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Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction

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Porn can be great.. although I don't watch it much any more.. I do watch it with my girlfriend from time to time.. that's always fun.. "I'd love to watch you fuck that whore" is a turn on to hear while watching a porn with your girl.
 

pelicansurf

Needs a Holiday on Gallifrey
GatorBait said:
Same thing I always thought when I read these kinda things...I like to actually see a naked girl regardless if it is sex or masturbation. Lights off sex is not something I condone.
I dont do no-lights fucking, but masturbating with your eyes closed comes nowhere close to having sex with your eyes closed. There's noises, juices, and contact in one; while the other one involves you sitting on the toilet with your hand on your cock.
 

Suairyu

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EschatonDX said:
Too true.

Day 3 of no fapping. Actually feels alright man. I couldn't stop thinking about boning the girl who sits in front of me in class though.
Just 87 more days to go then you're home free!
 

Esch

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Suairyu said:
Just 87 more days to go then you're home free!

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Enco

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I don't get the hardcore stuff.

Don't find it a turn on at all. Anything with a naked dude is crap. Softcore is better.
 

Joe

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last girl i was with gave me a blowjob for over 30 minutes until i finished. towards the end i literally started feeling bad for her....i need to stop watching porn.
 

way more

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What a crock of shit. This sounds like the bullshit stat that says less men are trying to get girlfriends because of easy access to porn.

Where is our porn advocate? What brave man will take up that mantle?
 
mr stroke said:
This study blows


I stroke it to Redtube all the time, when I am with the wife I still am a 3 pump chump

Pretty much. This is just the equivalent of Jack Thompsons "Games make kids violent" shit, it's a bunch of nonsense. I've watched porn for years, looked at nude pics etc. I still operate at 100 percent in the bedroom, and if anything, I've learnt more about sex through the net with what works well, and how to perform etc, than any sex education or parent has taught me.

Porn does no automatically make you a socially disconnected wanking freak. It's a form of relieving stress and gaining pleasure, that's all.

Jesus...
 
Joe said:
last girl i was with gave me a blowjob for over 30 minutes until i finished. towards the end i literally started feeling bad for her....i need to stop watching porn.
Maybe she just wasn't any good?
 

Joe

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Horsemama1956 said:
Maybe she just wasn't any good?
that was part of it, but in my head i remember thinking this has to be because of all the porn i watch and this study reaffirms my own self suspicions.
 

Brobzoid

how do I slip unnoticed out of a gloryhole booth?
y'all should watch softer stuff if it's messing with your interaction with real women. ifeelmyself.com or or some such.
 

Wazzim

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I don´t understand how people can mastrubate so much, it´s much better when you had a little break from porn.
 

GatorBait

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pelicansurf said:
I dont do no-lights fucking, but masturbating with your eyes closed comes nowhere close to having sex with your eyes closed. There's noises, juices, and contact in one; while the other one involves you sitting on the toilet with your hand on your cock.
You do have a point, but if I found any enjoyment out of fucking with my eyes closed, I would be banging a new fatty every weekend.

Wazzim said:
I don´t understand how people can mastrubate so much, it´s much better when you had a little break from porn.
I have a rather high sex drive, I think. There have been times where I've been getting sex 1+ times per day and still wanted to rub when out when my girl wasn't readily available.
 

Monocle

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If you have a big porn stash and don't want to feel like a weirdo, delete everything but your favorite 10 - 15% and then stop worrying. People have always liked sex; it's part of the package deal you get when you're a human. Modern technology gives us new ways to enjoy it, but let's not forget about all the Greek vases and bathhouse walls strewn with erotica, and indeed patent smut. Most of our habits and inclinations aren't that different from those of people who lived thousands of years ago. As with so many other "vices," there's probably a place in your life for porn if you keep a healthy attitude about it. Balance your porn consumption with other sexual activities and you'll be fine.

HiResDes said:
You are going to hate yourself soon, I'm afraid. I still regret my first and only guilt-induced porn deletion spree.
 
Wait... so... I'm like the only one that downloads a bunch of movies/pictures/etc, fap until I'm dry, and then delete it? Seriously?
 

Monocle

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iKeepPlaying said:
Wait... so... I'm like the only one that downloads a bunch of movies/pictures/etc, fap until I'm dry, and then delete it? Seriously?
Instead of doing that, why not stream?
 

tiff

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iKeepPlaying said:
Wait... so... I'm like the only one that downloads a bunch of movies/pictures/etc, fap until I'm dry, and then delete it? Seriously?
I keep everything. Never know when you might be in the mood for something again.
 

Ether_Snake

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try to masturbate (alone) using no porn and no fantasy—only sensual touch.

Errr so have sex like a blind and deaf person? Really?
 
I'm on my way out of this after having struggled with it for years, thank god. In my case it was not only fueled by watching porn only, though, but mostly from bad experiences with past relations which undermined my self confidence altogether. This would not only inhibit me from sex but also seeking a relationship, which I really wanted and needed, but my subconscious would always get in the way. Now I finally have a girlfriend with which I am finally starting to fully enjoy sex with others. Feels good, man, even if it's come a liitle bit late in my life. I haven't stopped watching porn altogether, but I do it only once or twice per week, if I haven't seen my partner for a while.
 
Monocle said:
Instead of doing that, why not stream?
I do that too.
But sometimes you want to try some new stuff and it is not always in video format.

Anyway, I'm on a no fap run since some gaffer posted:
theignoramus said:
more testosterone (...) even helps your ability to concentrate on mental tasks.
 

Salsa

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i get it up fast, but i certainly take some time to ejaculate

i might have this

then again, not gonna se a lady complaint over how long i can go on and on

yay for porn!
 
Jhriad said:
Maybe if guys would stop trying to vise grip their dicks while pumping it like there's no tomorrow they wouldn't be having as big a problem with the strength of their erections. Seriously I've had a couple friends that have complained about their boyfriends desensitizing their dicks by not understanding how to masterbate properly. Learn how to yank your shit properly people.
I don't have too much of a death grip but when I masturbate it is usually for 30-45 minutes of jerking/edging until I finish.
 

SolKane

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bytesized said:
I'm on my way out of this after having struggled with it for years, thank god. In my case it was not only fueled by watching porn only, though, but mostly from bad experiences with past relations which undermined my self confidence altogether. This would not only inhibit me from sex but also seeking a relationship, which I really wanted and needed, but my subconscious would always get in the way. Now I finally have a girlfriend with which I am finally starting to fully enjoy sex with others. Feels good, man, even if it's come a liitle bit late in my life. I haven't stopped watching porn altogether, but I do it only once or twice per week, if I haven't seen my partner for a while.

how did you find that relationship?
 

redhot_

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Fuck it.. going cold turkey.. this is going to be hell. At least my Canadian capped monthly internet will be safe for awhile
 

deejay8595

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Interesting thread...

I am on day 1 without it and it is hard. I believe the longest i've lasted without porn was about 2 weeks lol. Anyone else ever feel like this...? If you masturbate before bed then wake up the next morning you will still feel tired. Don't do the deed before you go to sleep then see how great you feel the next morning.
 
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