Well, aren't you making the same sort of determination by questioning the Fish backlash? Are we just supposed to stand around forever looking at each other and asking, "Um, what do we do"? Sometimes we have to make a judgment call, and more often than not the right one is made, or at least the one that most resonates with society as a whole. And since when did we all have a right to respect? Respect is earned, and is subjective according to those we interact with. It works itself out naturally based on how we're interpreted. Stop acting like some unpleasant backlash born from one's own actions is the end of the world. A society that doesn't check itself is doomed to breed bratty divas like Fish.