So, a big dilemma. I wanted to see what you think or get some ideas. My parents have retired just a few weeks ago and are thinking of moving. I live in the outskirts of a large/middle city in Italy. My parents are thinking, now that they have retired of moving back to their home town (in South Italy), a very small town (less than 10K people), 15 minutes from the sea. They have an empty lot of land in the middle of a town (so not isolated), where they would like to build a house and they proposed to me to build a duplex or semidetached house, so one for them and one for me (after selling the flat where they live and my flat). Since they would build from zero, I could customize as much as I want, it would be much bigger than where I live now (and maybe I could even pay for a small pool in the garden which is a small dream of mine), and since it's in South Italy, the house would be much bigger than what I'm used to here . I would just have to pay for the furniture, bills and so on (and give up the flat where I live now).
I really don't know what to do. On one side I'm a freelancer working from home, so I don't have a problem moving. On the other, I don't know if living just next door from my parents will be a good idea in 10-15 years. There is also the fact that it's a really small town, but it would have the advantages of being a mostly crime-free town, close to the sea and much less polluted. There is public transport in this town (and broadband), but public transport to the closest major city (every hour or so) are much less frequent than what I'm used to now (every 15-30 minutes).
If you were in my shoes, Would you accept to live beside your parents (the house would be separate just to be clear, so I would have my own house)?
I really don't know what to do. On one side I'm a freelancer working from home, so I don't have a problem moving. On the other, I don't know if living just next door from my parents will be a good idea in 10-15 years. There is also the fact that it's a really small town, but it would have the advantages of being a mostly crime-free town, close to the sea and much less polluted. There is public transport in this town (and broadband), but public transport to the closest major city (every hour or so) are much less frequent than what I'm used to now (every 15-30 minutes).
If you were in my shoes, Would you accept to live beside your parents (the house would be separate just to be clear, so I would have my own house)?