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[hateradio]

What a peculiar predicament.

 

[Mickey Avalon]

If I fap before I smang I generally last about twice as long as I would if I did not fap beforehand

 

[tiff]

Avatar Trance I think.

I've usually seen it go by Avatar Trans!, but yep.

Wow, I just... that totally... I think I .... uh

*fap fap fap fap fap fap fap*

I told ya.

 

[computers putin']

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=302108

Maaaannnn, those tapes were wack as hell.

 

[jmdajr]

To be serious...of those of you are are suffering from delayed ejac... how many of you are using condoms? Cause trust me it's like night and day between using them and not. And I don't encourage anyone to be irresponsible, but trust me.... things happen way faster (and feels a millions times better) without those damn things...

Another thing to consider.... People often get used to their hands after wanking it for years. A woman's privates are never going to have that kind of grip.

Plus don't disregard hand jobs and BJs. They can be awesome as well.

You really have to learn to relax. If you fill your mind with negative bullshit things will never go well for you.

Spoiler

stop jerking off so damn much!

 

[Metalmurphy]

I think I saw this on CSI once lol, who would have though it was true.

 

[Suairyu]

Well then. This probably explains a few things.

Time to quit porn.

However, I do think the article confused its message by talking about guys expecting girls to pull the acrobatic positions they see in videos. Anyone who has ever experimented knows those positions are for aesthetic value only and are actually quite shite in practice.

 

[computers putin']

To be serious...of those of you are are suffering from delayed ejac... how many of you are using condoms? Cause trust me it's like night and day between using them and not. And I don't encourage anyone to be irresponsible, but trust me.... things happen way faster (and feels a millions times better) without those damn things...

Another thing to consider.... People often get used to their hands after wanking it for years. A woman's privates are never going to have that kind of grip.

Plus don't disregard hand jobs and BJs. They can be awesome as well.

You really have to learn to relax. If you fill your mind with negative bullshit things will never go well for you.

grip aside, the texture of a womans vagina feels sooooo much better than a hand could. Are there really people out there that prefer a hand job/ masturbation to vaginal intercourse?

 

[tiff]

However, I do think the article confused its message by talking about guys expecting girls to pull the acrobatic positions they see in videos. Anyone who has ever experimented knows those positions are for aesthetic value only and are actually quite shite in practice.

What kind of positions?

 

[fastford58]

It gets really bad when ordinary porn doesn't cut it any more.

Truth lol

 

[Deified Data]

I worry about shit like this. Won't be 'bating tonight.

 

[npfpof]

This was a case for me, but I deleted everything I had and started again with SOFT porn. And it totally works.

I can't stand any of that throat choking shit. I need to feel a connection with the performing artist!

hahah GAF is the best.

Just stop fapping for a while. Your sensitivity to touch down there will return

 

[ajf009]

Damn... No more porn for me for awhile

 

[ATF487]

I've thought about this, I thought it was just a sensitivity issue though. I'll try avoiding porn.

Wanking has sort of lost its luster for me though, I do it about once a week now at the most. Can't believe I used to do it once a day

 

[Suairyu]

What kind of positions?

Any that are designed to show as much to a camera rather than give you and your partner the easiest job.

Basically, anything that isn't a variant (and before you go "only three?!", there a ton of variants) of missionary, cowgirl or doggy should be treated as a 'probably not that great in practice' thing. Exceptions exist.

 

[Rage Kage]

I wonder what kind of side effects there are for a woman who gets herself off regularly.

Certainly not the same as male side effects, but it would be interesting to see if their libido goes down as well or if it takes them longer during intercourse etc.

(I'm not a girl, just curious)

 

[bluemax]

It's not exactly a brag. The girl will get self conscious and depressed really quickly if that happens too often. She'll think the reason you can't bust is because she's too ugly or something, and you won't be able to convince her otherwise. Relationship falls apart pretty soon after that.

Yup, this is pretty much exactly what happened in my last relationship. My ex was hot, and I enjoyed sex with her but I never came. She thought I wasn't attracted to her and preferred porn. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and it all went away because of this.

grip aside, the texture of a womans vagina feels sooooo much better than a hand could. Are there really people out there that prefer a hand job/ masturbation to vaginal intercourse?

Speaking only for myself, it wasn't a matter of my hand feeling better. The vagina was by far superior. But when it came to inducing climax, nothing else felt "right".

The stupid part is, I saw a therapist for awhile and he suggested we stop having sex and masturbating and just touch either other in different ways for awhile. Of course having the self control to do this is something we lacked, but I understand now the theory behind it.

 

[Leatherface]

This is a scary article and I'm sure it's setting off some alarms with a lot of us. Time to redirect focus away from sweet, sweet porn.

 

[low-G]

I must be super horny because I still get rock hard thinking of girls that aren't even that hot. :X

 

[jmdajr]

I must be super horny because I still get rock hard thinking of girls that aren't even that hot. :X

To be fair some hot girls can be well... kind of boring.

It's more important to have "it", and only you know what that is...

 

[bangai-o]

this is stupid. Guys have been fapping for centuries. Now somebody writes a "study" and everyone is scared.

 

[reakt]

I fucked my way through the filth and came out the other side.

That should be your tagline

 

[low-G]

To be fair some hot girls can be well... kind of boring.

It's more important to have "it", and only you know what that is...

True nuff.

 

[JDSN]

I only masturbate to porn that stars the Wispy Scoundrel. This explains everything.

 

[Truant]

this is stupid. Guys have been fapping for centuries. Now somebody writes a "study" and everyone is scared.

Did you even read the article?

 

[samus i am]

this is stupid. Guys have been fapping for centuries. Now somebody writes a "study" and everyone is scared.

But they haven't been fapping to internet porn for centuries. You can watch porn on your smartphone on the way to train to work everyday. It really is everywhere to a degree that has never been seen.

 

[nVidiot_Whore]

Not unique to porn. There is such a thing called sexual fatigue. It's more visual for men obviously because of weak erections. Happened to me when both my wife and I were trying to have the 2nd child. A bit of it was the pressure to perform twice a day (or more) during her ovulation periods. After a few days .. your dong needs a break.

Well, I just mean consistently having fairly wild sexual experiences.. not necessarily 2-3 times a day or due to any fatigue... but fairly consistently experience new attractive females, 3somes, etc.

Seems like you'd be far more prone to desensitization.

If you are used to having a lot of hot women around.. could make sex in a committed relationship difficult.

Unless of course that partner allows you to have other sexual partners.

 

[enzo_gt]

I worry about shit like this. Won't be 'bating tonight.

Amen.

 

[bangai-o]

But they haven't been fapping to internet porn for centuries. You can watch porn on your smartphone on the way to train to work everyday. It really is everywhere to a degree that has never been seen.

i dont think there is enough fapping material anyway. I see girls on campus and i start thinking, where is Bangbros needs to get his ass over here.

 

[tiff]

Any that are designed to show as much to a camera rather than give you and your partner the easiest job.

Basically, anything that isn't a variant (and before you go "only three?!", there a ton of variants) of missionary, cowgirl or doggy should be treated as a 'probably not that great in practice' thing. Exceptions exist.

I can't really think of anything that couldn't be considered a "variant" of those three so, whew.

 

[DaCocoBrova]

I'm surprised there's been no mention of sexual stimulants, easily found at gas stations and convenience stores (Stiff Nights, MoJo, Stamina RX etc.).

I use stiff nights maybe twice a month.

To quote Johhny Drama:

In case I really have to bury one...

 

[DiscoJer]

I will gladly masturbate every day until I die.

According to Ernest Borgnine, that is the secret to a long, healthy, life.

He's like in his mid 90s and still sharp mentally, so...works for him, anyway.

 

[Kentpaul]

I'm surprised there's been no mention of sexual stimulants, easily found at gas stations and convenience stores (Stiff Nights, MoJo, Stamina RX etc.).

I use stiff nights maybe twice a month.

To quote Johhny Drama:

Is it true if you take Viagra once, your cock will never be the same again, i would love to take Viagra for the pure fun of it (lay around the house fapping all day), but i'm worried i will have sexual trouble in the future because of it.

 

[DaCocoBrova]

Is it true if you take Viagra once, your cock will never be the same again, i would love to take Viagra for the pure fun of it (lay around the house fapping all day), but i'm worried i will have sexual trouble in the future because of it.

Viagra is way too strong for any one here (make that...most of us here. There are some old heads). Just take half of one is you go that (expensive) route.

For me, it's two things that I feel these stimulants do that benefit me. The erection quality is exponentially better. Shit, I could get it through leather! That and piece of mind. My girl sucks in bed, but loves to fuck. So the occasional 'Stiff Nights' allows me to just 'set it & forget it'. Plus it lasts for like 3 days.

 

[Wellington]

more testosterone gives you a confidence boost and even helps your ability to concentrate on mental tasks.

 

[lightless_shado]

That's weird, I fap pretty often and if I look at or get close to a good looking girl I can get aroused pretty easily. I even passed that "test" in the OP.

Guess I'm some sort of sexual beast.

 

[PhoenixDark]

My dick can realize when I'm watching porn and actually having sex, and responds differently. I was going through my Mandingo collection a few days ago and just couldn't get into it, despite being in the mood to fap. You know how you might be at the grocery store and see a hot chick and just get a heat tingling in your dick, and the only thing you can think about is running home to find some porn with a performer who looks like her? Well I was in that situation. Got home and qued up a video with Katsumi, who the chick resembled, but I seemed to lose all my interest/hardness the moment I whipped it out. I still fapped, but it just wasn't the same.

I've never had a situation where I can't get hard during a sexual encounter though, so maybe porn is just offering me diminishing returns. Last time I got a bj I was still hard after the deed was done, so I got a titty fuck. Didn't bust again though, and after a few minutes we just gave up and started watching Glee until I lost my erection and went home; she's not ready for intercourse, nor am I too interested in that thing.

 

[Piano]

Meh, I mostly stick to softcore amateur shit anyways. Professional porn is generally really boring.

 

[SolKane]

Think I have this, my ex thought I was gay because I had problems getting hard for her.

 

[IcyBlueStrawberry]

It gets really bad when ordinary porn doesn't cut it any more.

Truth.

If I find regular intercourse boring at 21, I don't want to know what I'll be into when I'm 40.

 

[Dommo]

We need a new Must not FAP thread after this and compare the results to the last one. Might be a lot more competitive.

 

[lightless_shado]

We need a new Must not FAP thread after this and compare the results to the last one. Might be a lot more competitive.

Google overlords have destroyed any chances of that happening. Chances are this thread will be locked too seeing as it violates 2 of the new rules

 

[george_us]

It's more important to have "it", and only you know what that is...

This can't be quoted enough.

Man I wish I had a non-existent sex drive though. It'd be nice not to think about boning a girl every time a girl with a nice booty walks by. Plus I swear it's always the times I'm not thinking about girls, sex, etc. is when girls always come running but I don't really have the time or energy to deal with them.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

A friend of mine had extreme rape porn streaming on his TV 24/7 in his apartment before he got married. With sound on.

It was bad.

why in the hell were you friends with this guy and how did he find a wife?!

 

[Ranger X]

I see alot of people in the thread mentionning softcore porn like it wasn't creating the same problem. It DOES. The only way out is "less porn", whatever porn it is. It's not because of the kind of porn you watch, it's because you desensitise yourself physically by getting dependant on MENTAL excitation because of a porn excess.

There's a story here, and I want it.

There's no interesting stories lol. I simply consulted a sexologist for some time.

 

[lightless_shado]

This can't be quoted enough.

Man I wish I had a non-existent sex drive though. It'd be nice not to think about boning a girl every time a girl with a nice booty walks by. Plus I swear it's always the times I'm not thinking about girls, sex, etc. is when girls always come running but I don't really have the time or energy to deal with them.

 

[Esch]

Plus I swear it's always the times I'm not thinking about girls, sex, etc. is when girls always come running but I don't really have the time or energy to deal with them.

Too true.

Day 3 of no fapping. Actually feels alright man. I couldn't stop thinking about boning the girl who sits in front of me in class though.

 

[LakeEarth]

I would say I have this. I can still have sex, but I'm definitely not as excited as I feel like I should be, and I usually have to think about dirty, dirty stuff to finish.

 

[pelicansurf]

Just cut down masturbation habits to once a day Or even once every couple of days. Then on days you know you're getting some, forget about jerking off and ruin your girl. I've tried Stamina RX like twice and all it does is give you a mega boner with zero stamina(at least when going raw). The girl I'm with gets me hard instantly and I last forever(via focus). Everyone wins.

 

[GatorBait]

Jerking off with your eyes closed and without porn is like fucking your girlfriend with your eyes closed. Either way, I want visual stimuli.

Same thing I always thought when I read these kinda things...I like to actually see a naked girl regardless if it is sex or masturbation. Lights off sex is not something I condone.