if you love anything on a shelf, move it to a lower shelf.
If you love your sofa cover it with blanket
SCRATCHING POSTS ARE VITAL
Remember that feeling of poking your toes out the end of the bed on a hot summer night?
That's gone now. Forget about it.
Don't make the same mistake I did. PAY ATTENTION TO THE HEALTH OF THEIR TEETH. Get them cleaned often and make sure they don't head towards gum disease, it is a prominent problem with cats and it can run you as much as 2500 dollars if they need to do extractions on their teeth
uhhh, thats too early to take them from their mother
You need to give him a couple of days to adjust. He's confused and scared.Kept the kitten in bathroom last night and he seemed to be fine. Then at around 5:30 am he started crying and didn't stop for about 45 minutes. I gave him some canned food and he even cried while eating that. I let him out of the bathroom and he is now hiding under the couch while I type this laying on the floor. He will watch me play with toys but won't get involved. He'll still run away if I get to close but if I pick him up he doesn't bit, scratch, or cry. At the same time he doesn't seem like he wants to be held, he is just given in to the fact he can't get away. Not really the new kitten experience I was hoping for but its still early.
Kept the kitten in bathroom last night and he seemed to be fine. Then at around 5:30 am he started crying and didn't stop for about 45 minutes. I gave him some canned food and he even cried while eating that. I let him out of the bathroom and he is now hiding under the couch while I type this laying on the floor. He will watch me play with toys but won't get involved. He'll still run away if I get to close but if I pick him up he doesn't bit, scratch, or cry. At the same time he doesn't seem like he wants to be held, he is just given in to the fact he can't get away. Not really the new kitten experience I was hoping for but its still early.
Actually, being handled is better. Many of their behaviors are forming now. The more they get used to it now, the better they are when they're adults.Give him time. Might take a couple of weeks to be comfortable around you (probably less).
I would avoid picking him up unless he specifically lets you. It'll just teach him to be weary of being near the new scary stranger if he's picked up when he doesn't want to be.
Well I failed at being a cat parent. Last night was worse then the first night and when I got home today he cried almost nonstop for 3 hours. I tried feeding him right when I got home but he wouldn't go to the food. When he finally did he cried while eating. That gave him more energy to cry louder. While he was still scared of me he was less scared of the apartment so would roam around crying instead of doing it under the couch. I tried getting him to play with multiple toys and I tried shutting myself in another room but he wouldn't stop crying. I finally had to take him back to the person I got him from and the sounds he made during the drive was soul wrenching. Now I feel like a shitty person and that the cat might be traumatized for life.
They will keep doing that for a long time. Mine are almost a year old now and still chase each other around multiple times a day, hehe. Kinda sucks when they do it at night tho..