Unsympathetic?
I hope he recovers to the point that he is capable of making that decision, should he choose to. Have a nice day.
Or how about you just fuck off with your know it all bullshit and give the guy who's going through a really difficult time a break? There are tons of other threads for you to show off in.
Since none of us know the reasons why Seth's brother did what he did and none of us are at the hospital watching his mother breakdown, how about giving the armchair psychologist thing a break. Go demonstrate your intimate knowledge of the human mind on some other thread and give Seth a place to vent his feelings. Anger, guilt, those are normal human feelings when something shitty like this happens.
I know you guys want him to act in a certain way that you read about on wikipedia, but human emotions don't work like that.
A++ post, should be reported in every suicide thread. I was disgusted with GAF when the cliche torrent of "You're selfish for not respecting his right to end his life" garbage started hitting on page one.
It's my opinion and not 'know it all bs'
A++ post, should be reported in every suicide thread. I was disgusted with GAF when the cliche torrent of "You're selfish for not respecting his right to end his life" garbage started hitting on page one.
As much sympathy as I myself feel for the OP's brother, it's important to understand and sympathize with the OP as well. He's going through his own emotional turmoil and I can't imagine the confusion and hurt he is feeling right now. Anger is an understandable emotion, whether it is needed and rationalized or not. Anger is just one of the easiest and most common emotions to feel and that's the way he's channeling his pain. he may regret these feelings all together later, but either way, he's struggling right now as well. Not only does he have his brother to worry about, but his brother's girlfriend and the rest of his family.
I hope things work out Seth C. I'm praying for you and your family
This is almost as bad, to me, as "suicide is selfish". I have a problem with anyone who says either one.
Jesus Christ people, it's possible to have more than one reaction to something like this at the same. It's not a binary thing.
The fuck? Hanging yourself is a dick move cause of the pain it causes you're family?
'Hey you had to suffer so much pain you tried to kill yourself, now you should feel bad for making me worry, you selfish bastard!'
If I was your brother I'd probably never speak to you again.
That's a very cruel and thoughtless thing to say. It's a painful thing to witness and experience the after effects of a suicide attempt by someone close to you. Anger is a perfectly reasonable and human response in the aftermath of such an event.
Perhaps. I've never been on that end of it.
Even so, anyone who is making the argument that suicide is selfish is speaking from a position of ignorance. And they are lucky. If they had ever been that depressed, they would understand how he must have felt in those moments and the feelings that must have driven him to that point, and I would not wish that on anyone.
Perhaps. I've never been on that end of it.
Even so, anyone who is making the argument that suicide is selfish is speaking from a position of ignorance. And they are lucky. If they had ever been that depressed, they would understand how he must have felt in those moments and the feelings that must have driven him to that point, and I would not wish that on anyone.
Perhaps. I've never been on that end of it.
Even so, anyone who is making the argument that suicide is selfish is speaking from a position of ignorance. And they are lucky. If they had ever been that depressed, they would understand how he must have felt in those moments and the feelings that must have driven him to that point, and I would not wish that on anyone.
Goddammit people......
For all people:
http://dying.about.com/od/thedyingprocess/a/DABDA.htm
For men:
http://artofmanliness.com/2009/08/0...ery-man-should-know-about-losing-a-loved-one/
I wasn't talking about the OP. As I said, I've never been on that end of it, and while I cannot imagine being angry about it, given that I can empathize with someone being in that state, I cannot say with certainty. I might well feel some sense of betrayal or bitterness. I think that's somewhat different, and while he might rationally know these things, grief makes you feel and say things you might otherwise not.
I was referring to people who were blithely making those judgments from the comfort of their computer screen. They speak out of ignorance.
As I said, I've never been on that end of it, and while I cannot imagine being angry about it, given that I can empathize with someone being in that state, I cannot say with certainty.
I'm sorry, but your avatar, I've played K7 too much not to recognize it.My ex-gfs grandfather shot himself I'm the head 5 days ago. He had trouble breathing and it kept getting worse and worse. The doctors found a significant amount of asbestos in his lungs the week prior. He said his goodbyes to everyone and shot himself in his car a block away from his last goodbye.
I don't consider suicide selfish at all. Some people truly believe that it's for the best. Sometimes there really isn't anything to help them. Believe me when I say that as I've had quite a few friends press the shutdown button as one of them explained it.
My condolences OP.
I'm sorry, but your avatar, I've played K7 too much not to recognize it.
Hope everything gets better OP. Is your mom ok now?
Be strong!
man i was JUST having urges to hang myself like a day ago. you shouldnt blame people for wanting to die, everyone
Please don't Sadsic. Your life is not meant to end this early. Keep making music, share it with us! Share it with the world!man i was JUST having urges to hang myself like a day ago. you shouldnt blame people for wanting to die, everyone
Perhaps. I've never been on that end of it.
Even so, anyone who is making the argument that suicide is selfish is speaking from a position of ignorance. And they are lucky. If they had ever been that depressed, they would understand how he must have felt in those moments and the feelings that must have driven him to that point, and I would not wish that on anyone.
Seth, check your pm's. If you need anything, let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are for your brother, you, and your fam.
I'd come over and give you a hug if I could. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck to you and yours.