Hypereides
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Sounds like a classic gold digger to me. Just sayin'
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My father got his young girlfriend pregnant
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Chuck Norris
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No offence but at 70, I have some doubts that that is your dads kid.
Charles Foster Kane
Rosebud
I don't know. The moment my dad dies I don't think they'd ever let me get near him/her anyways. I haven't said a word to a member of that family in ages (I always ignored them even when they acted like asses), and since they've been dating she and I sort of cross paths but never even look at each other.
I don't think it's my business to get involved there. Maybe I'll get in touch when she/he's grown up.
My sister is going to ask for a paternity test.
FreeMufasa
Junior Member
Yeah respect. Spreading his seed so late in life.
My grandad got 27 kids and 4 wives right now. He's 83 and his youngest kid is 2 and wife 21.
He's African and rich
Damn, Mufasa seems to be way different than in his movieDamn! This wouldn't happen to be him, would it?
As I read your post, I went from wanting to high five your dad for nailing a younger woman, but when I read your mom had barely been dead for 2 months when they started dating, I felt a little bad, but it's not uncommon for someone to immediately get in a relationship as a coping mechanism.
But once I read about her family making fun of your mom, especially while she was in a wheelchair (my dad was in a wheelchair 80% of his life), I felt disgusted. What they did was messed up, but for your dad to get involved with that piece of shit family like that makes me have absolutely no sympathy for him. What a fucking disrespect. Sorry, but this hits close to home for me. I could never ever ever imagine allowing anyone to disrespect my dad like that, no matter who it is.
I feel bad for you because she'll try to fuck with your inheritance (this is all she wants, she doesn't give two shits about your dad), but I have absolutely no sympathy for your dad.
Get that paternity test done, and protect your family. Parasites like those people (and I use 'people' as a term very loosely) should have no business in your family.
This is my view. She must have some rag-tag boyfriend on the side.
Escape Goat
Member
How hard can it be to out maneuver a 70 year old anyways? I bet she was gold digging for sure. Or shes got some real issues at home.
sixteen-bit
Member
Gotta respect the hustle.
iamshadowlark
Banned
At least it isn't your grandfather. Nobody wants that younger uncle/aunt.
battousai11
Member
Try to talk to your dad and air out your concerns. If he doesn't listen, then move out and start your life.
To add insult to injury, he moved on to a scumbag family that mocked OP's mother while in a wheelchair.
Hypereides
Member
That part is pretty ironic and kinda amusing at the same time.
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This chick is taking advantage of this old guy and he seems oblivious.
You dudes can talk hustlin' all you like, but by the way it sounds, she's hustlin' him.
paternity test, when positive - holy ****
Yeah, your dad sounds creepy as hell. You've known her since childhood. She's the same age as you. He watched her grow up. And he paid for her to go to college? Then decides to start having sex with her immediately after his wife dies? Sounds like he'll fit right in with her scumbag family.
WascallyWabbit
Member
Her universty??? If she's 27 now that's about 10 years ago when she would have gone to uni and your mom died 2 months ago, she was cool with him paying for some other kids' tuition?
Moral Panic
Member
There's nothing you can do.
GotEmRunnin
Member
He's grown, she's grown.....I really can't say to much about the age difference. I'd never do it but to each his own. If it's love....I guess it's okay.
If not then..........Karma's the biggest baddest bitch on the yard and she'll make em pay.
If not then..........Karma's the biggest baddest bitch on the yard and she'll make em pay.
Woody Invincible
Banned
She's passed on. What's to say?
Sounds very much like his heart moved on some time ago, but he stayed with his sick wife bound to her wheelchair out of a sense of loyalty. Surely that's a good thing?
Based on the info given here, and also trying to see the dads side of the story i don't get why the dad is automatically the bad guy here.
Now, i undestand why the OP is pissed off about the whole thing, but that doesn't automatically place the dad in the wrong.
aparisi2274
Member
Those were my exact words...
Oh and OP, sorry about this... something similar happened to my friend and now he is 39 with a 5 yo brother.
Well, if her family is mocking his dead wife and OP's mother, and he knows about it, that seems pretty bad.
He's not hooking up with her family.
Chezzymann
Member
You do realize that mean's he's rich right? Or is being able to do that not rich to you?:
Spider from Mars
tap that thorax
I hope to be pulling down 27 year old trim when I am 70.
FloatingDivider
Member
I don't want to hate on the OP but your dad is his own man and if he's happy who are you to judge. Life is short and fleeting and at your dads age he's approaching the end of his if he derives enjoyment out of being together with a younger woman I say let him. If you're 27 (or close to) you should be in a position where you allow your dad to live the remainder of his life as he pleases, he owes you nothing anymore. Now granted if this woman is abusive or affecting your dad in a negative way I'd advise you to intervene but from the O.P's post I don't see any indications of your dad experiencing this in a negative way. You might, but your dad is probably happy and you should let him enjoy said happiness.
I know from your perspective it seems like he's desecrating the memory of your mother but she's gone unfortunately and he's still here. He can whine, moan, cry and agonize over this untill he dies but that's not changing anything and it's far healthier for him to move on. If she's cheating on him that's another matter entirely and he may be setting himself up for future pain but that requires proof. As for the DNA test this topic is advising I don't disagree as fertility in older males tends to drop off quite significantly but it's not impossible - especially with a younger fertile woman. If she doesn't agree she doesn't have to as there are quite a few labratories that do paternity testing without court mandates - and the genetic material should be fairly easy to procure once the child is born.
I know from your perspective it seems like he's desecrating the memory of your mother but she's gone unfortunately and he's still here. He can whine, moan, cry and agonize over this untill he dies but that's not changing anything and it's far healthier for him to move on. If she's cheating on him that's another matter entirely and he may be setting himself up for future pain but that requires proof. As for the DNA test this topic is advising I don't disagree as fertility in older males tends to drop off quite significantly but it's not impossible - especially with a younger fertile woman. If she doesn't agree she doesn't have to as there are quite a few labratories that do paternity testing without court mandates - and the genetic material should be fairly easy to procure once the child is born.
OP if anything related to your mom is still around I'd kept an eye on it (in light of the mocking of you mother) and I'd certainly check into who the home is going to. If your prepared to walk once your dad passes that might be the only thing that brings you piece of mind but I'd fight for the house if it's the one you grew up in as I'm sure it might hold a lot of memories.
However a 70 and 27 match up should send up red flags. Rarely that is genuine on the part of the 27 year old. Especially with what you've said about her family. Your family being just "okay" is likely going to appear "rich" to a family that is pretty "poor". Him paying for her to attend a university means he's rich. Period. Most people can't simply just do that for another person, especially not one that is not apart of their family. Also if he did that chances are this is going on longer then you think.
At the rate it's going though I'd just secure what you could so it's not trash by this woman and her family so when you father passes you can make a clean break even if the child is his. Good luck.
However a 70 and 27 match up should send up red flags. Rarely that is genuine on the part of the 27 year old. Especially with what you've said about her family. Your family being just "okay" is likely going to appear "rich" to a family that is pretty "poor". Him paying for her to attend a university means he's rich. Period. Most people can't simply just do that for another person, especially not one that is not apart of their family. Also if he did that chances are this is going on longer then you think.
At the rate it's going though I'd just secure what you could so it's not trash by this woman and her family so when you father passes you can make a clean break even if the child is his. Good luck.
Byakuya769
Member
I wonder why...
BriareosGAF
Member
The only question you need to get answered is if your father is aware of what she's doing (angling for inheritance, etc.) and is fine with it. If he is, and is of sound mind and body, your work is done, shake his hand and tell him to have a nice life and check out from the situation.
FlipWilson
Neo Member
get that bitch out of there!!! it seems she's clearly dating him for financial purposes, make sure she doesn't get anywhere near your inheritance and check that will(if your father has made one)
you might really have to have a long converation with your dad, try to get on a trip(fishing?) and talk to him then. nothing good comes from just watching
I can speak in a similar way as my mom was dating some young dude she was in her late 40's while he was in his early 20's; she had awlays been a single mother to me and my sister. and was clearly using her for financial means, when I found out a gathered a few friends, went to his apartment and told him to stay the fuck out of my mother's life....he never came back.
At 70, banging a 27 year old, sounds like your father is a player.
Okay but what if she was part of the mocking? Either way, it's very odd to be this good with the family after they acted so abhorrent. Honestly, moving on after 2 months is already weird enough(I mean come on, they spent 40 years of their lives together) but going after someone your sons age who you saw grow up? Guys got issues.
Spider from Mars
tap that thorax
Your dad was 43 when she was born and now he is having sex with her. Awesome
Did he pay for your university? If not, I would be pissed.
Alligatorjandro
Banned
Seems like your dad was with her long before your mom died.
dskillzhtown
keep your strippers out of my American football
Honestly it isn't that uncommon for a man to get involved with another woman quickly after is wife dies. Loneliness is a powerful feeling. But him paying for her schooling does raise serious red flags. Maybe he had a thing for her and the feeling was mutual and they are now acting on it.
CitizenCope
Member
Your dad is going to be the envy at his high school reunion.
Sounds like he's the one being played. Try thinking with something besides your dick.
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