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GF dances with other men: what do i do?

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Nose Master said:
Cuckolding is a pretty god damn tame kink. If you like to watch, and trust her, then whatever. Just talk to her about it.
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Tame? I think it is the kink I least understand of all. And one of the freakiest. I cannot imagine enjoying watching my wife getting fucked by some dude. Even more so get excited by it.

I'm not judging, to each his own... but for me that is not tame at all.
 
shanshan310 said:
lol, but my friends don't either so I just assumed it was common *shrugs*. Seriously though, clubs are a terrible terrible place to meet people. "Hi, I'm drunk off my face, can't hear you at all, wanna make out?" yeah, no thanks. If I want to meet a guy, it will not be at a place like that. Its so awkward when you are talking to/ dancing with a group of friends and some stranger interupts and breathes stinky alcohol breath over you like "hi, what's your name?".
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My feelings as well (male that is in a comitted relationship).
I don't go to clubs to meet new people, I only go with friends to socialize with them - not others.
It's really annoying when you get the token drunk guy who tries to dance into the group, and hit on whomever they can.
 
Dechaios said:
Wow this is really, really weird.

I would not be okay with that.
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I wouldn't either but it takes all kinds. I once had a friend, he and his wife were swingers.
He once told me his wife wanted to suck my dick. I declined. I wasn't attracted to her at all, and just thought it would be weird and awkward but I know she banged other mutual friends of ours.
 
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Tence said:
Tame? I think it is the kink I least understand of all. And one of the freakiest. I cannot imagine enjoying watching my wife getting fucked by some dude. Even more so get excited by it.

I'm not judging, to each his own... but for me that is not tame at all.
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Compared to scat and furries, I'd say it's fairly tame.
 
SmokyDave said:
Have you considered that you might have an ugly penis?

Never dated a girl that didn't give head, never dated a girl that didn't swallow. I'm a lucky guy.
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I always feel a little guilty doing that. I say you can spit if you like, but down the hatch it goes.
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But this is another thread altogether!

I say stick with the girl but know that it's a short term thing. That possessive/jealousy spark can lead to properly awesome sex. My wife loves it when I get possessive of her when she gets hit on. I only need to step up once a year and she's a giggly schoolgirl again.
 
SmokyDave said:
That line cracked me up. I can definitely trust a man that's happy with his own penis.

Move over here. Rather than 'spit' or 'swallow', our girls choose between 'gargle' and 'chew'.
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Where's that gif of Jim Carrey gagging?

I don't get the "its already in your mouth, just swallow it" line. I can't actually taste it until I start swallowing, and then I get the gag thing. Spitting seems far more sexy at that point =/
 
shanshan310 said:
Where's that gif of Jim Carrey gagging?

I don't get the "its already in your mouth, just swallow it" line. I can't actually taste it until I start swallowing, and then I get the gag thing. Spitting seems far more sexy at that point =/
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Btw...don't you taste it earlier... when its on your tongue.... that's where the tastebuds are right?

I can't believe I just actually asked that.
 
shanshan310 said:
Where's that gif of Jim Carrey gagging?

I don't get the "its already in your mouth, just swallow it" line. I can't actually taste it until I start swallowing, and then I get the gag thing. Spitting seems far more sexy at that point =/
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It's already past your taste-buds by then so I wonder if that's psychological. The actual taste depends largely on the diet of the ejaculator.

At least you ladies get the choice! We're getting a gob-full of juices no matter what.
 
shanshan310 said:
Where's that gif of Jim Carrey gagging?

I don't get the "its already in your mouth, just swallow it" line. I can't actually taste it until I start swallowing, and then I get the gag thing. Spitting seems far more sexy at that point =/
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What? I just swallow it quickly and move on to other stuff. Do you get up and go the bathroom? I don't get spitting.
 
Basketball Reasons said:
so we go out clubbing.
she dances with other dudes. and she grinds on them like a virgin on a blowup doll.
the thing is i enjoy watching other dudes grinding on her.
and sometimes, 2 or 3 dudes dancing with her.
is this ok?
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You enjoy it so why do you care?
Edit: she's 18.... Nevermind she's cheating on you right now.
 
exarkun said:
i sometimes think about this with my gf. White guys come up to her all the time to buy her a drink, and she'll always tell them she has a bf and point at me wherever I am.

But, I told her to lead them on and just get some free drinks out of it then I can come over and stop dat shit. Or let it go on. either way, drinks are f*ing expensive at the clubs and I'm tired of paying for them. I bought a flask.

long story short, I feel your pain man. In college I once kissed a girl while she was grinding on another dude. I was messed up, but you should try it. Its an interesting feeling.
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Don't do that.
 
Basketball Reasons said:
did you read my last post?
chick is fantastic in bed.
she pleases me like no other woman before.
but in the other hand, i fear this kind of relationship can escalate into territories ive never been in before.



literally, this could happen.
i aint down with dp action.
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Then make sure you keep it where it is right now, seeming as you've said yourself that you enjoy it and she enjoys it. What's the problem? If you think it's weird but you enjoy it, fuck it, who cares right?
 
What if she can't dance? She tries to be sexy, but in reality all she can do is the side-to-side action?

She slides one foot over to the other, then repeats that action with the opposite foot. That's how I danced when I was 5 years old.

I don't know man. I think maybe I would be more pissed off if she did the side-to-side dance step.
 
Don't be scared of the funny feeling you get watching her grind up on other dudes, that just leads to you being scared of your penis.
 
leadbelly said:
What if she can't dance? She tries to be sexy, but in reality all she can do is the side-to-side action?

She slides one foot over to the other, then repeats that action with the opposite foot. That's how I danced when I was 5 years old.

I don't know man. I think maybe I would be more pissed off if she did the side-to-side dance step.
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I only trust people who can't dance.
 
Sounds OP doesn't like what chick is doing, but doesn't feel man enough to tell her to cut it out, so convinces himself he likes it. But if he liked it wouldn't have made a thread. better to cut and run before she brings home a disease.
 
Ash Sparrow said:
Sounds OP doesn't like what chick is doing, but doesn't feel man enough to tell her to cut it out, so convinces himself he likes it. But if he liked it wouldn't have made a thread. better to cut and run before she brings home a disease.
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I think a good-looking woman who is also a really good dancer is pretty hot. I used to go clubbing a lot at one point. I kind of get that.

The OP said he has contradictory feelings about it. I think it is more the fact that it looks 'hot' but then he realises it is his girlfriend that is doing it and with another man.
 
As said, give her the dick but don't get to attached to this girl. She's definitely in on 'experiencing' other guys with or without you it seems.
 
Drencrom said:
As said, give her the dick but don't get to attached to this girl. She's definitely in on 'experiencing' other guys with or without you it seems.
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Man, don't take this guy so seriously, it's not like she's fucking other dudes on the dance floor.

Unless she is.

Cause that's hot too.
 
So much of GAF seems so insecure. Dancing is just dancing. If you don't think you can hold onto a woman after she's danced with another dude, you don't deserve her.

Also "cuckhold" is a really ugly word. It seems designed to be insulting. It's funny that there isn't a similar word for women who are okay with their man banging other girls.
 
Devolution said:
What? I just swallow it quickly and move on to other stuff. Do you get up and go the bathroom? I don't get spitting.
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I can't stop shaking for ages after if I do though. I try swallowing, but the effect is kind of worse than if I have to get up and spit it out. EDIT: my boy reacts just like in that gif!
Maybe I should get my boyfriend to eat more fruit.
one summer he ate a bunch of mangoes and there really was a noticeably better taste.

Tence said:
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Btw...don't you taste it earlier... when its on your tongue.... that's where the tastebuds are right?

I can't believe I just actually asked that.
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Thanks for the pic Tence :p

No, I only get the strong, bitter taste at the back. There's no real taste at the front for some reason. And then it hits you like BAM.
 
I consider myself somewhat of an expert on this subject, due to the amount of erotic novels I have read.

Let me tell you, this will not end well for you. The only possible conclusion to this tale, unless you bail NOW, is you being forced to eat another mans ejaculate fresh from your own girlfriends vagina.
 
Basketball Reasons said:
She works in the same company as me.
She was hired as a temp help.
We hit it off right away.
I said hi and asked if she wanted to have lunch.
The rest is history.
My boss doesn't mind. Given that he's banging his assistant behind his wife's back.
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Kado you are my dude LOL

I gotta head to la sometime
 
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