I think we're actually saying exactly the same thing, but attaching different words to those descriptions. Free will and determinism aren't mutually exclusive. They can't be, because they're actually the same thing being explained from two very different perspectives.
The way I like to present it is through a perspective dichotomy, because it makes the most sense to me that way, and it will probably resolve our disagreement. The first is the human perspective. You and I exist within time. Time happns to us and everything our senses tell us. Because of time, there is change. The concept of change fundamentally establishes that we have free will, because our actions have reactions. We define and are ourselves, and within that human self, we buy into our ability to enact change from the internal system of our thought to the outside physical world.
The second perspective is the philosophical, "If we were higher dimensional beings that could see time as a line," perspective. When you look at time on that line and you see the potentially infinite past and future, you come to the immediate conclusion that everything on that line is a sequence of actions and reactions that all depend on each other to continue forward. Pick any point on that line, and everything to the right was caused by the state of everything at that point. And everything at that point was caused by everything to the left of it. I don't really see how anyone could deny this, even if each supposed point were a starting point for an infinite number of new lines. Concept still applies just the same.
So you, within yourself, experience the real feeling of free will. It's a natural part of our existence within time. But on the outside, beyond ourselves, we're just a part of that line. They're parts of a whole as long as the component of the self is a part of the consideration.