I do get it
I think what I'm saying, the people who take stuff too far now, the people me and you would both agree are out of their minds, I think we'll look back and realise we needed them to push for equal pay and better representation in higher positions. They've highlighted violence and sexual harassment against women, which makes it an issue people become more aware of
I had a lecturer back when I was studying psychology. She was a proper old school feminist, went on marches in the 60s and all that. She was cool as fuck, sharp as a knife, had lived a bit of a life lol. She hated what feminism had become as a school of psychology and sociology (like cognitive, behavioural, Jungian, Marxism, pharmacological etc), not everything was about nor could be solved by looking at things from a feminist point of view. What it did teach though was to look at things from other viewpoints, and that having someone talk about it, even if you rolled your eyes at it, meant at least it was being talked about
like, and I don't mean this by way of appeasement. The Fathers for Justice movement in the UK pulled some shit, were mocked, but they have a point about the courts and society not having equality when it comes to parenting and father's rights. It's a bigger issue than they made it sound, but they are right, when parents get divorced, the child almost always ends up with the mother. The current men's rights movement, as idiotic and nasty as it can seem, might eventually help balance some issues