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[Herpes Reasons]

so we go out clubbing.
she dances with other dudes. and she grinds on them like a virgin on a blowup doll.
the thing is i enjoy watching other dudes grinding on her.
and sometimes, 2 or 3 dudes dancing with her.
is this ok?

 

[foodtaster]

jump in

 

[Ultima_5]

so we go out clubbing.
she dances with other dudes. and she grinds on them like a virgin on a blowup doll.
the thing is i enjoy watching other dudes grinding on her.
and sometimes, 2 or 3 dudes dancing with her.
is this ok?

You answered your own question OP

 

[Lucario]

If you enjoy it and you trust her to not go further than dancing, keep with it.

If you feel uncomfortable, tell her.

 

[Onemic]

its cuckold time

get a mandingo and enjoy the show.

 

[Beardz]

Marry her

 

[MWS Natural]

It's not THAT big of a deal but whatever you do don't go

Spoiler

cuckold.

 

[Devolution]

so we go out clubbing.
she dances with other dudes. and she grinds on them like a virgin on a blowup doll.
the thing is i enjoy watching other dudes grinding on her.
and sometimes, 2 or 3 dudes dancing with her.
is this ok?

Have you explored this further?

 

[Herpes Reasons]

You answered your own question OP

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

Kado I am one of those men.

 

[GK86]

Freak.

 

[Nori Chan]

Well how does your wife look like first of all?

sounds familiar...what club was it

 

[SapientWolf]

Throw your hands in the air. And wave them like you just don't care. Because apparently you don't.

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

Nah, you're fine as long as there's no bodily fluids involved.

 

[FormallyMegadrive]

You answered your own question OP

Seriously. Your avatar was my face when I read that line.

 

[PhoenixDark]

It's ok Fredo

 

[Duke Togo]

Throw your hands in the air. And wave them like you just don't care. Because apparently you don't.

LOL

 

[Devolution]

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

Kink is kink man. It's not all that uncommon.

 

[Herpes Reasons]

Have you explored this further?

further?, pray tell?

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she likes it when i watch from the sidelines though.

 

[Adam Blade]

Well how does your wife look like first of all?

Spoiler

:3

His "wife" looks suspiciously like LovingSteam

:x

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

Have you explored this further?

Yep. That really is concerning. I'd say its quite unnatural personally.

 

[Nori Chan]

His "wife" looks suspiciously like LovingSteam

:x

Shiiiiieeett I ain't even mad.

 

[Devolution]

further?, pray tell?

More sexually? Or does it bother you less because of the clothing and the fact that she ultimately goes home with you?

Yep. That really is concerning. I'd say its quite unnatural personally.

Natural is so passé anyway.

 

[Bombadil]

I eagerly await a thread from you a few months from now telling us about how she has herpes and asking us what you should do about it.

 

[Para bailar La Bomba]

Have you explored this further?

I like where this thread is heading.

 

[GamerSoul]

Freak.

.

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

.

What about it do you think is freakish?

 

[Ultima_5]

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

Maybe you're one of those guys who likes it when other guys have sex with your significant other? Voyeur or something.

I don't know if any of this is unhealthy, but i can't imagine it being that big of deal if it doesn't bother you.

 

[totowhoa]

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

three holes three poles, embrace the love

 

[Luixfern]

Where does your girl go clubbing?

 

[Esiquio]

further?, pray tell?



she likes it when i watch from the sidelines though.

Just came from the "cheating SO" thread, so...yeah. Dude, I mean, really, you need to talk about this with her, not us.

 

[Canuck76]

further?, pray tell?



she likes it when i watch from the sidelines though.

Bad sign

 

[Herpes Reasons]

More sexually? Or does it bother you less because of the clothing and the fact that she ultimately goes home with you?





Natural is so passé anyway.

yes and no.
a part of me gets angry that she's grinding on other dudes.
the darker side of me likes watching my gf getting hot and bothered by other men.

 

[georgc]

I've experienced the same situation. The thing is I don't enjoy my girlfriend dancing with other guys but I've learned to expect it because she's just having fun and she ends up coming home with me every night anyway so I just ignore it.

 

[exarkun]

i sometimes think about this with my gf. White guys come up to her all the time to buy her a drink, and she'll always tell them she has a bf and point at me wherever I am.

But, I told her to lead them on and just get some free drinks out of it then I can come over and stop dat shit. Or let it go on. either way, drinks are f*ing expensive at the clubs and I'm tired of paying for them. I bought a flask.

long story short, I feel your pain man. In college I once kissed a girl while she was grinding on another dude. I was messed up, but you should try it. Its an interesting feeling.

 

[dorkimoe]

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

If you like it, IMO who cares if it's healthy

 

[Herpes Reasons]

Where does your girl go clubbing?

there's a couple clubs here in the OC.

 

[masud]

That's not cool to me. Actual dancing? Sure that's fine, but rubbing your ass against some dudes crotch in front of me? Not cool. My girl would not appreciate me getting grinded on by some other woman either and that's perfectly understandable.

 

[Esch]

 

[GavinGT]

The fact that you enjoy watching is weird. Her doing this would be unacceptable in my mind. I wouldn't doubt for a second that she's cheated on you multiple times.

 

[Sadsic]

You are at the beginning of this song. In one year you will look back at this topic and be at the end of this song.

 

[Onemic]

there's a couple clubs here in the OC.

Orange County?

Rich mutherfucker.

 

[Log4Girlz]

Set up a threesome.

 

[RiccochetJ]

Do you know for a fact that she'll go home with you?

 

[Devolution]

yes and no.
a part of me gets angry that she's grinding on other dudes.
the darker side of me likes watching my gf getting hot and bothered by other men.

I'm thinking you like the testosterone rush. And she likes seeing you get possessive. As long as neither of you is doing this maliciously towards the other I don't see a problem.

 

[Herpes Reasons]

I've experienced the same situation. The thing is I don't enjoy my girlfriend dancing with other guys but I've learned to expect it because she's just having fun and she ends up coming home with me every night anyway so I just ignore it.

how do you deal with it?
doesn't eat up your inside?

 

[Nori Chan]

there's a couple clubs here in the OC.

I'll come visit you man.

We'll watch together. I got the popcorn man....I got the popcorn

 

[shadyspace]

Sounds like a harmless bit of roleplay, frankly. Would be a good idea to discuss it and make sure you and your GF are on the same level about what you both want out of this behavior, set some clear ground rules. Don't let this continue without talking about it, if you haven't already. That road leads to stepping out.

 

[low-G]

Start grinding the dudes while they're grinding on her. /all problems solved

Seriously if it bothers you tell her it bothers you if she doesn't care move on.

 

[Para bailar La Bomba]

PM sent.

 

[DarkKyo]

Inevitable next step for OP: