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We've been over this and you're never going to get it. If Sony say "You must install this update in order for your console to continue working as it did when we sold it to you, and you no longer have the option to reject this arbitrarily changed agreement and return your hardware for a refund" then it's not an entirely free choice. By updating you lose functionality or enable undesirable features. By not updating you lose the ability to access certain features of games that you've paid for in good faith, and the ability to play back media that you've paid for in good faith.
As a consumer, I dislike the precedent this sets. As a consumer, you don't give a toss. That's going to be the way it is. You're perfectly happy with measures being taken that treat you as a potential criminal by default, and I'm not. I think consumers should have certain rights protected regarding things that they've bought for a substantial amount of money. You don't.
We're just going to have to agree to differ on this, because neither of us seems willing to move from their position on the matter. I value keeping certain of my rights (for example, the right not to have functionality that I paid for and used removed from a product without my consent because of something that I neither did nor intended to do with it) over certain conveniences that you value more highly.
Wrong again.