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It's been a number of years since I struggled with anything like depression, but when I did, I don't know. I don't have a magic bullet answer. The only thing that's ever helped me is taking things one at a time and asking "What's next" when it's done. The one time in my life I ever had what I would consider to be significant depression, I basically just drove my car to the same few stores every day, not even buying anything, just walking around... just to get myself out of the house, because if I was at home, I just slept and moped all day. Even reactive depression can be a medical issue, so I shouldn't give all that advice and not bother to point out that you may find going to counselling or a psychologist could help. I never did personally so I couldn't say for sure.

Jesus i wish i could drive man, i mean the fact i need at least 4 grand for a car and insurance (baring in mind insurance for young male drivers in the UK is extortionate)before I've even started just makes me feel worse about it, I've considered therapy but fuck, even that makes me feel guilty for causing my parents to have to pay for more shit i want. (until i have a job) It just sucks, its frustrating because I'm going to be entering the world of work after I've come back from holiday in a month but its just waiting until then..
 
At the moment I pretty much stay in front of the computer all day. Sometimes doing work, sometimes watching TV/movies, some boarding, some gaming...

I need to find more things to do on my own. I like going to the gym so I do that every other day, but I have a lot of anxiety unless I'm really focused on doing something. It's like I'm incapable of loitering or hanging out, I have to be doing something. Drives to nowhere are fun I guess but gas costs are a thing

edit: need a job too
 
Werk. Time passes by, goes to waste and I get this green paper in return. Damn you green paper, damn you to hell.
 
I always keep a journal so if I get bored I'll just start writing what I think about the latest game I played or whats on the horizon. Sometimes I'll just write about things I'd like to accomplish and how I would achieve those goals. I have done this most of my life and up till recently hoarded every "issue" I wrote from day one. My wife sort of helped me get over tossing all but the last 10 years or so worth which is still quite a collection of drivel. That's is my unproductive way of passing time.
 
When I am not at work, I pass the time by scouring the net, playing videogames, and drawing/painting in PhotoShop. I prefer doing the latter more, because I feel I am doing something productive with my time, but I often don't feel in the mood.

Before I know it, a whole day has passed, and I feel I've wasted it all. But hey.
 
I'll download a really thought-provoking podcast or three - something that really makes me think about the direction of humanity, historical scenarios, etc - something that prompts me to think about bigger things not centered on me, to put in perspective how miniscule my issues are in the grand scale of things.

With these downloaded, I'll put my headphones on and go out for a walk around my city. Sometimes I'll hop on the streetcar or ride the ferry back-and-forth across the river. I'll look at the old buildings, observe humans' behaviours, and just let my mind wander. It's been incredibly therapeutic, especially in rough times.

Heck, even if my world were falling apart, I'll still want to keep on pressing forward, if only to see where humanity goes in my lifetime. I mean, we have front-row seating to the freakshow - and just when we're entering a particularly "interesting" time in history. Enjoy the show!
 
I'll download a really thought-provoking podcast or three - something that really makes me think about the direction of humanity, historical scenarios, etc - something that prompts me to think about bigger things not centered on me, to put in perspective how miniscule my issues are in the grand scale of things.

With these downloaded, I'll put my headphones on and go out for a walk around my city. Sometimes I'll hop on the streetcar or ride the ferry back-and-forth across the river. I'll look at the old buildings, observe humans' behaviours, and just let my mind wander. It's been incredibly therapeutic, especially in rough times.

Heck, even if my world were falling apart, I'll still want to keep on pressing forward, if only to see where humanity goes in my lifetime. I mean, we have front-row seating to the freakshow - and just when we're entering a particularly "interesting" time in history. Enjoy the show!

Any links to said podcasts?
 
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It's the single biggest time waster on the internet. You can keep yourself occupied for hours by checking out fresh new threads and some old ones (or even some archived ones.) without even posting at all. (if you're involved in some arguments / multiple arguments, then it's even better)
 
Any links to said podcasts?

Hmm..

Hardcore History is damn good, addressing topics I once thought would make for boring topics:
http://www.dancarlin.com/disp.php/hh

Same for The Skeptics' Guide to the Universe
http://www.theskepticsguide.org/

Radiolab does some really interesting science topics that can completely distract me:
http://www.radiolab.org/
One of my favorites was an episode asking if animals can laugh. A big scientific exploration of the topic, totally stuck with me..

Next is This American Life, which tends to look at more social issues. The awkwardness of being a middle-schoolergoing to your first dance, Americans adjusting to living abroad.. the topics are quite varied.
http://www.thisamericanlife.org/

And finally, my favorite: the Kunstlercast, a podcast about energy policy (especially peak oil), how we've designed our cities in the U.S. over the past two centuries, the built landscape in this country, our political and culture quirks, etc. Kunstler goes all over the topical map, from how we dress to what we eat to the transit systems of different cities.. it'll be a dark day for me when this podcast ends, just because I want to hear their reactions to big historical events as they're happening.
http://www.kunstlercast.com
 
I don't count hobbies and fun as passing the time.

To pass the time at work I take micro naps and have flash dreams. They usually last less than a couple of seconds, but I awake feeling refreshed and then I get to think about my flash dreams. I had one where a thing on the wall turned into a dinosaur.

If I have paper and no one is watching, I doodle.
 
Man its pretty boring for me right now. I'm on summer break, and my girlfriend whom I live with along with the rest of my friends, are working insanely long hours (I chose not to work because I wanted a real summer, seeing as it will probably be my last). So the days are basically me alone.
I wake up fairly early and go to the gym so I can kill time and feel somewhat healthy. I watch a shit ton of TV shows thanks to netflix. Maybe I'll go for a walk downtown since I live ni the area.
I'm taking 1 class during summer so I can slowly get it done, which luckily also helps take up some time.
I've been reading books on my kindle, and playing some video games.
Once the evening hits, I'll start drinking and looking up cool recipes to attempt to cook for myself and my girlfriend (whenever she gets off work) and I drink some more...
 
When I'm feeling depressed I like to listen to depressing music. It doesn't really make me feel better but it helps.
 
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