Only read first and last pages but must say I was pleasantly surprised at the responses. Well done GAF for recognizing sex workers are human too. I was expecting the usual "lol stds" comments when anything about prostitutes is mentioned.
I have had a relationship with a sex worker. She really was a beautiful person and our love was real. I will tell the story how it happened. Im in Australia, where prostitution is legal. She had an ad in the local paper and worked out of a private address. Not her own place but a place she rented for work purposes. I seen her, and then seen her a few more times. One day I realised that she didn't have any sort of security. I asked her about this and she said she does her best to screen guys and hasn't had any dramas and that most of her customers were older, married guys. I told her that she should have some sort of security but she seemed a little naïve about it.
Anyway one day I was out shopping and saw some fake security cameras. They are basically just for the deterrent effect, so as I was always a little worried about her I bought them, with the plan on installing them for her. I should say by this time we had sort of developed a bit of a relationship where we would have the odd good morning text or goodnight text. Nothing much but I was getting the impression that she seen me differently to other guys she seen but also in the back of my mind was thinking she was just doing this to keep me as a customer and may have been doing it to other guys.
Anyway I got these cameras and texted her showing her what they were and she was very impressed that I had gone out of my way for her. I did care about her and just wanted her to be safe and didn't expect anything in return.
Later I texted her and made an appointment and said I just need some time after to install these cameras. She text straight back saying "I want to see you, can you install them tonight?"..Now I thought this was a little odd because she never said she wants to see me before but I said "Ok" and went there that night. Well this is when it happened, she started undressing and undressing me. I say "I have no money" but she said "doesn't matter" and we had the most wild passionate sex imaginable. From then on I never paid and she would usually be the one to ask me to come over. In this time I was asking her out but she would always say "I can't date customers", even though the texting was getting more frequent and like we were in some sort of relationship. I kept taking the free sex and never asked her again until one night she asked if we could get a hotel so we could spend the night together. We did and it was obviously we had both fallen for each other. The next week we went on a full on date. Into the city, dinner, drinks, stayed in another hotel, it was amazing.
We went out a few more times. I really wanted to go on with it and thought I could somehow handle her job but it got the best of me. The constant worry, the jealousy of knowing other guys are with her and walking past every guy in the street wondering if he had fucked her, I just couldn't handle it. I told her I couldn't do this while your still working and we both had broken hearts but I needed my sanity back. I still keep in touch because I just like to know she is ok but no more relationship.
Long story I know, but they are people too and can get feelings for guys they see. She wasn't a drug addict or anything like that but just loved the money.
To the OP congrats man but just know if it does somehow get serious, you really are going to need to be very strong
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