Who is avoiding anything? Yes, launch was bad. So were other games this gen, many to be concrete
Far less people even pay attention to anything that is happening on forums. There are 40 million people out there owning a PS4. Guess how many people give a flying f*** at what the whole parity-resolution discussion is even about.
And let's not pretend that Unity didn't sell at least decent on PS4.
I think it's sad that after that much time you are still bothered by this so much but I think we should leave it at that. You have your opinion on that and if you are bothered that your system doesn't get enough attention from certain devs/pubs it's up to you to decide to not buy their games.