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Whats the Current Status of GAF in general right now?

Stuart360

Member
New Gaf feels like its just been liberated from a Nazi concentration camp. It feels like you can actually have fun now and say stuff without fear of being banned for not following the agenda. Old Gaf really had no freedom of speach, you follow the road or you die.
The only thing i dont like about new Gaf is there is a bit too much console war shite for my liking, and certain posters seem to have free reign to do it. Old Gaf would get rid of them pretty quickly.
Apart from that though, New Gaf is a chilled and fun place to be for me.
 

Macam

Banned
Just stepped into here after who knows how long and I’m surprised my account still works. Poked around a bit and this definitely ain’t my cup of tea. After 15 years or so, it’s time.

Can one you mods kindly nuke this account? Didn’t see an option to do so.
 
Just stepped into here after who knows how long and I’m surprised my account still works. Poked around a bit and this definitely ain’t my cup of tea. After 15 years or so, it’s time.

Can one you mods kindly nuke this account? Didn’t see an option to do so.
You could just leave and not come back?
 

oagboghi2

Member
Just stepped into here after who knows how long and I’m surprised my account still works. Poked around a bit and this definitely ain’t my cup of tea. After 15 years or so, it’s time.

Can one you mods kindly nuke this account? Didn’t see an option to do so.
edit: meh. He explained it
 
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Bill O'Rights

Seldom posts. Always delivers.
Staff Member
A mild joke is obviously okay, but when are serious references to topics (political ones, mainly) i feel this should be looked upon. Something like a Trump allows gays to drink milk and you have people going ''This is something @ nobody important could get behind considering his advocacy for these things'' or something similar.

I feel this is too much picking on someone on a personal level.


Yes, we understand the issue you mean and we feel these posters just need to embed a bit more against the grain. Eventually if you argue long and hard enough with someone you find a happy medium and even a friendship in disagreement at times. There will always be calling out but what we're hoping is this evolves into more friendly rib nudging instead of the bitter laced pokes we have at the moment. Unfortunately this is one of the things that takes time and is more a rounded 'culture' of acceptance that develops. That's not to say posters like Nobody_Important Nobody_Important should 'brave it out' and we've had dialogues with them in the past. And I'm sure some outcomes are not what was hoped for but we feel we can usually explain how we arrive at a conclusion and we generally have a mutual respect for the community. By and large, it seems more 'mature' shall we say. I think it's likely activity is not as instant as core membership has shifted to those who don't live so completely on the internet,

Understandable. Can this be more prominentely highlighted in official ruling, say, in stickied staff threads or even in the FAQ? I think this would serve well in the face of clarity for all users. Perhaps its already there though, something like ''The staff treats every ban on a unique case by case basis: Just because Person B gets a harsher ban for something similar to what Person A did, is by no means protection for members: But they are treated on a unique basis.'' or something like that


Yes, we are working on a completely revamped FAQ section to replace the old outdated versions that will cover a lot of those and a little insight into what moderator's actually see and how reports are displayed and dealt with.


And i think that's a good thing. I do like that a lot of free-form thought is maintained and that dialogue like this is possible, even when it is scattered across threads (Perhaps a community thread with the staff can be an option to discuss more official matters?) I realize that such is a difficult idea to work out with all the users here, but ill just throw it in anyways.


That's actually a really good suggestion. How do you feel it would/should be implemented and what sort of things do you feel could be aired in there? We're open to a sticky but obviously don't want too many. But we do want an 'ear to the community' perhaps.


How would that look like? Because the current thread just picks up on new controversy as it goes. If i get this right, then i reckon you would want to tag it with (ResetERA) and (ResetERA-Meta) or something like that to denote that the discussion should only be about that. (In which case, you wouldn't need Meta in the first place.)


I'm not really sure to be honest. They seem to serve different purposes. One is just about the latest meltdown/overreaction and one is more about the offsite drama like doxxing from era/4chan/kiwi etc. However, it should be said that it doesn't have to be negative; sites that have been around and have heritage like these obviously have a place, even moreso at the moment arguably. For me, - speaking personally as a person invested in gaming - I think we need to do better at bringing all these communities together. Obviously people have their 'homes' or preferred places to post, but we're a small enough group as is and at the moment completely at loggerheads. We need to make it easier to have dialogues cross platform. What that looks like I have no idea though.


The name of 'NeoGAF' was talked about but that is more or a senior/admin discussion. I can't see it changing if I'm honest. At the moment we just have to ride out the last of the reputation and reinforce the positive heritage we have here. We're aware of the image that is being projected with those who are invested in portraying a downfall/destruction and we have to just keep doing what we're doing here. NeoGAF is not 'dead' or a 'ghost town'. It's only a ghost town in the same way any forum is a ghost town compared to the likes of twitter.
 
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DangerStepp

Member
It feels like the NeoGAF I fell in love with the 12 years ago. Everyone is having fun again and the vibe is more relaxed.

I was never coming back with how it was the last 3 years or so.
 

zenspider

Member
I wish the Gaming side was stronger in content like OTs (particularly non-AAA), LTTP/RTTPs.

I think overall a lot of content is reactionary to what's going on at ERA and Kotaku/Polygon, etc., but like I've said in another post, it's one of the only places to talk about things freely and openly.

All this said, I think NeoGAF is better than it's been in years.
 
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#Phonepunk#

Banned
tbh im liking this message board a lot. i tried NeoGAF back in 2016 and it didn't last long. i've been on another message board for 10+ years and had to leave because it was just getting too much. anytime i said anything people were like "Oh get ready for a bad opinion" due to my social justice stances. my last post was in favor of the Pussy Melter guitar pedal and people were calling me alt right because i thought a comedy metal band guitar pedal was no big deal. after 10 years i just left and never looked back.

this site feels different. there really are a variety of viewpoints, there are leftists and Dem stans but there are Trump supporters and more importantly independents who aren't partisans and are free to speak their mind. the latter is the most important thing to me, that people can talk about subjects without getting tarnish with a label.

of course there are flame wars, there always will be, but it seems pretty chill & diverse in this place.
 
This is a good of summary, like you said even gaming side stopped being fun because almost every thread is not about the game itself, but rather why said game did not have more diversity, or that its sexist and so on. I know im repeating myself but somehow people managed to turn smash roster into a discussion about lack of diversity.



I dont know it its only a Era thing or a US thing in general, but like you said there is truly a obsession with a person being white or black.

It's a radical left wing thing. So much so that the original left wing is only like 35% of the party. You have the "be anything you want" crowd, the socialist crowd, the EPA crowd, the ban everything and let government tell us what to say crowd, it's just a mixmatch of random extreme angles.

It's why it's hard for "democrats" to all fall in line because most of them don't agree on even half of issues, and why till this day people are blame Hillary (or Bernie) for 2016. At this point "democrats" isn't a party, it's an umbrella term of random nonsense, which fits in with ther other umbrella terms being used commonly today. Go figure.

Most Americans don't care. The people who do are on the far left or far right. The far right is pro-white while the far left is anti-white. Both push racist tendencies and see the world via such narrow lenses.

The anti-white site is arguably more racist because they don't usually think for themselves and love using umbrella terms for minorities. Most anti-whites won't choose to help black people if there's another minority class to pick from. The media can get them to think knocking down statues solves things.

ResetERA bans at least 1 user per day for the reason of "Posting/arguing in bad faith". Which is what they say when the person is posting something in disagreement with the other posters in that thread...

They will also sometimes pull 'history of prior infractions" out their ass for a 1 week old account.
 
NeoGAF is not 'dead' or a 'ghost town'. It's only a ghost town in the same way any forum is a ghost town compared to the likes of twitter.

It's picked up significantly since the first few months post incident.

I think ERA based on the statistics I've posted before (Either this thread or another thread) is likely going to collapse at some point (arguably happening now gradually) due to the lack of open community engagement and being laser focused on being selective.

It feels like the NeoGAF I fell in love with the 12 years ago. Everyone is having fun again and the vibe is more relaxed.

I was never coming back with how it was the last 3 years or so.
I wish the Gaming side was stronger in content like OTs (particularly non-AAA), LTTP/RTTPs.

I think overall a lot of content is reactionary to what's going on at ERA and Kotaku/Polygon, etc., but like I've said in another post, it's one of the only places to talk about things freely and openly.

All this said, I think NeoGAF is better than it's been in years.

We need people to make more threads about current and previous gens, some fun retrospectives, and maybe try and utilize the few game devs and leakers that could be convinced to still pop-in time to time.
 
usually how it would work is they would dogpile on the user after the argument went on for awhile the user would go to work or bed or whatever, and then the mod would come in, ban the user while he was offline then proceed to insult him.

It's actually worse on era than it was on here from what I've seen. Also if you're in an off-topic thread on era and see Nicole posting don't come back to thread.

I never post in off-topic because of the hidden rule to fall in line. Posting in off topic just saying you disagree to a poster will get you banned depending on what the thread is about. I barely post in gaming either though. There can be a thread about some racing game and then the thread will stop being about the racing game and will be 40 pages of some social topic that has nothing to do with cars.

Heck i jsut remembered that thread where someone made a sexy console thread and the first sentence was "look at these sexy ladies" followed by pictures. Obvious joke ok. Banned for insulting women or something like that. You gotta be careful.

Unless you have a high post count or come out on the board, then you're immune for some reason. Not a very fair system there.

Era inherited so much of the worst aspects of previous GAF it's actually amusing. The lack of self-awareness one has to have in order to move to a new place and not even try to begin anew, but rather just keep on keeping on the stupid fucking shit they did previously. And besides, how spineless do you have to be in order to be a moderator and actually enforce those crazy rules. Part of them are probably insane, but the other part just view it as a job probably and do as they're told. It's not a job, it's a colossal waste of time.
 

Blam

Member
It feels like the NeoGAF I fell in love with the 12 years ago. Everyone is having fun again and the vibe is more relaxed.

I was never coming back with how it was the last 3 years or so.

Yeah it's refreshing to have actual conversation not being scared of a dogpile or being banned for having thoughts that people don't agree with.
I wish the Gaming side was stronger in content like OTs (particularly non-AAA), LTTP/RTTPs.

I think overall a lot of content is reactionary to what's going on at ERA and Kotaku/Polygon, etc., but like I've said in another post, it's one of the only places to talk about things freely and openly.

All this said, I think NeoGAF is better than it's been in years.

Just give it time it's just people are still sorta scared to make threads, not as much as when the site came back up with the upgrade but still a little bit. Just need more prominent users who would post like the ones that left basically. Replacements to those will come soon enough, and they have been showing up.

Era inherited so much of the worst aspects of previous GAF it's actually amusing. The lack of self-awareness one has to have in order to move to a new place and not even try to begin anew, but rather just keep on keeping on the stupid fucking shit they did previously. And besides, how spineless do you have to be in order to be a moderator and actually enforce those crazy rules. Part of them are probably insane, but the other part just view it as a job probably and do as they're told. It's not a job, it's a colossal waste of time.

I tried my best when I was a part of their team to make sure that didn't happen but they were so fucking laser sighted on the vision of a NEW GAF, that it just didn't work out at all. It really fucked shit up. I tried pushing Transparency and they "agreed" with it. didn't go farther then that tho.
 
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iconmaster

Banned
I tried my best when I was a part of their team to make sure that didn't happen but they were so fucking laser sighted on the vision of a NEW GAF, that it just didn't work out at all. It really fucked shit up. I tried pushing Transparency and they "agreed" with it. didn't go farther then that tho.

Oh, were you a moderator there? I remember your name from somewhere, probably from GAF before my time.
 
Era inherited so much of the worst aspects of previous GAF it's actually amusing. The lack of self-awareness one has to have in order to move to a new place and not even try to begin anew, but rather just keep on keeping on the stupid fucking shit they did previously. And besides, how spineless do you have to be in order to be a moderator and actually enforce those crazy rules. Part of them are probably insane, but the other part just view it as a job probably and do as they're told. It's not a job, it's a colossal waste of time.

Nicoles profile read like a joke and I believe they told them to remove it to save face.

Issue is him and some other admins/mods are considered "community managers" but usually if you want to buold a community you uh, go out and reach for them. not kick them out and be selective until it shrinks to a bubble

The Mods aren't really mods anyway, they are there to make sure there's no altering opinion. They;ll even admit in threads about some of the sites issues and two days later when someone points out the bannings or the dogpiles people will go "no they never happens, it's just racists or etc. show me a post on where this happened, we re completely fair we only ban people not arguing in good faith blah blah blah"

If you go in a thread and a person says "Anyone who doens't believe XYZ is a horrible human being." and you respond "I disagree with the opinion but I do know why people do and I would never attack someone for it" that's an immediate ban.



Also before I forget, "Low Post Count" is a bad message reason. Yes I don't get it either.

Also don't get me started on threads about games that aim to be historically accurate. I'm not just talking BFV either.
 

Blam

Member
Oh, were you a moderator there? I remember your name from somewhere, probably from GAF before my time.
I was pretty active here on GAF, and was helping the dev team at the time to push out graphics and design for the site before ERA was put up.
 

zenspider

Member
It's picked up significantly since the first few months post incident.

I think ERA based on the statistics I've posted before (Either this thread or another thread) is likely going to collapse at some point (arguably happening now gradually) due to the lack of open community engagement and being laser focused on being selective.




We need people to make more threads about current and previous gens, some fun retrospectives, and maybe try and utilize the few game devs and leakers that could be convinced to still pop-in time to time.

I know I'm part of the problem here, but I'm going to try and make some threads hopefully soon.
 

zenspider

Member
ResetERA bans at least 1 user per day for the reason of "Posting/arguing in bad faith". Which is what they say when the person is posting something in disagreement with the other posters in that thread...

This. I got nailed with a "bad faith" ban. It's basically code for arguing against appropriated definitons of things, or it seems to me.

I was literally trying to distinguish between support and praise - in context of the Trump administration - and all this to pop the gross generalizations and bad premises in the thread. I don't think there is anything in better faith than trying to agree on a definition so that the conversatiom can move forward.

After digging in and seeing much smarter people than I (Bret Weinstien, Jonathan Haidt, Sam Harris, etc.) hit the same roadblock it's clear as day that social justice/intersectionality is near-religious dogma, and there's no conversation to be had with it's disciples.
 
Better than before but slower and much better than the other unbearable place.

Unbearable is putting it quite nicely.

I was permabanned there for 'rationalizing harassment'.

It was over the recent Smash Bros "leak". Apparently 'insiders' were being messaged requesting proof that the leak was fake. I said a simple request for proof isn't harassment. Asking for receipts isn't harassment. Repeated communication and threats is harassment and to my knowledge, the vast majority of people were cordial of their requests.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ru...l-roller-coaster-updates-in-op.76702/page-146

I'm curious. I would like to know what GAF thinks of this. Was I justifying harassment?

The answer to this question will reflect GAF's current status as well as let me know if my thinking is flawed.
 
Unbearable is putting it quite nicely.

I was permabanned there for 'rationalizing harassment'.

It was over the recent Smash Bros "leak". Apparently 'insiders' were being messaged requesting proof that the leak was fake. I said a simple request for proof isn't harassment. Asking for receipts isn't harassment. Repeated communication and threats is harassment and to my knowledge, the vast majority of people were cordial of their requests.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ru...l-roller-coaster-updates-in-op.76702/page-146

I'm curious. I would like to know what GAF thinks of this. Was I justifying harassment?

The answer to this question will reflect GAF's current status as well as let me know if my thinking is flawed.

This does not mean you are responsible for another agent making threats against you or other illogical immoral behavior, but if you can avoid it, you should. When you whistle for dogs, wolves sometimes appear.

What you posted above is sensible advice. The fact that it was taken so negatively -- in a thread about Smash Bros, of all the things to cry about -- is pretty sad.
 
Something I noticed yesterday - after I got back from work it took me 3 pages of threads before I skipped to previous day threads. One year ago shortly after split yesterday threads were on page 1.
 

Blam

Member
Something I noticed yesterday - after I got back from work it took me 3 pages of threads before I skipped to previous day threads. One year ago shortly after split yesterday threads were on page 1.
Yup this changed pretty quickly maybe 1-3 months after everything
 
Unbearable is putting it quite nicely.

I was permabanned there for 'rationalizing harassment'.

It was over the recent Smash Bros "leak". Apparently 'insiders' were being messaged requesting proof that the leak was fake. I said a simple request for proof isn't harassment. Asking for receipts isn't harassment. Repeated communication and threats is harassment and to my knowledge, the vast majority of people were cordial of their requests.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ru...l-roller-coaster-updates-in-op.76702/page-146

I'm curious. I would like to know what GAF thinks of this. Was I justifying harassment?

The answer to this question will reflect GAF's current status as well as let me know if my thinking is flawed.

Who gives a fuck?

That place is trash and you are better off banned from that cesspool of yes-men.

Welcome back and enjoy posting your actual opinion sans eggshells
 

Skyn3t

Banned
Quite often I see like 250+ logged in, the place is picking up steam. Slowly but steady. To be honest I love being and posting on GAF as it feels like a safe haven in the ultra liberal/leftist online gaming world. People are great, discussions without meaningless repeating of one post in houndred ways, all around experience is grate. I know I'm a dick sometimes and my humor can be rough, but try my best not to shitpost everywhere ;)
 

Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
Well damn, that is a great darn reply Bill. I am humbled. Allow me to reply to this.

Yes, we understand the issue you mean and we feel these posters just need to embed a bit more against the grain. Eventually if you argue long and hard enough with someone you find a happy medium and even a friendship in disagreement at times. There will always be calling out but what we're hoping is this evolves into more friendly rib nudging instead of the bitter laced pokes we have at the moment. Unfortunately this is one of the things that takes time and is more a rounded 'culture' of acceptance that develops. That's not to say posters like Nobody_Important Nobody_Important should 'brave it out' and we've had dialogues with them in the past. And I'm sure some outcomes are not what was hoped for but we feel we can usually explain how we arrive at a conclusion and we generally have a mutual respect for the community. By and large, it seems more 'mature' shall we say. I think it's likely activity is not as instant as core membership has shifted to those who don't live so completely on the internet,
Considering the POV of staff as understood. However, are there any long term ideas on how tackle this problem? I can imagine that for people subject to it it may prove to be a big challenge to them and they might run out of motivation to remain constructive, turning into Bitters.*

*There is a nicely compiled document about the kinds of trolls you can come across, with commentary how to avoid regular people to turn into one. Although it is made for humourous intent, in my experience it has really helped judging people and treating them accordingly (as an ex-moderator myself). I think Tyler has had this in his PM, but if it has not been passed around, ill just leave it here.

Yes, we are working on a completely revamped FAQ section to replace the old outdated versions that will cover a lot of those and a little insight into what moderator's actually see and how reports are displayed and dealt with.
This is awesome. I think this will definitely help seal the deal regarding certain questions that will spring up now and in the forthcoming future. For light jests, we should have a yearly Ban Reason Olympiade where we can select Evilore's bests exit commentaries. There is a certain level of creativity in those, commercial me could see that been reworked into a book and sold ;)

Either way, this is great stuff Bill.

That's actually a really good suggestion. How do you feel it would/should be implemented and what sort of things do you feel could be aired in there? We're open to a sticky but obviously don't want too many. But we do want an 'ear to the community' perhaps.
I think this could go in a few ways (Some i thought of at work). Some of this may overlap with other ideas so i try to make it in points, and they are by no means exclusive:
  • A community pick. Whenever there is a new and shiny thing to present, whether that be a new theme, a new functionality, or just something interesting for Ban Justice (This should be brought back!) or moderation duties, let the community have a say in it before it gets introduced. To be done via poll or staff can present a list of features from which the community caa choose from. This works both ways: The community is introduced to a new layer of transparency, and the staff gets the benefit of user feedback so one can accustom to these needs.
  • A moderator meeting. Each 2-3 months, evaluate how moderation has been recieved since and what the recurring themes are within these. This ensures that the community feels listened and it allows the staff to re-iterate on how moderation duties should be carried out. Con: This does require setting up a temp sticky thread of like a week or 2 so people have enough time to make their comments known. It should also be stressed that such a thread should not be for complaints about bans or about ERA-stuff: It should strictly be an evaluation on how staff interaction is recieved and/or how it can be improved.
  • Newsletters. Perhaps every 4-8 weeks we could have a thread where staff is hosting updates on what has been going on so far. I think a big, but silent issue around the community here is that although we have a general idea of where the staff wants the site to go, as you can find that in certain comments, but that there isn't an overarching thread covering all these bases. For people less active, and just to put this more in the spotlight, it might be an option to notify the community site-wide. This does require some time however, and perhaps more than one might be willing to, but i think it provides an excellent way of communicating with your community on a bigger scale instead of making (very insightful!) case-by-case posts.
  • On that note, Community Q&A. Host a generic AMA every few months or so to gauge general interest and issues. This is somewhat similar to the moderator meeting, but targets a more general topic and leaves the topics which to discuss open and subject to what the staff member in question wants.
  • I previously suggested to Tyler, and this is less community but more a moderator idea, to create a Hall of unpleasantness where truly derailing posts go to die. This should serve as a continous example of what is okay and what isn't on GAF. I do realize that this generates a lot more moderation work however, so with the size of the community as is, it might be too much.
I think official matters should be presented in a communal form: The staff is a friend to the community, not an employee of a company, if you know what i mean. I think the staff as is does a pretty good job in expressing that sentiment through the holding reservations policy when moderating posts, so i think this should be a rather easy thing to do.

I'm not really sure to be honest. They seem to serve different purposes. One is just about the latest meltdown/overreaction and one is more about the offsite drama like doxxing from era/4chan/kiwi etc. However, it should be said that it doesn't have to be negative; sites that have been around and have heritage like these obviously have a place, even moreso at the moment arguably. For me, - speaking personally as a person invested in gaming - I think we need to do better at bringing all these communities together. Obviously people have their 'homes' or preferred places to post, but we're a small enough group as is and at the moment completely at loggerheads. We need to make it easier to have dialogues cross platform. What that looks like I have no idea though.
I think that the more active thread is now more akin to a bin where all the news is dispensed. It might add value to denote particular high-visible controversies with an additional thread, although most of these controversies are intertwined with Twitter outrages and the like. This also would enhance negativity surrounding ERA and i don't think that's the way to go either.

This is something that perhaps might be a good topic for an AMA like the above: Have the community take a stab at what to do with this. Should it focus on ERA mostly or should we also talk about other sites? And if it should be ERA exclusive, should we only talk about highly controversial things or also just regular bans? Personally i think the latter is a stale topic at this point: When you get banned, its usually a rather generic reason as to why that is. I can see why this still has appeal to people, but personally, i would be in favor of generating a thread for highly controversial threads, as those usually target a bigger audience than just ERA alone.

I should keep it clear that an AMA first and formost (or something similar) regarding this for the community could be a beneficial idea. I am just one person making long novelles, but others may chip in aswell. I would especially like to hear those folks with opposite views like Nobody_Important Nobody_Important : Because his onset is different from most ERA members (and has a link to ERA aswell), his stance might be interesting to evaluate. That way the negativity surrounding his view turns into a positive one. :)

As for the bolded:
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YES. This is exactly what i am thinking aswell. This should be expressed more through official channels and in general behavior. I think that there is a lot of old sore between now-ERA/Former-GAF members and i think it could be beneficial to get in touch with the both people's staff.

The name of 'NeoGAF' was talked about but that is more or a senior/admin discussion. I can't see it changing if I'm honest. At the moment we just have to ride out the last of the reputation and reinforce the positive heritage we have here. We're aware of the image that is being projected with those who are invested in portraying a downfall/destruction and we have to just keep doing what we're doing here. NeoGAF is not 'dead' or a 'ghost town'. It's only a ghost town in the same way any forum is a ghost town compared to the likes of twitter.
I understand that. At the same time, this is where i made my former comment - A bigger push to remove the associations. Currently a lot of the superficial criticism is that GAF enables NeoNazism or Racism. Whilst a lot of that is in my eyes not something on the order, you could ask: How did people arrive at that conclusion? What caused it?

A lot of it would simply be white noise and based on pre-bias and past histories with the site. But out of 100 criticisms adressing the same thing, atleast 1% up to 5% is likely legitimate. And in that sense, i believe it is important that these questions are asked. By the community, as a result of reflecting, and by staff. And i am sure one does. :)

Hopefully this book provides a proper commentary on your excellent comment for which i want to thank you. Hopefully there are some things that are inspirational.
 
Unbearable is putting it quite nicely.

I was permabanned there for 'rationalizing harassment'.

It was over the recent Smash Bros "leak". Apparently 'insiders' were being messaged requesting proof that the leak was fake. I said a simple request for proof isn't harassment. Asking for receipts isn't harassment. Repeated communication and threats is harassment and to my knowledge, the vast majority of people were cordial of their requests.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ru...l-roller-coaster-updates-in-op.76702/page-146

I'm curious. I would like to know what GAF thinks of this. Was I justifying harassment?

The answer to this question will reflect GAF's current status as well as let me know if my thinking is flawed.

By the way if you get DM'ed or are in a DM conversation with a member that did not agree with you in a thread don't answer the DM. Especially if they are aggressive. It could be about ANYTHING not even politics, but if the hive of that thread, and the mods, in that thread was one opinion and you decide to express your opinion respectfully in a DM do not respond to the DM because they will report the DM and you'll be banned for harassing users via DM even though you didn't send it. I've seen this 20 times from different people complain online 23 if I include the first 3 times I tried to join the site months and months ago. It's something they do now on purpose. I've not answered a single DM on my account there since.

300 posts.

Oh yeah that's right.
 

Meifu

Member
Checking in today and just wanted to say I appreciate how healthy the contributions to this thread have been and I'm glad I made it

Seems like everyone whose still around feels a lot more comfortable and this discussion has been super healthy for opening up dialogue.

Right on people.
 
While I do not always agree with many of the socio and political views of some on here, I absolutely appreciate the openness that conversations are allowed to be here. I'll take a forum with moderation and a community that encourages speech and open dialogue any day of the week.
 
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I like getting in arguments at ERA lol.

I didn't think you could do that without 50 accounts per month ready before hand.

While I do not always agree with many of the socio and political views of some on here, I absolutely appreciate the openness that conversations are allowed to be here. I'll take a forum with moderation and a community that encourages speech and open dialogue any day of the week.

Plus you need differing perspectives. Sometimes the truth can only be found if you put what both sides were told next to each other. Sometimes both are lied to and it's best to come together to get the most accurate, non-biased information.
 

God Enel

Member
Sometimes I’m wondering that the new gaf is ‘better’ (more diverse in opinions) because a lot of the younger people moved over to the other place/alternative? Plus that might be a reason why there aren’t so many threads posted related to gaming (less LTTPs RTTPs and so on) because the older members are busier with RL? Thats the feeling I have, because I read here way more often that the posters have kids, are getting married and so on.. I don’t know the numbers obviously, but I think there was a demographic shifted from ~20 more towards 30+?! At least it would maybe explain a little bit.
 

Skyn3t

Banned
I wish I was 20 years old again. In reality I'll be soon "celebrating" my 32nd birthday. Still a video game loving, top kek apriciating brat inside, though.
 
Sometimes I’m wondering that the new gaf is ‘better’ (more diverse in opinions) because a lot of the younger people moved over to the other place/alternative? Plus that might be a reason why there aren’t so many threads posted related to gaming (less LTTPs RTTPs and so on) because the older members are busier with RL?

Nah, there's tons of active people with guys as old as the mid 50's up posting threads, we just have too many lazy people or in some cases, waiting for the requirements.
 

Dr. Claus

Vincit qui se vincit
I wish I was 20 years old again. In reality I'll be soon "celebrating" my 32nd birthday. Still a video game loving, top kek apriciating brat inside, though.

Being an adult just means you get more responsibilities. Keep the kid alive inside of you, mate. Nothing is worse than letting that die. When you do, you end up like the sad folks at Polygon :D
 

Xaero Gravity

NEXT LEVEL lame™
At times it feels like I'm on GameFAQs or GameSpot System Wars due to all the fanboy bullshit, but at the same time I don't feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time. Plus it doesn't feel as cliqueish as it did before, so engaging in topics and conversations more than I ever did.
 

Raven117

Member
Yeah it's refreshing to have actual conversation not being scared of a dogpile or being banned for having thoughts that people don't agree with.
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Its so refreshing. I hope we have all kinds of posters here who are free to post their mind so long as they "argue in good faith" (but in the real way, and not the "if you aren't with us you are against us" way).

And yeah, I do think Gaf is starting to pick back up steam. We do need some more gaming threads though. That is what I miss most about Gaf.
 

petran79

Banned
At times it feels like I'm on GameFAQs or GameSpot System Wars due to all the fanboy bullshit, but at the same time I don't feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time. Plus it doesn't feel as cliqueish as it did before, so engaging in topics and conversations more than I ever did.

Gamefaqs threads get locked automatically though. Here they can go on for eternity!
 

Chittagong

Gold Member
It feels like the NeoGAF I fell in love with the 12 years ago. Everyone is having fun again and the vibe is more relaxed.

I was never coming back with how it was the last 3 years or so.

NeoGAF. Believe.
NeoGAF. Relieve.

Having been on GAF since 2002, I agree with you. My ten first years were glorious. Followed by a few increasingly tense years. Like you, I am incredibly happy with the third iteration of GAF I am now on.
 
GameSpot System Wars

I think you forgot how bad that site was when it was active you cow lemming. Also are thou brethren jelly?

Ugh....

https://www.gamespot.com/forums/sys...se-for-ps3-exclusive-montage-28973454/?page=1

funny, because I guarantee that I have gotten more action than 95% of the people in SW. of course, my sexual encounters/kinks/orientation aren't really relevant to this forum.

to be realistic, most people in SW probably arent as fit or good looking as I am. just sayin

Guy posted a youtube video response and everything:

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Blam

Member
Its so refreshing. I hope we have all kinds of posters here who are free to post their mind so long as they "argue in good faith" (but in the real way, and not the "if you aren't with us you are against us" way).

And yeah, I do think Gaf is starting to pick back up steam. We do need some more gaming threads though. That is what I miss most about Gaf.
I usually just say you should start posting more, and just honestly take a look at whats being run on ign, and other sites and just make your own version of that.
 
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