I actually very well agree with the OP and I can't stress enough on the agreement at hand on the subject of over-hype. (after this week I'm sick of the goddamn word 'hype' )
I think the biggest example of this I've seen recently has been The Evil Within's 'hype' threads and folks. Same with the Wolfenstein: TNO threads.
Maybe it's been getting weirder very recently, but I thought the response to Wolfenstein TNO was fine. There were reasonable complaints about it and some people may have quibbled over scores, but generally my impression is of a moderately well liked game with a few really passionate yet well behaved superfans.