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So my girlfriend thinks the Earth is 6000 years old...

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Dump her. You wont want a woman like her to raise your kids would you?

Better still, try to educate her. It is not a hopeless situation. If you use reason and logic with her she might accept the facts for what they are. If it fails then dump her.
 
This is like that Friends episode where Phoebe told Ross that she doesn't believe in evolution.

Anyways, the OP went a little heavy on the melodrama toward the end of that initial post, and while I can understand the sentiment, I think religious views like this are fairly trivial in the grand scheme of things. If her entire being is completely defined by her religious beliefs that could be a problem, but a couple quips during Stargate is petty in my book.

You just need to ask yourself if this is something you can look past. Believing that the earth is only 6000 years old isn't hurting anyone and does not make her a bad person, but if you cannot accept that kind of thinking then you should end it. I've had trouble in the past dating a Japanese girl who denied that the Rape of Nanjing ever occurred, even after showing her pictures of the event. She also said 9/11 was an inside job. As offensive as those beliefs were to me, she was still a great and caring person.
 
This is like that Friends episode where Phoebe told Ross that she doesn't believe in evolution.

Anyways, the OP went a little heavy on the melodrama toward the end of that initial post, and while I can understand the sentiment, I think religious views like this are fairly trivial in the grand scheme of things. If her entire being is completely defined by her religious beliefs that could be a problem, but a couple quips during Stargate is petty in my book.

You just need to ask yourself if this is something you can look past. Believing that the earth is only 6000 years old isn't hurting anyone and does not make her a bad person, but if you cannot accept that kind of thinking then you should end it. I've had trouble in the past dating a Japanese girl who denied that the Rape of Nanjing ever occurred, even after showing her pictures of the event. She also said 9/11 was an inside job. As offensive as those beliefs were to me, she was still a great and caring person.

I hated that episode...
 
Nobody here has argued that science is infallible.
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People here always say that science can be safely relied upon, is trustworthy and true. They don't bother questioning the inferences and assumptions made by scientists.

Science is not infallible, it just has a built-in means for self-correction. And they are not assumptions, rather they are explanatory models which are thoroughly tested and derived from inferred reasonings based on available evidence.

And that is where you are wrong, and this is the misconception most people have about these type of scientific hypothesis.

We already know that Carbon dating can't be used for rocks or bones past 5,000 years (even at 50,000 years you have to make assumptions on the the carbon rations and contamination in the atmosphere).

While the topics are immensely complex, they boil down to baseless assumptions of initial ratios of isotopes present in the rocks/lava. For the method of Potassium-Argon to be accurate, no Argon can be present at the beginning. Recent lava flows have been dated to be millions of years, because Argon was indeed present initially. These are not "thoroughly tested" assumptions.

Moreover, differect isotopes have to be used depending on how old the rocks are initially believed to be (because of different half-lives), and what the initial mother/daughter ratio of elements was at the time the rock was formed. This is introducing bias to something that is supposed to be scientific.

I'm not arguing for a particular age, but I don't give too much credit to theories based on untestable assumptions.
 
I hated that episode...

Yeah, that's all I remember about that one. But it might be a good litmus test to see how you feel on the subject. If you thought Phoebe was a "fucking idiot" for believing that (I remember thinking she was, but I was never a big Phoebe fan anyways), then maybe you can't handle being with someone with those kinds of beliefs. If you thought it was funny or cute, then maybe you're the type where that kind of belief isn't important to you in a serious relationship.
 
Okay, now, without me being facetious:

Science has been revised many times too. Yeah, the predictions were made by a likely bunch of morons, but arguing that they've been wrong on some predictions isn't the angle you want to tackle this at.

If she's ignoring science, OP, start from the religious perspective. Disprove her beliefs with her own beliefs, then introduce science. Like the gap between Genesis 1 and 2 I alluded to earlier.

At that point, you can introduce scientific beliefs that don't disprove the Bible and let things go from there (despite what many of you believe, there are quite a few).

Re-posting for posterity.
 
Link me or source it. Peer-reviewed please.

I only found two sources that seemed to be digestible

1. http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/am/v4/n4/assumptions

2. http://timcooley.net/2010/01/22/creationist-nonsense-lava-and-radiometric-dating/

Answers in Genesis or something that attempts to refute the YEC arguments against.

Now, on Sanky Panky - radiometric dating has tons and tons of verifiable instances in which it is completely accurate, there are a few instances where there are issues (the manatee thing pops to mind) - but do you think that invalidates the fact that it is more often than not accurate? Like... in pretty much every tested instance, out of thousands and thousands of instance, there are a handful of inconsistencies.

Does that really cast SO much doubt in radiometric dating to you?
 
People here always say that science can be safely relied upon, is trustworthy and true. They don't bother questioning the inferences and assumptions made by scientists.



And that is where you are wrong, and this is the misconception most people have about these type of scientific hypothesis.

We already know that Carbon dating can't be used for rocks or bones past 5,000 years (even at 50,000 years you have to make assumptions on the the carbon rations and contamination in the atmosphere).

While the topics are immensely complex, they boil down to baseless assumptions of initial ratios of isotopes present in the rocks/lava. For the method of Potassium-Argon to be accurate, no Argon can be present at the beginning. Recent lava flows have been dated to be millions of years, because Argon was indeed present initially. These are not "thoroughly tested" assumptions.

Moreover, differect isotopes have to be used depending on how old the rocks are initially believed to be (because of different half-lives), and what the initial mother/daughter ratio of elements was at the time the rock was formed. This is introducing bias to something that is supposed to be scientific.

I'm not arguing for a particular age, but I don't give too much credit to theories based on untestable assumptions.

You said you would provide credible sources?

I would also like you to explain the relationship between dendrochronolgy and Carbon dating.
 
I only found two sources that seemed to be digestible

1. http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/am/v4/n4/assumptions

2. http://timcooley.net/2010/01/22/creationist-nonsense-lava-and-radiometric-dating/

Answers in Genesis or something that attempts to refute the YEC arguments against.

Now, on Sanky Panky - radiometric dating has tons and tons of verifiable instances in which it is completely accurate, there are a few instances where there are issues (the manatee thing pops to mind) - but do you think that invalidates the fact that it is more often than not accurate? Like... in pretty much every tested instance, out of thousands and thousands of instance, there are a handful of inconsistencies.

Does that really cast SO much doubt in radiometric dating to you?
You preempted me! Cooley's blog is excellent.
 
People here always say that science can be safely relied upon, is trustworthy and true. They don't bother questioning the inferences and assumptions made by scientists.

By all means, question away! Which ones do you think are suspect? I get the feeling I'm about to find out.

We already know that Carbon dating can't be used for rocks or bones past 5,000 years (even at 50,000 years you have to make assumptions on the the carbon rations and contamination in the atmosphere).

Carbon-14 calibration curves aren't made in a vacuum. If there's something we can date in more than one way, we do that and cross-check them to confirm the ages. Our current setup does extend back 50,000 years because it's cross-referenced against dendrochronology, mineral deposits in caves, and ocean sediment cores.

While the topics are immensely complex, they boil down to baseless assumptions of initial ratios of isotopes present in the rocks/lava. For the method of Potassium-Argon to be accurate, no Argon can be present at the beginning. Recent lava flows have been dated to be millions of years, because Argon was indeed present initially. These are not "thoroughly tested" assumptions.

Stop right there, bro. That's a well-publicized case you're talking about, and there is an explanation. I recommend reading or listening to this.

Moreover, differect isotopes have to be used depending on how old the rocks are initially believed to be (because of different half-lives), and what the initial mother/daughter ratio of elements was at the time the rock was formed. This is introducing bias to something that is supposed to be scientific.

Science has to be able to make reasonable assumptions. There is literally no way to get anything done otherwise.
 
your last post

Your off the mark a tad bit, but your in the right area I suppose, with only a slightly exaggerated misconception. What I originally said was I met a stunningly beautiful blonde from Charleston, a real southern belle with the accent saying y'all who happened to be very religious to the book; her faith is as strong as Tebow's.

With that said, she wasn't walking around having a conversation trying to convert everyone to her views, she respected everyone else's views as far they respected hers.

She would say how blessed she was after a good day though, and do little prayers and stuff which didn't annoy me at all. In fact, I found it to be very enchanting.

It just wasn't a talking point for either of us to say to one another, "hey I know your Christian why don't you believe in evolution," or, "hey I know you chose not to be religious, don't you know that's sinning." Of course I'm making an exaggeration to exemplify our attitudes towards the whole thing. Instead, we were all about having fun acting all nonchalant.

And no, obviously I would not openly disrespect anyone's religion. I thought my stance in this thread would have made it blatantly transparent regardless of how I feel about it.

Call it sexist, or whatever you want. As I stated before all the women I grew up around hate both of those topics, and the same story with girls I am attracted to.

What it boils down to is religion is not a topic I am interested in discussing outside of a philosophy classroom. Politics on the other hand is a topic I do like to talk about but with certain people, chiefly neutral thinkers who are not going to blow their lids over a dispute.

Your absolutely right, it wasn't my intent at all to come off that way.

And lastly, in regards to the questions you asked in the bottom segment, specifically the one wondering if I keep my opinions to myself, here is your answer. Well, I honestly don't hide anything, nor do I hold anything against that person, what they believe does not count against them as a detraction, I simply push it aside and accept that is who they are. It is of insignificance to me. It is a very small thing to magnify. There are much more to people than their religious values taken at face value, and that statement right there is the point I have been trying to convey until now.

Of course it's impossible to appease every question and satisfy everyone's opinion. You can probably form a million other criticisms and draw a million other conclusions that are negative. Even with all the effort I put into this memoir to try and help everyone understand where I'm coming from, but I guess it is what it is.
 
Confused. Wouldn't that make the Earth 7,000 years old or is he still resting? Not trying to e funny but actually trying to make sense of this comment.

Nah, God's resting for the full seventh. Many people say that God made the Earth in six days. The seventh was just a chill day.
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!
 
Admit it OP, you're having doubts because she questioned Stargate.

I'd be more accepting of a woman who believed the Earth was 6,000 years old than I would a woman who got all fired up about something she saw in a dumb film like Stargate.

1 day is thought to be 1000 years. God rested on the seventh.

1000 x 6.


That's not right.

The 6,000 year thing comes from the computation of a biblical scholar, Bishop Ussher. He supposedly computed the ages of the people in the Bible and came up with the year 4004 BC as the date of creation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Ussher

Unless you were being facetious, in which case: Oops.
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!

Time to pack it in, atheists, internet poster "imtehman" has just ended you all.
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!

what point does calling somebody an agnostic serve? Are you one of those people who insists that you're loading a magazine into an assault rifle (as opposed to a clip)?
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!

Agnostic Atheists broseph. Yes, such a thing is possible.
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!

You can't disprove using any rational, scientific means that an invisible, incorporeal space dwelling all powerful unicorn that lives behind the sun exists?

I'll start labeling myself by your definition, when all you and everyone of your thiests out there become believers of this all powerful unicorn, peace be upon it's name!

<_<

Of course, I'm sensible enough to realize not every religious individual holds your opinion and I wouldn't paint every religious individual in the same stroke.

<_<
 
Can't believe there are people even trying to question the age of Earth in GAF.

It's absolutely not possible for it to be 6000 years old, it's not even remotely possible for it to be 600,000 years old. It shouldn't even be a matter up for debate, and it's not just carbon dating we are relying on. From the ruins, ancient relics and fossils that we've discovered, to evolutionary biology, to everything we know about the universe including our own solar system. There are so many branches of science that would totally collapse if the Earth was just a few thousand years old.

Hack, it takes millions of years just to form cruel oil. How the fuck does a reasonable person explain that? That god created everything including the entire universe?
 
That god created everything including the entire universe?

Yes.

Realize that ACTUALLY UNDERSTANDING the universe and how it works, the physics and chemicals and forces, is not necessary to be rich, successful or happy in the world.

So why would people bother with all that when God simply works as an answer? Humans are hedonistic and if the easier answer gives more comfort (especially socially) then forget the facts.
 
Delve deep enough and you'll find out that everyone on Earth has a stupid belief or two. That's at the very least. Quite frankly, someone's belief of how old Earth is would have zero bearing on my relationship. It seems completely trivial and even petty to me.
 
How could you marry a child. Someone call Chris Hansson on this guy!


I retract my statement because I was a bit harsh on my wife, there is some logic to fan death, and the only thing I have to do to appease her beliefs is have the window/door open while the fan is on.


To the OP, try and get her to watch "How to Grow a Planet". It was on the BBC recently and over 4 episodes it talks about the influence of plants on the development of the planet.

It talks about the evolution of plants, but I don't think it really pushes that word, instead it talks about how plants had to change over generations to survive and because generations in plant terms are short, for some species anyway, there are dramatic changes over quite short periods.

By the last episode it talks about grass, calling grass the "underdog" that changed the ecosystem of the planet. Then right at the end of the episode they discuss very sound, logical theories that grass helped the evolution of man...like that BAM your girlfriend will be a believer.
 
So she's a hardcore Seventh Day Adventist, yet you two engage in premarital sex? That doesn't seem to make any sense. How does she reconcile that?
 
I never knew the age of the earth was such a fundamental part of a relationship to so many people. It seems like a non-issue to me.

The issue is less to do with a specific dispute over the age of the Earth and more to do with the fact that a partner being able to hold a completely irrational view despite everything pointing to the contrary doesn't bode well for other situations that may arise.
 
I don't know how you can even be with someone who believes that. I think religion or lack of it influences every conversation you have. My current girlfriend was a very religious Shia Muslim, it put me off so I was almost ready to break it off, she asked me why, I told her, we argued and over a 6 hour conversation I presented to her, poorly I must say, it was late at night, all the arguments in the God Delusion. By the time we finished, she said she needed to think and read more. She is an atheist now. I never saw someone take all the arguments like her, shes a great women.
 
its funny how you all just tow the company line as if science and God are mutually exclusive. It's not like science has proven God doesn't exist so all you atheists out there call your self agnostics instead PLEASE!

I'm not trying to be an ass, but at this point I'm fucking sick to death of explaining (as I'm sure other regular posters are) the definitions of atheism and agnosticism... Please check these things before making these claims about fellow posters.
 
You can't disprove using any rational, scientific means that an invisible, incorporeal space dwelling all powerful unicorn that lives behind the sun exists?

I'll start labeling myself by your definition, when all you and everyone of your thiests out there become believers of this all powerful unicorn, peace be upon it's name!

<_<

Of course, I'm sensible enough to realize not every religious individual holds your opinion and I wouldn't paint every religious individual in the same stroke.

<_<

nononono, the unicorn is invisible, and pink. It's the teapot that's behind the sun.
 
Yes.

Realize that ACTUALLY UNDERSTANDING the universe and how it works, the physics and chemicals and forces, is not necessary to be rich, successful or happy in the world.

So why would people bother with all that when God simply works as an answer? Humans are hedonistic and if the easier answer gives more comfort (especially socially) then forget the facts.

I get that, but if I were to hold such a belief, I wouldn't debate with people on an internet forum. I'd just move on and be happy with life like you said, since the mounting evidence and facts means it would always be a losing debate.
 
I get that, but if I were to hold such a belief, I wouldn't debate with people on an internet forum. I'd just move on and be happy with life like you said, since the mounting evidence and facts means it would always be a losing debate.

People don't debate on the internet to learn new things.

People debate on the internet to find an echo chamber.

We all know that there's always going to be someone, somewhere, who agrees with your stance, especially if you're part of the big religions. Probably within 5 minutes you'll have someone who agrees.
 
Their church has it's own private school, kindergarten to graduation, where students are taught all of this, repeatedly, and how science is wrong.

TLDR: I don't get blind faith, learning is super awesome.

It seems like she "learnt" all of this as well, at school. Even though it is proven wrong, she was taught it all in school as fact. Its hard to accept that you wasted school learning about stuff that has been widely disproven, I suppose.
 
That's not right.

The 6,000 year thing comes from the computation of a biblical scholar, Bishop Ussher. He supposedly computed the ages of the people in the Bible and came up with the year 4004 BC as the date of creation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Ussher

Unless you were being facetious, in which case: Oops.

No, I think he is referring to the 'days of creation'. In this case he is referring to a 'day' as a thousand years. I am also aware of it being interpreted as like a cycle. The beginning and end of a cycle; a day.

Similar to a day of Brahma.
http://www.forbiddenarcheology.com/bramma.htm
 
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