I told one of my friends that her bf was incredibly hot, (because he is goddamn), she asked if I would fuck him, I said with no hesitation. "Probably." Pretty sure I told a dude at a party I was at this weekend that he was really hot.
Not sexually no. I do find other men attractive, but, I don't imagine sex with them no, the desire just simply isn't there. When I was young, like 12, there was a brief time but that is it.
This is so interesting to me, because as a gay person who has extremely limited attraction to women, kissing a woman would never seem repulsive to me. In fact, sex with a woman doesn't seem all that displeasing really.
The number of men who are *repulsed* at the thought of even having light sexual contact with someone of the same gender is kind of appalling. I'm not really accusing anyone of anything, it's just that you should analyze why you think it's so gross to touch another guy in that way when that same feeling doesn't really exist for straight women and gay men in regards to other women. Men are just socialized in a way to view each in a very non-sexual manner and I feel like a lot of guys internalize that.
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I once hooked up with a guy who identified as straight and he absolutely refused to kiss me. He had no problem whipping out his dick and asking me to go to town, but he couldn't even look at me. In fact, he literally looked in any direction other than where I was. It was so fascinating seeing this guy who wanted to explore his sexual orientation yet he clearly held a lot of homophobic ideas that he literally brought to the bedroom.
The amount of men that are repulsed by same sex interaction of any sort seems, at least anecdotally, disproportionate to the amount of gay men or straight women who are repulsed at the idea of physical interaction of any sort with women.
I acknowledge I am trans in that I suffer enormously from crippling gender dysphoria, but I do not consider myself to be a woman, rather I view myself as a gay man suffering from a mental illness for which there is no cure at present.
I acknowledge I am trans in that I suffer enormously from crippling gender dysphoria, but I do not consider myself to be a woman. I consider myself to be a gay man suffering from a mental illness for which there is no cure at present.
Well, I am sorry that you are so conditioned to view something that is not considered a mental illness by the APA to be a mental illness. And I'm not even being coy, I legitimately feel sorry that our society has you thinking that. It reminds me of how Milo is a gay man who views his sexuality as a disease.
Well no? I mean I've never found a dude 'attractive', or wanted to do anything sexually with one. But a transgender girl would be a totally different thing, dick and all.
A lot of people have difficulty in moving past the transition part which is why people can accept that they're now male or female but there's still that block that prevents them from entering the dating stage with a transgendered person.
I've never been attracted to another dude and I don't know if this technically counts, but if Bailey Jay came knocking on my door, I would 100% make kissy faces with her (she's a trans porn star, so be careful if you go googling)
A lot of people have difficulty in moving past the transition part which is why people can accept that they're now male or female but there's still that block that prevents them from entering the dating stage with a transgendered person.
1. I asked because I don't like the whole "I'm going to imply that I have these certain views about trans people but not say it" kind of approach on this topic. Just be honest about it
I've never been attracted to another dude and I don't know if this technically counts, but if Bailey Jay came knocking on my door, I would 100% make kissy faces with her (she's a trans porn star, so be careful if you go googling)
Well to be technical it doesn't make you attracted to the same sex, unless your a woman.
It's cool seeing the chill of some honest gents here even if it's coming out slightly in the wrong space because y'all being attracted to a Trans Woman's means your just attracted to women .
Now a trans bro? Then yeah that'd be same sex lol.
Yes but very rarely and briefly. Almost kissed a male friend in HS and I thought Kevin Barnes was kinda sexy the first time I saw Of Montreal live (the music and environment factored heavily)
Normally I wouldn't be into of either of those people. I could probably do some MFM stuff (not with my wife though which means never, haha) but not MMF.
Honestly, I have been jealous of bisexuals for a long time.
Many times. In this day and age how is this even a question? I don't think sexuality is binary. Just over the past month or so I've been offered blow jobs by two different guys. This weekend a dude tried to pick me up on the subway.
Hmm may be I should just start dating men rather than trying to date girls from Tinder. At least one gender finds me attractive!
The older I've gotten the more I've found myself able to see the attractiveness in men. I was one of those people that used to not be able to tell whether a guy was attractive or not and had such a singular focus on women. I now find that to be a bit silly. I've only ever been emotionally attached to women but I see sexuality as much more of a spectrum now and I think most people have at least a little homosexuality in them even if they strongly lean one way like me.
As of now the attractiveness isn't a strong enough pull for me but who knows what the future holds.
Fuck it, I'm gonna rephrase it. On the scatterplot of sexuality, I don't give a damn. I love Guys, Girls, Chicks with Dicks, Dudes without Dicks, and every possible point in between. Why limit your sexuality in this world between homo or hetero? Fuckin' go gray-scale man! Go find that cute guy out there with hips that would make your jaw hit the floor! Because unbeknownst to most, sexual orientation can be pretty damn fluid.
1. I asked because I don't like the whole "I'm going to imply that I have these certain views about trans people but not say it" kind of approach on this topic. Just be honest about it
Yeah. Very few and far between though. I'm still much more attracted to women.
I think it's disingenuous to correlate being attracted to someone with wanting to have sex with them. Demi-sexuality and asexuality do exist, after all.
Duuude, it was a slip up, I totally forgot which term it was. Geez. If you're goal is to be high and mighty in this thread then you're sure fucking succeeding.
Duuude, it was a slip up, I totally forgot which term it was. Geez. If you're goal is to be high and mighty in this thread then you're sure fucking succeeding.
When people slip, the best thing to happen is to make sure to have someone point out where you slipped so you don't do it again. I have no concept of whether you slipped or if you legitimately were ignorant of the proper terminology, and when you ignore the correction, it's important to me to make sure that you don't ignore it, for the same reason why you would see that happen when someone says something - even accidentally or through ignorant - that is offensive to another person. It has nothing to do with being on a high-horse and more to do with constructive criticism.
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