To be clear I'm on board with VII:R day one because I'm a legitimate Nomura fanboy, but being familiar with Tabata's works I'll probably take a wait-and-see approach since XV is on paper my perfect game but I felt pretty burned by it. Same deal with Toriyama, because I didn't much care for XIII. I like your optimism though, and personally I look back at a lot of my favorite games and realize I may have skipped or waited on them if I listened to reviews.
You bring up a really interesting point to me in seeing fans of a game you dislike. I agree that harassing them is really gross and I do my best to avoid it. As I see it, we're all fans here and it should definitely be a safe place. But, like you say, when people don't seem bothered by what seems like a glaring flaw to you, it can be totally frustrating! Like, the way that XV shipped I think is inexcusable, and I don't want to see SE ship a game in that state ever again. XII lost its director too, and I think they were able to salvage that project quit well, but XV seems like it'll always have the scars of its shift. It can be difficult not to get a little heated when discussing that with others because XV represents a lot of aspects I don't want to see return to the series. But then you see guys like ULTROS! in here who are these genuinely nice people who go into threads trying to discuss a game they like and you have to feel bad for them.
This fanbase is rough sometimes. Like, I dealt with a lot of the same thing when I was being a fanboy for Versus XIII delay after delay, and again with VII:R with Nomura seeming to get a lot of abuse when he's my favorite director. I dunno, I wish we could be nicer to each other.
As a side note, I have been considering getting ME:A, and am pleased to hear you enjoyed it. I can enjoy games with a lot of flaws if they have an awesome combat system, and it seems like Andromeda does indeed have that.