To me it's comes off as the same thing that the Anti-gender folks are fighting against. They get so wrapped up in that mentality that if their children show an interest in what is typically associated with their gender that its seen as a bad thing, and should be punishable.
Every kid i've ever known at some point chooses what they themselves like, or dislike regardless of "conditioning", both sides spend too much time trying to force their own ideals on to their children instead of allowing the child to develop their own beliefs, likes, and dislikes.
I'm not a religious person, but If my daughter decided she was interested in religion at some point, I would try to get her to take a look at as many different religions as possible so that she could make an educated choice. This is coming from someone whos parents were extreamly religious Catholics.
I feel the same way on the choice of gender related stuff, i'll always give her a choice in this aspect of her life, if she likes pink then so be it, if she likes blue, thats alright aswell.