept institutional bias as a legitimate problem in dire need of being addressed. Honestly, my position is that given the low participation rate and stories of people who have tried to enter the field/disciplines, the possibility of gender discrimination seems highly plausible, and at the very least it's worth exploring why women en masse choose (or "choose") not to enter into them.
I don't rule out that the problems are over reported, or that innate gender differences can't explain some of these statistics. Perhaps even most of the statistics -- though I'm highly skeptical of that suggestion. What I then proceeded to call out as bad faith posting was the style and tone of posting basically suggesting that there is no problem, it's all nature, and people who suggest otherwise are guilty of either misguided liberalism or naive entitlement (i.e. "it's not just women/minorities that face challenges, you know" arguments).
I have to say though, some of your comments seem open-minded and then you describe someone's opposing arguments, which I personally didn't find as described, as being "disingenuous" "lazy" or made in "bad faith", which suddenly seems so very hard and strident. That is why your comments seemed off putting and, well, hypocritical. If encouraging open-minded dialogue is your intended goal, putting someone on the defensive with attacks against the basic honesty of his arguments or intent is a pretty unfruitful way of achieving this, isn't it?Given this, I think you misunderstand the level of nuance I maintain on this. And that's all I was encouraging. Open-minded dialogue. Even if I'm not completely on board with the nature argument, I don't seek to dismiss it as nonsense. I've merely argued that focusing on that aspect works to the detriment of exploring other options if we can agree that nature does not account for all, or even most of the discrepancy.
On the other hand, I seem have found a gaming discussion forum where at least this many people aren't on the side of extreme misogyny, and even a few feminists!
Some of the places I've been to it's been around %99.9 woman hating trolls who need to save precious gaming from those evil feminazis. My faith in humanity has raised a notch and my 6 month or so long wait to be accepted as a member here seems all too worth it.
I'd rather be in a gaming community with over a dozen people who aren't over the top misogynists than... maybe two.
I've gotten quite a lot of support via PM. Might be something for the admin/mods to think about that people feel they can't voice their opinions in the open on this forum.
In the case of video games, it is much like Hollywood, movies in general, and even things like literature(though arguably literature is doing fairly well at bridging the gender gap). These media are all a part of culture and have a huge influence on society, whether we like to admit it or not.
Not having many women making movies or video games severely hinders the self expression and representation of women in society. A limited amount of women in the arts and media gives women a limited perspective shown in public culture.
Also, having certain things male or female dominated generally shows a lack of equality in something and a tendency towards uncomfortable roles and stereotypes for people, both men and women. As if a field is largely dominated by one gender, there is pretty much undoubtedly some cultural reason for it. And those cultural reasons are undoubtedly also going to be less than optimal.
The best situation is where men and women feel comfortable in any field.
Also, I'm pretty much against the concept of Feminism too. Dont like one sided concepts. I'm more a Equalist, Male and Women equal, instead of the Feminist point of view of female on top or the Machist point of view of male on top. I dont think Feminism is a solution to the problem of gender equality, since it does not seek equality, but rather superiority.
These were all very interesting, thank you. If I ever have kids, I'm going to become the best damn tip calculator ever.http://arstechnica.com/science/2006/10/5712/
http://arstechnica.com/science/2012/02/granting-women-a-competitive-advantage-wont-destroy-society/
http://arstechnica.com/science/2010/01/female-teachers-math-anxiety-influences-female-students/
http://arstechnica.com/uncategorized/2008/06/why-judy-cant-add-gender-inequality-and-the-math-gap/
Lack of female role models (or power fantasies) in video games?