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I really believe that this whole anti bully culture is ridiculous. It is making future and present generations weaker and suicide rates higher because we are putting kids in a bubble that isn’t realistic so when crap really does hit the fan they are caught by surprise to see that they weren’t really the special snowflake mom and dad told them they were. There was a quote from a suicide survivor who had jumped from the golden gate bridge, he said “I realized that all my problems had solutions except the one I had just put myself in”.
 
Ang Lee's Hulk is THE BEST Super-Hero movie of all time

agreed 100%. it gets bashed for reasons i dont understand. the acting is good, the plot is grounded and focused, and the Hulk action sequences are done in an interesting way. best mature and character driven superhero movie to date.
 
Religion is the worst thing in the world. Most non-religious people don't recognize this because they have been indoctrinated to think that it is ok.

My main issue with religion is not the conflict and suffering it causes, but the way it holds back scientific progress. There are examples of religious groups actively trying to restrict certain scientific endeavors, but the passive effect of religious belief is much more concerning to me: Billions of religious people (who, embarrassingly, make up the majority of humanity) think that they have the answers to fundamental questions like "what is the nature of reality?" and are therefore less likely to seek real answers. How much more could we achieve if we were all seeking truth?
 
This board is laughably bad when it comes to gender issues. It quickly devolves into a conversation about who has it worse: men or women. Both sides fueling the fire equally and we all end up looking like idiots having the same conversation once a week because we're more concerned with telling someone they're wrong and terrible than having any real conversation on the topic.

And this is on a message board where you're able to formulate your thoughts, and not have emotions take over which may cause mouth farts.

We can ALL do better here.
 
I really believe that this whole anti bully culture is ridiculous. It is making future and present generations weaker and suicide rates higher because we are putting kids in a bubble that isn’t realistic so when crap really does hit the fan they are caught by surprise to see that they weren’t really the special snowflake mom and dad told them they were. There was a quote from a suicide survivor who had jumped from the golden gate bridge, he said “I realized that all my problems had solutions except the one I had just put myself in”.

I feel you are skipping the fact that the bullies themselves can be victims of emotional or physical abuse, and that it is that abuse that fuels their violent behavior. Bullying ins't a problem simply because of those who are bullied, but because inaction against it implicitly accepts physical aggression as a valid coping method for the bullies' own problems. And i assure you, bullied kids aren't the overconfident ones expecting something greater than reality allows. I'd wager those would actually be the bullies.
 
I really believe that this whole anti bully culture is ridiculous. It is making future and present generations weaker and suicide rates higher because we are putting kids in a bubble that isn’t realistic so when crap really does hit the fan they are caught by surprise to see that they weren’t really the special snowflake mom and dad told them they were. There was a quote from a suicide survivor who had jumped from the golden gate bridge, he said “I realized that all my problems had solutions except the one I had just put myself in”.
It's true, I find the most effective way of addressing a problem is blaming those trying to change it instead of accepting it occurs. It's why the most effective way of counseling bullied LGBT youth is telling them to deal with it and suck it up. It's been pretty effective so far.
 
I don't get whats so great about diversity. I have yet to hear a convincing argument other than 'but otherwise it would be racism!!' Diversity at workplace makes sense, but I can't follow the conclusion that we need mass immigration for that.
 
It's not fair to judge a country's entire population by its leaders or behavior within the world. I hope that's not controversial. I think most people know that.

Edit: Also, I think one common world language, not necessarily English, could do wonders for our relations with one another. I think we could lose a lot culturally, but gain a lot as well.
 
Avatar was an awful movie praised solely for its visuals- in which it did very well. Everything else felt like a movie you'd see on Mystery Science Theater.

Organized religion is more destructive than it is helpful.
 
agreed 100%. it gets bashed for reasons i dont understand. the acting is good, the plot is grounded and focused, and the Hulk action sequences are done in an interesting way. best mature and character driven superhero movie to date.

Thirded.

This thread is certainly bringing some interesting thoughts out of the woodwork eh.
 
The Hulk isn't a superhero. And the story shouldn't be about the Hulk. Its Bruce Banner's story and his brilliant mind coping with the giant green rage monster inside him. But you wont see that movie because its not what general audiences want to see from a movie that features Hulk.
 
Thirded.

This thread is certainly bringing some interesting thoughts out of the woodwork eh.

glad im not the only one in agreement lol. seriously tho, the trashing it gets is bizarre.

The Hulk isn't a superhero. And the story shouldn't be about the Hulk. Its Bruce Banner's story and his brilliant mind coping with the giant green rage monster inside him. But you wont see that movie because its not what general audiences want to see from a movie that features Hulk.

while true its mostly about Banner coping with the monster, Banner does have an arch toward the end where he does become the hero against his father. so i think all in all its still a superhero movie. but i agree the general audience wants dumb-downed phoned in superhero flicks. as far as im concerned the Marvel films are mostly are copy and pasted and are extremely dull, even the action is sort of been there done that. i'd welcome more superhero or comic films like The Hulk.
 
agreed 100%. it gets bashed for reasons i dont understand. the acting is good, the plot is grounded and focused, and the Hulk action sequences are done in an interesting way. best mature and character driven superhero movie to date.

and the Hulk is Hulk, he gets angry for us in Hulk fashion.

Norton's Incredible Hulk sucked ass
 
Religion is the worst thing in the world. Most non-religious people don't recognize this because they have been indoctrinated to think that it is ok.

My main issue with religion is not the conflict and suffering it causes, but the way it holds back scientific progress. There are examples of religious groups actively trying to restrict certain scientific endeavors, but the passive effect of religious belief is much more concerning to me: Billions of religious people (who, embarrassingly, make up the majority of humanity) think that they have the answers to fundamental questions like "what is the nature of reality?" and are therefore less likely to seek real answers. How much more could we achieve if we were all seeking truth?

Sounds like you want to tell other people how to think if you ask me. Not to mention, look around dude: capitalism is secular, law is secular, academia is secular, and overtly-religious people by and large are fringe as shit, at least in the West. From Freud on down, atheism and secularism has won. You already have the world you're asking for. It's great isn't it? All the problems are gone except for "religion." Riiiiight.
 
glad im not the only one in agreement lol. seriously tho, the trashing it gets is bizarre.

Guessing it probably elevated its source material in a way that was unacceptable to the fanboys. Like how gaming side cracked the shits when David O Russell dared to change elements of Uncharted, and celebrated when he was replaced by some talentless hack. Authenticity is more important than quality or something.
 
Religion is the worst thing in the world. Most non-religious people don't recognize this because they have been indoctrinated to think that it is ok.

My main issue with religion is not the conflict and suffering it causes, but the way it holds back scientific progress. There are examples of religious groups actively trying to restrict certain scientific endeavors, but the passive effect of religious belief is much more concerning to me: Billions of religious people (who, embarrassingly, make up the majority of humanity) think that they have the answers to fundamental questions like "what is the nature of reality?" and are therefore less likely to seek real answers. How much more could we achieve if we were all seeking truth?

Religion is only one thing stopping humanity from advancing and in many ways it benefits us.

People are lazy and selfish. You don't need religion to dull a mind, just give them a TV and a smartphone and they won't give a fuck about the world.
 
There is only one way to lose weight -- consume less calories than you burn. The various programs and methods and diets that exist, from paleo to Atkins to Weight Watchers to whatever, are just shorthand methods for people to restrict caloric intake without having to actually do math.

Anyone who complains about video games becoming boring or no fun most likely needs to stop playing AAA sony/xbox games and play some classic Nintendo titles or old-school PC games.
 
It's true, I find the most effective way of addressing a problem is blaming those trying to change it instead of accepting it occurs. It's why the most effective way of counseling bullied LGBT youth is telling them to deal with it and suck it up. It's been pretty effective so far.

And suicide rates have been increasing every year even though we are making sure that we are treating everyone like special snowflakes, so that means this method is even more effective right?
 
Guessing it probably elevated its source material in a way that was unacceptable to the fanboys. Like how gaming side cracked the shits when David O Russell dared to change elements of Uncharted, and celebrated when he was replaced by some talentless hack. Authenticity is more important than quality or something.

yeah comic fans can be the worst sometimes. anytime something is announced featuring a superhero or comic property the fans go into frenzy over staying true to the source material, no matter how ridiculous or minute the details are. my view has always been you have the source material, so let the other media that expands on the source material take creative freedoms. thats why i get so annoyed in the Star Wars threads, people want Episode VII to be so faithful or reminiscent of the OG trilogy that it just comes of as some lame pandering. id much rather see JJ just go crazy and try and build his own lore in the Star Wars universe and take creative liberties by letting go of the past six films and starting out with new characters. although see we know the casting that hasn't been the case, Disney and fans are really pushing for a nostalgia trip with the new film.
 
I don't get whats so great about diversity. I have yet to hear a convincing argument other than 'but otherwise it would be racism!!' Diversity at workplace makes sense, but I can't follow the conclusion that we need mass immigration for that.

Diversity: the quality or state of having many different forms, types, ideas, etc.

: the state of having people who are different races or who have different cultures in a group or organization

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/diversity

Diversity doesn't just exist within difference races. It can exist as wide as possible.

I went to a very liberal private college in NY where diversity meant having a lot of people from the Northeast from smaller towns and from places like South Africa and Australia.

Maybe you don't know what diversity can be contextually.
 
Sounds like you want to tell other people how to think if you ask me. Not to mention, look around dude: capitalism is secular, law is secular, academia is secular, and overtly-religious people by and large are fringe as shit, at least in the West. From Freud on down, atheism and secularism has won. You already have the world you're asking for. It's great isn't it? All the problems are gone except for "religion." Riiiiight.

I'm not saying religion is the only problem and all others have gone, or that without religion we would have no problems, where did you get that?

Also, are you aware that a fair chunk of the world is not in the west?

@zoukka; Smart phones and TV`s might distract people from pondering the nature of reality, but that is very different from giving people a made up answer if they do ponder such things.
 
Also I love capitalism, I really am glad that this is the system we have in place here in America.

But we dont...

Capitalism is an economic system in which trade, industry, and the means of production are largely or entirely privately owned and operated for profit

Last time I checked, publicly held trusts were a thing.

We have pseudo capitalism.
 
I liked of liked Jurassic Park 3

Sonic Transformed is an highly overrated game.

Pugs are so adorable. I have a pug. he is like my baby to me X3
 
A lot of people spend too much time focusing on identity issues (race, gender, sexuality) and go out of their way to find things that offend them.

They also form all of their opinions on the most basic knowledge of the headlines and then don't research the facts and then get upset.
 
I think the idea that American race relations are "white people versus everybody else" is a very faulty and dangerous concept. There's nothing wrong with a wealthy Chinese-American blogger being interested in the idea of "PoC solidarity", but the fact of the matter is that she likely has a far nicer life than the average Black or Native American person. Certain ethnic groups are far more marginalized than others, and in discussions of race that cannot be ignored.

Institutional racism in the United States was created with Black people in mind. Institutional oppression of other groups, then, is usually not as severe. Modern institutional bias against Muslim Americans and Hispanic Americans is awful (TSA pat-downs, etc), but not to the same degree as the difficulties experienced by African Americans. I'm not sure what, if any, institutional bias Asian Americans deal with, especially given that group's massive success, on average. Not all non-white people have the same experience.

Homogenizing non-European cultures as just "people of color" is rarely helpful and can often lead to a lot of confusion. What even is a white person? Does a Muslim of Pakistani descent who happens to look the same as a Muslim of Greek descent have any less privilege? Does a wealthy, white Chilean have any less privilege than a wealthy, white Russian?
 
Well, because there isn't anything inherently wrong in being ginger, it is just an irrational prejudice. My point was, calling Americans fat, while used in a generalised manner, has an element of truth to it.

It's like Americans calling the French, "Cheese-eating surrender monkeys". It's just what some people say jokingly, but I doubt they have any real prejudice of French people, it is just something they say in a generalised way to poke fun.

Sure. And as I said, I don't think they suffer for it, but it's nontheless the case that a story involving Americans will inevitably lead to someone interjecting about a person being fat or dumb in a way that they don't with basically anyone else. So the people in this thread saying that there's anti-American prejudice in Europe and the people saying there isn't are sort of right, because it exists but it's more or less inconsequential.

In my experience, at least.
 
I liked of liked Jurassic Park 3

Sonic Transformed is an highly overrated game.

Pugs are so adorable. I have a pug. he is like my baby to me X3

pugs are too cute. if only they came in a bigger size tho, like large dog size, but maybe that'd be too much cute lol.
 
And suicide rates have been increasing every year even though we are making sure that we are treating everyone like special snowflakes, so that means this method is even more effective right?

Correlation, causation, etc.

I'm sure it is just that one pet issue of yours that is causing the suicide rates to climb, however.
 
1) (Observations come from the hoity toity Ivy League academic setting) Poverty/class issues in America are ignored in favor of discussions of race and sexuality, and discussions on the latter tend to have an "upper class" focus. There's a willingness to engage in honest, deep, critical discussions on race (see: Critical Race Theory) and delve into the nuances of the most seemingly insignificant but potentially invidious actions in daily life (i.e. asking a Chinese man "where are you from", hearing California, and then insisting "no, where are you really from") and elevating such interactions to the level of supreme travesties.

Yet.. there's a lack of discourse on class and poverty because there's a blindness to it. When the leading professors or students of color or LGBT students, in addition to the progressively minded white students, are all of upper-middle class strata or higher, there's a lack of perspective to even understand the problem beyond acknowledging simple data.

And this isn't a polite way of saying "worry about white people too!". It's easier for these types to discuss race issues they may encounter personally or observed others experiencing -- being "othered" at Dartmouth, for example -- than any sort of struggle in Camden.

2) A primary reason why the gay rights movement was able to achieve such rapid success is that it's a White Minority movement, which made relating to the issue easier for young white people and facilitated change among older white people. If the face of LGBT was predominantly black or Hispanic gays and lesbians, we'd be 20 years behind.

3) Final Fantasy XIII was awesome.
 
Humanity's sole purpose is to create a giant geological layer of steel, oil and plastic, then perish. Why the earth needs a "manufactured" geological stratum is unknown.
 
The major Western powers, which are essentially oligarchies hidden behind carefully crafted veneers and are bolstered by immensely powerful domestic propaganda machines, neutralize geopolitical and economic challengers under the pretense of 'spreading democracy.'
 
1) (Observations come from the hoity toity Ivy League academic setting) Poverty/class issues in America are ignored in favor of discussions of race and sexuality, and discussions on the latter tend to have an "upper class" focus. There's a willingness to engage in honest, deep, critical discussions on race (see: Critical Race Theory) and delve into the nuances of the most seemingly insignificant but potentially invidious actions in daily life (i.e. asking a Chinese man "where are you from", hearing California, and then insisting "no, where are you really from") and elevating such interactions to the level of supreme travesties.

Yet.. there's a lack of discourse on class and poverty because there's a blindness to it. When the leading professors or students of color or LGBT students, in addition to the progressively minded white students, are all of upper-middle class strata or higher, there's a lack of perspective to even understand the problem beyond acknowledging simple data.

And this isn't a polite way of saying "worry about white people too!". It's easier for these types to discuss race issues they may encounter personally or observed others experiencing -- being "othered" at Dartmouth, for example -- than any sort of struggle in Camden.

2) A primary reason why the gay rights movement was able to achieve such rapid success is that it's a White Minority movement, which made relating to the issue easier for young white people and facilitated change among older white people. If the face of LGBT was predominantly black or Hispanic gays and lesbians, we'd be 20 years behind.
I like these two.
 
The major Western powers, which are essentially oligarchies hidden behind carefully crafted veneers and are bolstered by immensely powerful domestic propaganda machines, neutralize geopolitical and economic challengers under the pretense of 'spreading democracy.'

+1
 
The major Western powers, which are essentially oligarchies hidden behind carefully crafted veneers and are bolstered by immensely powerful domestic propaganda machines, neutralize geopolitical and economic challengers under the pretense of 'spreading democracy.'

You think that Afghanistan was a political and economic challenger to the US?
 
Sure. And as I said, I don't think they suffer for it, but it's nontheless the case that a story involving Americans will inevitably lead to someone interjecting about a person being fat or dumb in a way that they don't with basically anyone else. So the people in this thread saying that there's anti-American prejudice in Europe and the people saying there isn't are sort of right, because it exists but it's more or less inconsequential.

In my experience, at least.

Okay.

My basic point really is that I didn't really think it was totally comparable to how ginger people are treated. Some kids are bullied in school for being ginger. It can be something that is quite harmful. where as --as you have pointed out -- the prejudice against Americans is more or less inconsequential.

I agree with your main point.
 
No.
I am saying that the vast majority are fueled by - Marketing and Elitism.
I know legitimate food allergies exist. I had a friend in high school that couldn't eat a peanut or he would wake up greeting a viking in Valhalla and another friend that couldn't be in the same room as shellfish.

Oh, well that I can agree with.
 
SimCity 2013 doesn't get the credit it truly deserves.

Kendrick Lamar is one of the last dying breed of hip hop artists that represents the art form.

Mental Illness should be treated like a huge problem in the world rather than a pill/drink off you go type of thing.
 
I have so many controversial opinions, people hate me for it.

- I think that globalisation is killing the lower to middle classes (in the first world), which leads to a "tyranny of education" where everybody in the first world is drilled to be as educated as possible, preferably in STEM. This is a horrible situation, which in turn will lead to discrimination of uneducated people, because there is no place for them in the first world countries. This is in-humane, as not everybody is cut out to be a STEM student. I know that first hand.

M-shaped society
 
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