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Why country stations are pulling the song ‘Girl Crush' (hint: the gay agenda)

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benjipwns

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http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs...and-what-that-says-about-country-radio-today/

Alana Lynn, a morning co-host on country music station 104.3 FM in Boise, Idaho, was excited to play Little Big Town’s latest single for her listeners. “Girl Crush,” a powerful ballad about a woman envious of her ex-boyfriend’s new girlfriend, seemed destined to be a hit.

“I want to taste her lips, yeah cause they taste like you / I want to drown myself in a bottle of her perfume,” vocalist Karen Fairchild sings. “I want her long blond hair, I want her magic touch / Yeah cause maybe then, you’d want me just as much. . . I got a girl crush.”

Sure, it’s a provocative way to describe jealousy. But when Lynn played the song on the air, she didn’t anticipate that she would get furious phone calls and e-mails accusing “Girl Crush” of “promoting the gay agenda” and threats to boycott the station. The last time she heard this much outrage from listeners? “The Dixie Chicks’ President Bush comments,” Lynn recalls, referring to when the trio’s career imploded in 2003 after making critical statements about the president.

Are you surprised by the anger over Little Big Town — especially considering it’s a complete misrepresentation of their lyrics? Lynn doesn’t play the song in the morning anymore after parents complained they didn’t want their kids hearing it. But it’s not just in Idaho: In recent weeks, multiple radio stations from coast to coast have been inundated with similar complaints about “Girl Crush,” forcing several to take it out of a regular rotation. (Sample comments heard by a Texas program director: “You are just promoting the gay agenda on your station and I am changing the channel and never listening to you ever again!!”)

As a result, the song is mired in a difficult climb on the radio charts, and it has ignited a controversy that is symbolic of the fraught state of country radio.

There’s a deep chasm these days between what’s popular on country radio — still the genre’s most powerful platform — and what fans are actually buying: “Girl Crush” is No. 4 on iTunes, but lags at No. 33 in radio rankings. And while country music is seen as more progressive now — with explicit lyrics about sex and casual marijuana use — significant portions of the traditional audience will not tolerate a song that they even wrongly assume is about a same-sex relationship.
*gasp*

The backlash is disheartening for the Grammy-winning band, which has been thrilled by positive fan response and sales numbers (“Girl Crush” is selling about 25,000 copies a week) but disappointed by the radio reaction. Fairchild remembers when she and fellow group member Kimberly Schlapman first heard the song, penned by veteran Nashville songwriters Liz Rose, Lori McKenna and Hillary Lindsey. At Rose’s house during a “girls’ writers day,” Fairchild and Schlapman listened to the songwriter trio perform the tune — and immediately snapped it up for Little Big Town’s next album.

“It’s a genius lyric, such a beautifully written song about jealousy,” Fairchild said in an interview with The Washington Post. “It was like, ‘Why would we not cut this?’”

Though label executives had some reservations about releasing it as a single, “They all agreed it was a moment on the record that everybody needed to hear,” Fairchild said. “Sure, there was a little bit of dialogue about the title and ‘Would people listen to the lyrics?’ But it didn’t stop us.”

As for the lyrics tripping up listeners, Fairchild guesses people hear the “taste her lips” line sung by a female singer and take assumptions from there — she’s still surprised by the controversy. “That’s just shocking to me, the close-mindedness of that, when that’s just not what the song was about,” Fairchild said, “But what if it were? It’s just a greater issue of listening to a song for what it is.”

The label recently cut a short commercial hoping to clear up some of the confusion. During the spot, the band introduces the song, while Fairchild explains the content: “It’s about a girl saying, you know, ‘Why do you love her and not me?’”

They hope it helps
: If angry fans force program directors to play the song less, it creates a ripple effect across country radio. Some stations won’t even play a song if it’s not near the top of the charts, and “Girl Crush” is struggling to get there.

And there lies the problem with the divide between country sales and radio play: Even if a song’s sales are strong, there’s nothing like radio to attract an even broader audience. People in the industry hope there’s a way to reconcile the two, especially to diversify the kind of hard-partying tunes that have taken over country radio in recent years.

Though Little Big Town has seen success with party songs (such as the recent No. 1 “Day Drinking”),
Fairchild says she’s heard from singer friends who hope that a ballad like “Girl Crush” can succeed on the radio and pave the way for more substantive music.

In fact, Fairchild jokes, “Maybe the real controversy is that a 6/8 ballad is on country radio.”
Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0TxUL_5Gl0

Music Video for Day Drinking: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NPqM3vPDg8
 

HUELEN10

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Big Gay is at it again!
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Beth Cyra

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Oh Republicans, will you ever learn? The answer is no by the way. I applaud Little Big Town's courage in fighting bigotry and ignorance though.
Are they?

Granted the comment seems like they are very open and respectful people, but the song is not about a woman being attracted to another women and they put out a video saying it's most certainly not.

Not saying it was wrong, but it doesn't seem like they are fighting bigotry unless I misunderstood something.
 

cj_iwakura

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Yeah, but it's okay to play songs about beating up foreigners.

I hate country music.


Well, more specifically, I hate what it often represents.
 

Dishwalla

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So, it's kinda like a country version of "I Kissed A Girl?"

Also I'm from Boise, even though I haven't lived there in like 8 years, but fuck that country station @ the 104.3 frequency. A really kickass oldies station used to occupy that space, before another one of those garbage country stations(there's seriously like half a dozen in Boise alone, a rather small radio market) replaced it about a decade ago. Still bitter.
 

DOWN

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So, it's kinda like a country version of "I Kissed A Girl?"


The message of the song is completely different. If someone is labeling Girl Crush as a gay song, they're not listening to the lyrics.
Yeah, I don't even get the characterization of it being gay at all. The woman singing about the "Girl Crush" is professing her wish to be desirable to the man in the scenario and it isn't even subtle as it keeps putting it in context of wanting to be more attractive to the guy. It's a slow song that seems to be about envying the traits of the new girl that have won over the man.
 

Platy

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This is like a Russian version of "tl,dr"
They are basicaly complaying because it is named Girl Crush and is a girl singing.

I love how these things are always "this gay song is destroying the youth ! I want then to listen to one about underage drinking and drugs"
 

mclem

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Are they?

Granted the comment seems like they are very open and respectful people, but the song is not about a woman being attracted to another women and they put out a video saying it's most certainly not.

Not saying it was wrong, but it doesn't seem like they are fighting bigotry unless I misunderstood something.

Well, I think the "But what if it were?" suggests they are at least aware of it and acknowledge that it shouldn't be a problem.
 

shira

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I don't like country music, but that's an effective song. I don't know if it's autotuned but sounds great too
 

Agentnibs

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I randomly heard this song yesterday while flipping through the stations. I remember thinking "huh well that's interesting" and listened to more before changing the station. I really just didn't like the song, it samples from something else but I can't remember exactly what.

I didn't really think anything of it though, people are dumb and misunderstood the song
 
Would the song had worked if it was a man instead and was called "Guy Crush"? That would be too much I think, for any radio station probably. That said lesbianism sells. Even if this song isn't about lesbianism the lyrics are suggestive.
Also would a woman actually think this if they were jealous? I mean I understand what they're saying it just doesn't strike me as likely.
 

Razmos

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Yeah, I don't even get the characterization of it being gay at all. The woman singing about the "Girl Crush" is professing her wish to be desirable to the man in the scenario and it isn't even subtle as it keeps putting it in context of wanting to be more attractive to the guy. It's a slow song that seems to be about envying the traits of the new girl that have won over the man.
I suppose it's no different than Dolly Parton's Jolene then, with her singing about how beautiful Jolene is because she's threatened by her.

Still though, the lyrics make sense up until "girl crush". How is being jealous of a girl a "girl crush"?
It's no wonder that the bigots are up in arms about it with a title like that, bbecause you know it's not like bigots to actually read deep into something.
 

Koomaster

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I read the OP and was thinking; 'Oh man those dumb rednecks are at it again.' But after listening to the song... I sort of see their point, haha.

Maybe it's the style of the song but the way she's singing about this girl doesn't so much sound like jealously. The song evokes images of a girl laying on her bed masturbating to thoughts of another girl with maybe the guy secondary. It's the very least a little bisexual and polyamorous.

The parts about the guy are sort of afterthoughts though. She goes on and on about this girl and it's like she's using the guy to justify the crush. She also hates to admit her crush and says it's not slowing down. Really the song reads to me like a girl in denial about her feelings for this other girl.

As that sort of song I think it works amazingly well. I sort of wish that was the original intent. Although maybe it was and they backed down from that because of backlash? I mean honestly I have listened to this several times now and I can't read the song any other way.
 
The message I'm getting from this article is that radio, an already old and marginalized medium for distributing music, isn't worth the hassle for already established artists.

If they're still selling copies, and people are still buying their singles and coming to their shows, then why cater to radio when it is the only outlet that seems to have any sort of problem with the song and its contents?

Stop apologizing to radio like it really matters to your bottom line, because it apparently doesn't.
 
A song about a girl loving a girl? Fuck that. What's next? A song about a man loving his pickup truck?

Next you'll be telling me he loves his dog.

And then his flag.

And then America.

We've got men saying they love the defined geo-political borders between Canada and Mexico.

It's fucking disgusting.
 

Timedog

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I read the OP and was thinking; 'Oh man those dumb rednecks are at it again.' But after listening to the song... I sort of see their point, haha.
Strange. I cant see their point because whether or not its about a secret gay crush does not make it okay or not okay.
 

captive

Joe Six-Pack: posting for the common man
sounds to me that it is promoting a gay agenda, and they're back peddling now because of the backlash.

Yea, that's not at all what's happening here. Listen to the lyrics, or read them, whatever. But the song is about jealousy.
 

Koomaster

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Strange. I cant see their point because whether or not its about a secret gay crush does not make it okay or not okay.
I mean see their point in how they are interpreting the song.

Although I'm sure most of the people complaining didn't take the time to really listen to the song and go in depth like I did. They just probably started mouthing off because of a female singing a slow song titled 'Girl Crush'.

I definitely do not agree with their thinking that this is some gay agenda plot nor agree that it should be taken off the air. It's a nice song and deserves radio play.
 

esms

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Does anyone else laugh when phrases like "the gay agenda" are used in an insidious manner? I can't be the only one.
 

Beth Cyra

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Well, I think the "But what if it were?" suggests they are at least aware of it and acknowledge that it shouldn't be a problem.
Agreed, like I said they seem like good people.

It's just them going out of the way to make a whole video to try to calm people and ensure people makes me feel like overall you can't argue they fought bigotry with this particular song or actions there after.
 

gblues

Banned
Yup, that sounds like Boise all right.

I'm not really surprised by the reaction, both from a regional perspective and from a psychological one.

I think it's because "girl crush" is in the hook, and that's the bit that sticks in your head. I bet the scenario looks a lot like this:

- Good Christian Girl (tm) is caught singing the hook, "I got a girl crush".
- Good Christian Girl(tm)'s mom hasn't heard the song and her mind goes straight to teh gay
- Mom gets herself in a Righteous Tizzy(tm) because she thinks Good Christian Girl(tm) has caught The Gay(tm)
- Mom spreads her Tizzy to husband, church, and soon more people who've never heard more than the hook of the song are now calling/writing the station in an uproar.

Think this is too far-fetched? the Righteous Tizzy(tm) is a force to be reckoned with. The whole "Harry Potter teaches witchcraft" thing was born out of a Righteous Tizzy(tm) created by an Onion article.

So all that is to say, fuck Boise and the stupid ignorant people who condemn a thing without any actual knowledge of the thing. Boise isn't exactly a huge market so hopefully the song does well elsewhere.
 

Bladenic

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Does anyone else laugh when phrases like "the gay agenda" are used in an insidious manner? I can't be the only one.

I'm honestly more surprised that the phrase "gay agenda" is still being used in 2015, I haven't heard it in quite a while.
 

Wilsongt

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I remember the Dixie Chicks stuff. Funny. If a country singer critized Obama today they'd be canonized. What a world..
 
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