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I live with the most disgusting person on earth. (Long ass ranting))
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I must say I really do feel happy when reading about you moving on. I realize some situations where people ask how you cope is quite "easy", since there is no alternative but to trod on, but I honestly can't imagine anyone coping with your situation the way you have for a longer period than this. I hope all the best for you, and everyone involved.
It also warms my heart reading about Woodwerd here helping you. You are a good person, Woodwerd.
efyu_lemonardo
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Good for you, man!
You deserve to live a full and happy life, surrounded by selfless people who bring you joy.
Looking forward to more happy news in the next updates.
You deserve to live a full and happy life, surrounded by selfless people who bring you joy.
Looking forward to more happy news in the next updates.
The Albatross
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Goddam man.
Guy obviously has a mental disorder, not even alcoholism, but a serious mental disorder. Hate to say this, but he really should be interned somewhere.
Great job on the house, you did an incredible job. But this is... this is unreal. Damn.
Oh didn't know this was from July. Good for you. Good luck moving on.
Guy obviously has a mental disorder, not even alcoholism, but a serious mental disorder. Hate to say this, but he really should be interned somewhere.
Great job on the house, you did an incredible job. But this is... this is unreal. Damn.
Oh didn't know this was from July. Good for you. Good luck moving on.
Nintendoga
Member
Reading through this thread and wow, I thought my roomate was awful.
Congrats on making it through to the end man, we're all rooting for you!
Congrats on making it through to the end man, we're all rooting for you!
Ville Pukema
Member
Well my life is shit.
Unemployed. (very rarely get on call catering jobs anymore)
Everytime I sign an offer they back out a week later (happened like 5 times now)
Still waiting to get a doctor from medicare. And I need one now that I was diagnosed with diabetes.
And now this, I dont really understand how it escalated so quickly or so violently. I guess I shouldnt be surprised my brother has acted spontaneaously violent before. I truly believe now that he is psychopathic, it's the only explanation I can come up with as to how asking for some help and cooperation led to a fist fight.
I have people coming over to view the house this morning like I do every weekend, they happened to schedule a but earlier than usual, so I'm up early cleaning the house from top to bottom like usual since nobody else bothers to clean up after themselves. I sweep the floors and mop the floors with some wood wax so everything looks nice and shiny for the guests. The issue began when I asked my brother to move his motorcycle out of the dining room and into the backyard or front porch ( he always brings it into the house for some reason and insists on storing it in the dining room, which leaves dirty tire marks all over the floors) He refused and so I told him "fuck it then I'll move it myself" which causes him to go into a rage, he starts cursing and screaming "Dont touch my shit" extremely loudly like a maniac. I dont even touch the bike while he's screaming and raging so I wait on the couch for him to come down and finish screaming so when he eventually does move it. He comes down in his underwear and screams at me and hovers over his bike with his arms folded. I ask him again to move his bike so I can finish cleaning and he refuses to even budge and keeps screaming. I keep asking and asking him to move his bike so I can clean and he refuses to budge.
people like to walk around the dining room as it's a very nice feature of the house so his bike is a very big obstruction to the walk around, so it needs to be moved. He refuses and says they can just walk around it and that house looks clean even though it's filled with muddy motorcycle tire tracks. He screams obscenties and refuses to move the bike, so I say "fuck it, I'll move it out front", as soon as I reach towards the bike he bursts out like a manic and starts swinging at me without restraint, aiming straight for my face with his full strength, I dodge as much as I can and grab both his arms to stop him from swinging and proceeds to headbutt me in the mouth and nose a couple times while kicking at me (I'm alot heavier and taller than him) but he's very erratic and violent so I try and subdue him by putting his arms behind his back, he contiously trys to headbutt me and I lose my grip when my mom intervenes, breaks my hold and I lose my footing and he starts to poud his fists against my back like a hammer. (at this point my mom is now acting like a wall between us) while he swings for my face repeatedly.
He keeps swinging while I'm just trying to catch his punches and subdue him ( he fights like a wild animal) I dont really need to go into a play by play of the entire thing, but eventually I just give up on subduing him and just drag the motorcycle out to the front by myself ignoring his punches, he gets a good one into the side of my head and now I cannot hear out of my left ear, busts my lip and my nose to make it bleed and I eventually get the bike outside while my mom tries acts like a wall. eventually he gets fed up with beating on me without my retaliation and he screams and goes back to his room.
I'm going to file assault charges against him after the 10 and 12 clock house showings, ( I really really really really need to sell this fucking house) my uncle was there the whole time and he's chomping at the bit to get his revenge and send him to jail so at least I have his testament to his insanity, my mom refuses to speak or help me file charges against him so I'm at a loss there. Im just worried that there is now permanant damage to my ear and this could really hurt my chances to sell the house at a decent price now.
I really really really really need to sell this fucking house.
Unemployed. (very rarely get on call catering jobs anymore)
Everytime I sign an offer they back out a week later (happened like 5 times now)
Still waiting to get a doctor from medicare. And I need one now that I was diagnosed with diabetes.
And now this, I dont really understand how it escalated so quickly or so violently. I guess I shouldnt be surprised my brother has acted spontaneaously violent before. I truly believe now that he is psychopathic, it's the only explanation I can come up with as to how asking for some help and cooperation led to a fist fight.
I have people coming over to view the house this morning like I do every weekend, they happened to schedule a but earlier than usual, so I'm up early cleaning the house from top to bottom like usual since nobody else bothers to clean up after themselves. I sweep the floors and mop the floors with some wood wax so everything looks nice and shiny for the guests. The issue began when I asked my brother to move his motorcycle out of the dining room and into the backyard or front porch ( he always brings it into the house for some reason and insists on storing it in the dining room, which leaves dirty tire marks all over the floors) He refused and so I told him "fuck it then I'll move it myself" which causes him to go into a rage, he starts cursing and screaming "Dont touch my shit" extremely loudly like a maniac. I dont even touch the bike while he's screaming and raging so I wait on the couch for him to come down and finish screaming so when he eventually does move it. He comes down in his underwear and screams at me and hovers over his bike with his arms folded. I ask him again to move his bike so I can finish cleaning and he refuses to even budge and keeps screaming. I keep asking and asking him to move his bike so I can clean and he refuses to budge.
people like to walk around the dining room as it's a very nice feature of the house so his bike is a very big obstruction to the walk around, so it needs to be moved. He refuses and says they can just walk around it and that house looks clean even though it's filled with muddy motorcycle tire tracks. He screams obscenties and refuses to move the bike, so I say "fuck it, I'll move it out front", as soon as I reach towards the bike he bursts out like a manic and starts swinging at me without restraint, aiming straight for my face with his full strength, I dodge as much as I can and grab both his arms to stop him from swinging and proceeds to headbutt me in the mouth and nose a couple times while kicking at me (I'm alot heavier and taller than him) but he's very erratic and violent so I try and subdue him by putting his arms behind his back, he contiously trys to headbutt me and I lose my grip when my mom intervenes, breaks my hold and I lose my footing and he starts to poud his fists against my back like a hammer. (at this point my mom is now acting like a wall between us) while he swings for my face repeatedly.
He keeps swinging while I'm just trying to catch his punches and subdue him ( he fights like a wild animal) I dont really need to go into a play by play of the entire thing, but eventually I just give up on subduing him and just drag the motorcycle out to the front by myself ignoring his punches, he gets a good one into the side of my head and now I cannot hear out of my left ear, busts my lip and my nose to make it bleed and I eventually get the bike outside while my mom tries acts like a wall. eventually he gets fed up with beating on me without my retaliation and he screams and goes back to his room.
I'm going to file assault charges against him after the 10 and 12 clock house showings, ( I really really really really need to sell this fucking house) my uncle was there the whole time and he's chomping at the bit to get his revenge and send him to jail so at least I have his testament to his insanity, my mom refuses to speak or help me file charges against him so I'm at a loss there. Im just worried that there is now permanant damage to my ear and this could really hurt my chances to sell the house at a decent price now.
I really really really really need to sell this fucking house.
Mashin Haters
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oh man OP. best of luck to you. Praying for that sale!
Not a doctor (yet, I'm halfway through medschool though) but you most likely have a ruptured eardrum. In that case it will heal on its own over the next 3 months or so and wouldn't get treated apart from some painkillers and possibly antiobiotics to prevent infection.
Under normal circumstances I would recommend that you see a doctor to confirm it but if you don't have one yet I imagine that would be an issue.
Not sure what else to say except I feel for you. Really. If anyone deserves a break it's you.
For fuck sakes this is a damn circus. My life is really fucked up also with long strings of bad luck but it's nowhere near the level you deal with. I hope you sell the house and get the fuck out of there. Best of luck to you and hope you heal up. If I was rich I would just give you a shitload of money.
Also, sounds like a busted eardrum. Should heal up.
Also, sounds like a busted eardrum. Should heal up.
OrlanisWorks
Banned
Hope you heal up with that ear good and that you get the justice you deserve against your psychotic brother. What a fucking crazy d-bag.
NotTheGuyYouKill
Member
Let us know how filing charges goes. Your brother is a violent asshole and should be behind bars.
Your uncle .... And I thought he was bad. Now your brother. Want me to fly out there and just beat the hell out of your entire family Joe? Seriously though good luck dude you don't deserve this. These people are such asshsoles I think you are adopted at this point. Also as scoot said I too would just give you a bunch of cash if I was rich, this is just ridiculous at this point. Again good luck man.
Thanks, that sounds like it. I'll know for sure what doctor and where I can go to get treatment on monday at least so that's a positive, my health has been bad already and the busted eardrum is just icing on an already shitty cake.
Eh, as long as he has no money he's fine. He no longer pisses on the floor he now pisses out of his bedroom window so I guess that's better? the bad news is that the driveway smells like a sewer. I dont understand how is still alive his existence is mind boggling at how shitty he can treat himself and still recover with little to no issues.
Well I tried filing charges right now and it's just made everything even more fucked up and bizarre. I dont even know what kind of karmic god of hell I pissed off but I'm fucked on all sides. Basically the gist of it is, my mom threatened to file charges against me for abuse, assault and provoking him for assaulting me and is willing to send me to jail with a false testimony because she doesnt want him to go to jail again because the last time he went to jail he cried.
Just fuck everything. I should just go lay down in the middle of the fucking street and stay there.
Could be a bluff? Maybe you should just chance it. Explain everything to the police, including her attempt to blackmail you. You have obvious facial injuries, right? That should help.
It doesn't look like there is going to be an easy resolution here. Best of luck.
I will be blunt. By the decree of Karma, you have EVERY single right to just fuck off and leave them be. Actually, you have this responsibility to yourself. Karma is not about "what you do for other people". It's what you do for everyone. That includes yourself. You may be helping everyone else but you are abusing the shit out of yourself badly. That counts as much as abusing someone else.
And this is the perspective of a Buddhist monk.
And this is the perspective of a Buddhist monk.
dennett316
Banned
Confront her again about this, but this time record what she says regarding filing a false report. Then press charges against your brother because you absolutely do not have to put up with someone like that in your house. Forget jail, push for him to be put into psychiatric care.
I don't want to insult you by speaking ill of your family, but they sound like terrible people all round...but at least your brother and Uncle have some sort of excuse due to mental issues. What's wrong with your Mother to do something like this to you when you were the victim of assault? That's horrible behaviour. I know you're both her kids, but that shouldn't mean letting one of them getting away with something like that.
I seem to recall you have money tied up in that place....but it may well be worth just chalking it up to a horrible time in your life and just leaving and never looking back. Your physical and mental well being are far more important than money or brick and mortar...just get out of there and start again somewhere else. You sound like an intelligent, caring and thoughtful guy who tried his best to solve a terrible situation...you're a better person than me, as I'd have left long ago and left them all to wallow in their filth because they don't even seem to want to try.
They may be family, but they're not acting like it, so you should feel no obligation or guilt if you leave...put yourself first for a change and start again without them.
fabricated backlash
Member
Damn... OP can't seem to catch a break. Fucking hell, I'd probably set the house on fire at this point with everyone still inside.
Don't know what to say other than: Mad respect for your restraint, patience and resilience. You deserve a break, and your relatives a boot to the head, damn.
Don't know what to say other than: Mad respect for your restraint, patience and resilience. You deserve a break, and your relatives a boot to the head, damn.
OrlanisWorks
Banned
I almost wish you could set your brother's motorcycle on fire and let the house burn down with it. I am daydreaming about it. Christ on a stick, man.
Your mom sounds like a real bitch-and-a-half. Jesus christ. Threaten to file charges against you to protect her violent psychotic son from being held responsible for his actions? She is choosing him over you. All the labor you've done and not a fucking bit of appreciation? And you aren't being rewarded for all the shit you go through, house fixing and shit cleaning. Mother fucking fuck, this is fucking pissing me off.
I am so sorry, man. I can't begin to even imagine the feeling of such betrayal.
Your mom sounds like a real bitch-and-a-half. Jesus christ. Threaten to file charges against you to protect her violent psychotic son from being held responsible for his actions? She is choosing him over you. All the labor you've done and not a fucking bit of appreciation? And you aren't being rewarded for all the shit you go through, house fixing and shit cleaning. Mother fucking fuck, this is fucking pissing me off.
I am so sorry, man. I can't begin to even imagine the feeling of such betrayal.
Wow, reading this thread is really saddening. You just can't catch a break OP, I feel for you. Hope things work out.
One thing I'm not getting, and maybe I'm a bit daft for it. But if someone buys the house, where do your relatives go? Don't they live there? Surely they won't live with the people why buy the house. Again, I'm probably being stupid here.
One thing I'm not getting, and maybe I'm a bit daft for it. But if someone buys the house, where do your relatives go? Don't they live there? Surely they won't live with the people why buy the house. Again, I'm probably being stupid here.
Captain Tuttle
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It's time for you to leave, do you have friends you can stay with? Get out while you still can, you're going to end up in jail or something. Life is too short.
You own this house, right? Can't you just kick them out? I realize that they are family and you might feel bad for doing it, but fuck these people. They are making your life miserable. You should not put up with that for anything, including family. They clearly don't give a shit about you, so return the favor
And yea, talk to your mom about pressing charges against your brother, but record the conversation. That way you will have evidence that she is simply lying to protect your brother if she presses charges against you.
And yea, talk to your mom about pressing charges against your brother, but record the conversation. That way you will have evidence that she is simply lying to protect your brother if she presses charges against you.
SkeptiMism
Member
First time running into this thread and man it's sad to read. You're a real saint man and the amount of shit you've had to go through is insane. Not many people could have done what you have done and still keep living like that. I know my mind simply couldn't take it.
I truly wish all the well to you. Hopefully your life will get better eventually.
As pointed out, confront your mother again and record it so you should be safe.
You're seriously not responsible about your family at this point. You need to take care of yourself too! At this point they truly deserve any ill befalling on them.
I truly wish all the well to you. Hopefully your life will get better eventually.
As pointed out, confront your mother again and record it so you should be safe.
You're seriously not responsible about your family at this point. You need to take care of yourself too! At this point they truly deserve any ill befalling on them.
PeakPointMatrix
Member
I'm so angry for you.
Fuck.
Fuck.
First. Tell your mom to kiss your ass. She's bluffing. You have evidence from the injuries, and you have someone willing to testify for you. You'll be fine. Your brother has to suffer consequences for assaulting you. Get this disease of family drama handled by the law so you can sell this house.
I would be fueled by anger over this if I were you. You deserve better than this.
Fuck.
Fuck.
First. Tell your mom to kiss your ass. She's bluffing. You have evidence from the injuries, and you have someone willing to testify for you. You'll be fine. Your brother has to suffer consequences for assaulting you. Get this disease of family drama handled by the law so you can sell this house.
I would be fueled by anger over this if I were you. You deserve better than this.
Secret Fawful
Member
Why are you still there? Why do you stay?
NotTheGuyYouKill
Member
Burn the house down for the insurance money. Take the money and leave. Leave all of those people behind.
Some people without a garage store their bike in the house to avoid theft or cold weather. If he has a garage and still does it then he's just being an idiot.
Brother sounds like a complete asshole though. Can't believe he wouldn't just move his bike.
everyday math
Banned
Congrats man. Get out there and Iive your life. You deserve it.
Now see this is where you get a phone, set it to record, put it in your breast pocket and get her to say that she's going to file false charges, and make sure that she says and understands that she's going to do FALSE charges. Then press charges against the brother.
OKAY! PROGRESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
Anyway
Bad News: pressing charges didnt happen, no matter how much of a big deal I made out of it, nobody gave a shit about what he did or how my hearing is now impaired. Still cant hear much out of my left ear, I can hear, but it's like there's constantly water in my ear.
My brother has brought home this super shady girl that he says is his "girlfriend" who he claims he is helping hide her from the russian mafia because her roomates were forcing her to be a sex slave for money.
A normal person would see this story as bullshit, whereas my brother is commonly known by his friends as Captain Save-a-hoe, a combination of his low self esteem and his very poor taste in women always has him bringing home crazy, nasty, psycho bitches. She tells me she was kicked out of her roomates house because she stabbed her friend with a knife, then tells my mother she cant go home because the father her child and his family is trying to kill her, and then tells everyone "the truth" that she's being hunted by her roomates because she was their "sex slave".
What the fuck ever. I called the cops on her as soon as I heard that last story, and she ran. He gets all upset and starts crying that he's in love, yadda yadda. She's still here and he's keeping us here. but whatever, my mom and I are going to court on friday to get a restraining order on her and my brother (again) so we dont have to deal with this shit because....
GOOD NEWS:
WE FINALLY FUCKING SOLD THE HOUSE!
GOOD FUCKING BYE!
Anyway
Bad News: pressing charges didnt happen, no matter how much of a big deal I made out of it, nobody gave a shit about what he did or how my hearing is now impaired. Still cant hear much out of my left ear, I can hear, but it's like there's constantly water in my ear.
My brother has brought home this super shady girl that he says is his "girlfriend" who he claims he is helping hide her from the russian mafia because her roomates were forcing her to be a sex slave for money.
A normal person would see this story as bullshit, whereas my brother is commonly known by his friends as Captain Save-a-hoe, a combination of his low self esteem and his very poor taste in women always has him bringing home crazy, nasty, psycho bitches. She tells me she was kicked out of her roomates house because she stabbed her friend with a knife, then tells my mother she cant go home because the father her child and his family is trying to kill her, and then tells everyone "the truth" that she's being hunted by her roomates because she was their "sex slave".
What the fuck ever. I called the cops on her as soon as I heard that last story, and she ran. He gets all upset and starts crying that he's in love, yadda yadda. She's still here and he's keeping us here. but whatever, my mom and I are going to court on friday to get a restraining order on her and my brother (again) so we dont have to deal with this shit because....
GOOD NEWS:
WE FINALLY FUCKING SOLD THE HOUSE!
GOOD FUCKING BYE!
Grimm Fandango
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Seriously man hopefully you can finally put all of this behind you.
Seriously man hopefully you can finally put all of this behind you.
OrlanisWorks
Banned
Congratulations, mate. Hope that your ear gets better, and if not, I hope your bro gets the clap. lol
edit: Also, hope your future is damn good after all that shit.
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