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When it comes to women, how selective are you?

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Vox-Pop said:
Very. I have an exact image of my perfect women that is hard to replicate.
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Devolution said:
No back hair. All other hair I can deal with, even ass hair, but back hair? Wax it or something.
lol I remember making a thread about this. Most everyone agreed (myself included).

Another: teeth must have some arch and order to them (ideally he would have straight teeth).
 
Honestly my problem is that I can't stand being around people just for the sake of it. Some people do, some people thrive on it, but if I'm not talking to you actually about something, or doing something with you, then I'm just uncomfortable. This applies to all people, not just women, and I dunno, it just seems like there aren't that many girls (who I meet on a day to day basis) who seem like engaging people. Hell, there aren't that many girls or guys period who actually reciprocate in conversation, and I'm sick of leading every exchange.
 
Very, very selective. Being a straight female, she's really got to be something to make me cheat on the boyfriend. Angelina Jolie? Heck yes! But last time I checked she wasn't stepping out on Brad with Student/Librarian Assistants.
 
The_Technomancer said:
it just seems like there aren't that many girls (who I meet on a day to day basis) who seem like engaging people.

I'm like this but if I have a class or regular thing with enough people, I open up. But I know a lot of assertive women/girls. May I ask your age?
 
Devolution said:
I'm like this but if I have a class or regular thing with enough people, I open up. But I know a lot of assertive women/girls. May I ask your age?
Twenty in just under a month, and making most of my social connections through classes and such, since I'm not the type to party on the weekends. And yeah, maybe there's something about the classroom setting that changes how people act, but I'm not sure where else to go then since every student organization on campus is for either foreign culture or a professional society of something I'm not in, and this is turning into a girl-age exchange isn't it...
 
The_Technomancer said:
Honestly my problem is that I can't stand being around people just for the sake of it. Some people do, some people thrive on it, but if I'm not talking to you actually about something, or doing something with you, then I'm just uncomfortable. This applies to all people, not just women, and I dunno, it just seems like there aren't that many girls (who I meet on a day to day basis) who seem like engaging people. Hell, there aren't that many girls or guys period who actually reciprocate in conversation, and I'm sick of leading every exchange.

Yeah I can identify with this. I generally like people, I just don't like them enough to actually spend much time with them, unless I have an added reason to. I often can enjoy their company in and of itself, but at the same time it's so draining that the enjoyment I get isn't proportional to how exhausted I feel afterwards. There's a certain kind of rapport that seems to be self-sustaining or that doesn't tire me out so much, but it's uncommon.
 
Meus Renaissance said:
I think this is true for many: my standards can change dramatically if I know she likes me. Say, you wouldn't have noticed the girl before you became aware of this development. Then when you do start to notice her, knowing that she likes you, you begin to see things in her - physically - that are attractive. This is definitely the case for some girls, but I haven't heard many men admit to experiencing similar

I often actually have the opposite response when I find a girl fancies me.
 
The_Technomancer said:
Twenty in just under a month, and making most of my social connections through classes and such, since I'm not the type to party on the weekends.

Yeah I was never big on partying either and I've mostly had the same group of friends since highschool. We have fun just hanging out together that we don't really need to party or go "clubbing." For the most part though, the most assertive women I run into on average are in their later 20's. So don't worry too much about not running into secure and independent women, they're out there, but might be harder to find at your age.
 
Devolution said:
Yeah I was never big on partying either and I've mostly had the same group of friends since highschool. We have fun just hanging out together that we don't really need to party or go "clubbing." For the most part though, the most assertive women I run into on average are in their later 20's. So don't worry too much about not running into secure and independent women, they're out there, but might be harder to find at your age.
Mhm, I'm not worried long term, I'm sure I'll find someone eventually. I'm just a bit tired after a year+ solid of being single and not having any kind of romantic or sexual encounter at all.
 
The_Technomancer said:
Mhm, I'm not worried long term, I'm sure I'll find someone eventually. I'm just a bit tired after a year+ solid of being single and not having any kind of romantic or sexual encounter at all.

Well I've been in a long term relationship since forever, but I wouldn't worry too much about that. You've got plenty of time to screw around and gain experience. And don't let people and their bullshit pressure you into shit either, plenty of women are fine with guys who haven't been around the block shit tons of times. In fact, for many of us, it's a preference.
 
Devolution said:
Can I talk about my preferences in dudes just to shake things up?

Must have an ass.

Sorry Hank Hill.
I think if there was one thing I could change about my body it would be give myself an ass.

Any ass. -_-
 
lightless_shado said:
go into detail. I'm interested.

freckles. not many, mostly around her nose.
pale, with a tint of redness.
light brown eyes.
more straight than curved eyebrows. natural, not too waxed.
golden light brown hair: a bit wavy-not too straight. (cropped to shoulders).
super skinny.
around 5'10-5'11.

this is just a quick description of her body.
 
Fantastical said:
I think if there was one thing I could change about my body it would be give myself an ass.

Any ass. -_-

Do a lot of squats. I'm serious. I didn't have an ass until I played volleyball in highschool. My bf has an ass thanks to soccer.
 
Fantastical said:
I think if there was one thing I could change about my body it would be give myself an ass.

Any ass. -_-
You can bulk up to make up for the lacking behind.


Devolution said:
Do a lot of squats. I'm serious. I didn't have an ass until I played volleyball in highschool. My bf has an ass thanks to soccer.
Mmm, soccer (or rugby) thighs.
 
Vox-Pop said:
freckles. not many, mostly around her nose.
pale, with a tint of redness.
light brown eyes.
more straight than curved eyebrows. natural, not too waxed.
golden light brown hair: a bit wavy-not too straight. (cropped to shoulders).
super skinny.
around 5'10-5'11.

this is just a quick description of her body.

Now tell me about her personality. Also are tits and ass optional?
 
Devolution said:
Well I've been in a long term relationship since forever, but I wouldn't worry too much about that. You've got plenty of time to screw around and gain experience. And don't let people and their bullshit pressure you into shit either, plenty of women are fine with guys who haven't been around the block shit tons of times. In fact, for many of us, it's a preference.
Well I did have a great relationship with a gorgeous intelligent girl for a while, except for the small flaw that she had serious issues that led to her repeatedly hurting me :P So I just need to find someone like that who's not crazy.
 
sestrugen said:

haha *right click -> save as*

I find that for genuine love interests I am selective with the appearance of being desperate and willing to fuck any girl I know. And its because I have only had a real interest in girls I already know, and know well, but to those girls it has probably seemed like my interest has just wavered from one friend to the next. My current girl is gorgeous, intelligent, funny, empathetic and complicated. And that's how I like em...

when I have been single and more desperate, I have plunged into untold depths... untold depths.
 
The_Technomancer said:
Well I did have a great relationship with a gorgeous intelligent girl for a while, except for the small flaw that she had serious issues that led to her repeatedly hurting me :P So I just need to find someone like that who's not crazy.

Yeah all the good stuff about someone starts becoming futile if they can't treat you right or you argue far too often.
 
Devolution said:
Do a lot of squats. I'm serious. I didn't have an ass until I played volleyball in highschool. My bf has an ass thanks to soccer.
Koodo said:
You can bulk up to make up for the lacking behind.



Mmm, soccer (or rugby) thighs.
I've definitely been trying since New Year's day (resolution to work out). This summer should kick it up a few notches so hopefully that will help.

Yes, squats are my friend.
 
They have to either be as good looking or as smart as I am, expecting both is often too much as that would pretty much guarantee they're taken. Sometimes I'll relax that standard if they're really nice.
 
Not the highest standards. Average women are for sure for me. But the word average can mean anything depending on the person. Just, I am not expecting scar jo.
 
I spent the first 20 years of my life with no standards and I was damn proud of it. That is til the day I hooked up with a 240 lb girls rugby player. Haven't touched anything under a 7 since
 
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