I have to say, Shenmue is one of my favourite games
ever.
When I first played it, way back in the day, I couldn't get enough of it. I spent hours just wondering through the house, picking up EVERY object just to see if it did something.
I loved the little cut scenes that would take place, to be honest this game REWARDS exploration & patience, just wondering home on the right day and talking to Ine-san, "Oh Nozomi bought you flowers, they're at the alter" and then having a reflective moment where you pray to your late father. Amazing. But if you want linear gameplay, handholding and action 24/7 you WILL MISS OUT.
You interact with the daily livees of everone, and see friendships and relationships form around you. And man, what really grabbd me was the presentaion of Chinese culture and folklore, it was SOOOO COOL! I would take my Mirror to everyone in Yokosuka just to see if they had an opinion on it - and many of them
did.
I replay it often, and am currently playing through 2 with my wife (her 1st playthrough). She isn't interested though. She isn't into games that much at all really anyway. I try to pursuade her, but she is like, well you do the running around, and then let me know when it's time to
do something. But the walking around IS the game, and she misses out on everything that makes it special.
However I still love the game and enjoy my playthroughs. I have probably played Shenmue 1 & 2 over 15 times, and I still haven't seen everything in the games. As others have said it was groundbreaking at the time, but I still think it is a great game now, held back only by the bad controls, slight pacing issues and bad VA work (Sega's fault not the VA's).
Essentially it is marmite: