I'm sorry to combobreak the political discussion regarding important topics (among which are LGBT-Rights), but I need to vent and hear you guys' opinion.
Short warning, wall of text coming your way. To sum it up, it's about integration, parallel societies and, last but not least, comedy.
Just so you can have a mental image: I'm 25, male, foreigner, but I was born and raised in this country. I speak Swiss German perfectly, I have a very slight Schaffhauser accent (pity me). I don't look Swiss, but I'm white, and just by talking to me you wouldn't know I'm not from Switzerland. I live in a village near Zurich, which is the center of my day to day life.
Recently, one thing has come to my attention, more or less by accident: Regarding each and every single one of my Swiss friends,
I'm their only foreign friend. (I have a circle of friends that's around half swiss, half foreign). I asked every single one of my Swiss friends, and some friends that I know through them. I was a bit thrown off for a few days, because you can call it an anecdotal evidence as much as you want, but I started to realize that there are strong signs that when it comes to close friends, the swiss want to be among other swiss people. You can try to turn it the other way around and say foreigners just want to stay among foreigners, but that wouldn't make much sense: A man from Cameroon has about the same things in common with an albanian guy as with a swiss guy.
So it boils down to this: In the last 2-3 months, I've come to the realization that most swiss people I know have an almost exclusively swiss circle of friends, and most foreigners, which includes half-swiss with visible foreign traits, have almost exclusively foreign friends. Switzerland is the poster child of integration
everywhere where statistics matter. Unemployment rates, violence, educational level, all of that. Those are the things the state can (try to) control.
But you can't change the mindset of people regarding foreigners, you can't change the reservations (Berührungsängste) of people, and it seems to me that the swiss society as a whole, even in the most metropolitan city of Switzerland (Zurich) is deeply divided. One has foreigners as neighbours, coworkers, service providers, customers, whatever. But they don't have them as close friends. The worst part of it is that I understand the older generations, but I'm friends with people who went to schools with a lot of foreigners - and now, age 25, when social life is a bit dominated by your worklife (where you're usually hesitant to make close friends due to a professional relationship), they have only swiss friends. If you ask me, that is majorly depressing.
Now you may say "but they have you, so obviously they don't have reservations towards foreigners". Here's a sentence I've heard many times in my life, but only recently started to take offence in: "Ja, aber du bisch eine vo eus."
This is why I emphasized that I speak swiss german perfectly - I think it's one of the keys to social integration. I have no foreign accent, I don't have any albanian, serbian, turkish, italian or portuguese features or traits - you would never guess where I'm from because you can't categorize my looks (and due to a genetic disfunction I'm whiter than most swiss). This makes me a blank sheet
and leaves little to no room for stereotypes. At least that's my opinion. Of course it feels nice to be accepted ("eine vo eus"), but I'm not swiss, I am a foreigner and it's part of my identity, and you can't cherrypick the foreigners you like and make them swiss. That leaves a mental image of a pool filled with people that are not 'like us'.
I want to back this up a bit more and simultaneously vent about a second topic: Swiss comedy, and the lack of thereof.
Swiss mainstream comedy is extremely heavyhanded, unwitty and you can always see the jokes they want to make from more than a mile away. You don't need to compare it to US/UK comedy to see that swiss comedy is sub-par.
Even Germany, which internationally has the image of being the least funny country, has formats that meet the minimum requirements of wittiness and sophistication - jokes that catch you by surprise, that you can't, as I mention before, see coming from a mile away. Switzerland's only noteworthy exception to the rule is perhaps Marco Rima.
What I've written above about comedy is actually just a side rant, but there's a reason why I bring it into the equation: If the Swiss love to laugh about one thing on TV, it's a specific type of foreigners that gets the laughs over
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdA42NYPRXI
and over
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLin3IJ4ios
and over again
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuUEJi6Ue0U
speaking of that last video, let's look at Bendrit Bajra - an albanian who makes fun of albanian stereotypes and boom, he's a star overnight. Gets invited to shows, participates in reality projects, and gets invited to create his own show on 20min.ch called "Swiss Mix" that - again - mainly makes fun of foreigner stereotypes. I'm not trying to say that 3+, 20min or SRF are actually racist - they just want the people that sell. And Bendrit apparently sold, and still sells. The problem? All Albanians I know dislike Bendrit, so it's fair to assume that his target group... is Swiss. So he's basically the media's carte blanche to make fun of Albanians and foreigners in general - because hey, he can, he's a foreigner himself.
He is still not the worst offender, though. Müslüm, who recently got his own show on SRF 1 and the SRF's Youtube presence, takes the crown in all respect. The man behind the character, of turkish origin himself, is the master of monetization of racially stereotypical comedy. The name "Müslüm" itself is supposed to tell you two things: 1) He's a muslim. 2) He's probably of turkish origin due to the ü's.
In the title alone, not one opportunity is wasted to communicate to potential audiences who's being made fun of. This tendency is upheld when you look at the presentation of the character itself. The distinguished bad hair, unshaved/untended facial hair, backwardly monobrow and unfashionable clothes all reference a very, very specific negative stereotype about foreigners, in this case, the 'backwards turkish muslims'. Same with the way he speaks - the accent is clearly fake and references the same stereotype. Now, you can probably guess the content, the unique selling point of the show. That's right - how weird foreigners are. I'm not even turkish or muslim, but even I am offended by this. Because this shit sells, and apparently it sells well, which means people are watching it, laughing about it, which is patronizing for every single foreigner living in this country.
Please, feel free to argue if you feel differently - I actively want to hear your opinion. Am I being hard on Switzerland? I love this country and I love living in it, but when you love something, you are not allowed to close your eyes on certain aspects.