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Guys, how do I deal with a stalker?

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Odah

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So I was once friended with a guy who in the past was kinda always an asshole to me. After some time where I thought he would change but didn't I decided to never talk with him again, but here come's the thing now:

Another friend of mine who is also friended with this guy told me that since a few weeks he stalks me on the internet, looks up every possible website where I could be, googles for my Username, even stalks the profile of my ex-girlfriend and her friends!!!

The thing is, this stupid guy tells everything to my other friend. He showed me that this stalker even has screenshots of stuff I wrote in TWITCH CHAT, I mean..how is this possible?

He looks up every possible thing about me which he can find on the internet, forum posts/accounts, channels, etc...



I have no idea why he does that but If I would guess he wants to make fun of it or something, idk. Really sick and sad when you know that this guy is already an adult (20).

It terrifies me, because I don't want a creepy guy looking up everything that I post or do on the internet. I mean, I wouldn't care that much if he wouldn't even stalk my ex and her friends aswell. He even found pictures of her and saved them and showed them to my other friend.

Don't ask for his reasoning because I have no idea either. I just want this shit to end and I don't even know if he's still doing it but probably he is.


So what can I do? Someone else told me I should go to the police but can they really help? I think they would more likely laugh about me...

"Hey, uhm...so there is a guy who stalks me on the internet and looks up what I do and now I want to report him"

I don't really think that they would take me serious :/

Oh and he also stalks my gaf-account.


Any help or advice would be appreciated!


I'm so so so so sick of this guy, even the fact that he does that makes me throw up.
 
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Aiii

So not worth it
Nothing on the internet is private, so there's nothing you can do.

Not that it really matters, it's not like you're putting stuff on the public part of the internet that reveal anything vital that could hurt you in real life, right? :)

Seriously though, all you can do is wait for him to move on, shouldn't be too long.
 
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Symphonia

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kmax

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Stalking you on the internet?

Sorry, not much you can do about that. He'll probably get bored soon though and drop his act. The best thing you can do is to ignore his entire existence.
 
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Odah

Banned
Earth Sick said:
Soooo.. why do you think he is stalking you?
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Dunno, to make fun of me? He is bored? I have no idea.

He has no crush on me lol pls dont make me throw up




and yeah, I thought so too. Sadly Internet doesn't fall under privacy...



I'm not someone who would ever fight with anyone :d
 
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Earth Sick

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Odah said:
Dunno, to make fun of me? He is bored? I have no idea.

He has no crush on me lol pls dont make me throw up




and yeah, I thought so too. Sadly Internet doesn't fall under privacy...



I'm not someone who would ever fight with anyone :d
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Probably has something to do with your ex-gf then.
 
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junglist

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well since he is stalking you... post pictures of him on your facebook wall.. tell the world about it and leave that thread open to public..



then change your security settings, passwords and security questions...
 
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Malreyn

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If you know they guy in real life, depending on your state, there are anti stalking laws...hopefully you can try and report it to the authorities and do something against the dude. Good luck.
 
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Odah

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^ I don't know him in real life. I just know where he lives but not even that to 100%

junglist said:
well since he is stalking you... post pictures of him on your facebook wall.. tell the world about it and leave that thread open to public..



then change your security settings, passwords and security questions...
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Luckily...I don't use facebook (kinda because of the exact same reason).
 
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Scofield94941

Member
I had an admirer who resembled a stalker. My strategy was to play their game. I responded to texts but acted so stupid in the replies. Take the game to him. Time to play some offense and creep him out
Be creepy, be annoying, me undesirable.
 
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Joni

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Maybe he needs a GAF account so we can get his side on it.
Also, clearly, any advice we give, he'll know.
 
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Orbis Tabula

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STALKER, NO STALKING!
STALKER, NO STALKING!
STALKER, NO STALKING!

There, all taken care of. Let me know if you need anything else. Stopping swiping is usually my specialty, but that should work.
 
pants

pants

Member
Hey Jeff, it's me Steven. I'm sorry bout all this and would like to drop it, I just got a bit jealous of you and your ex. Again, im sorry, please dont call the police.
 
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Always-honest

Banned
"wow, you're really obsessed with me, aren't you?"

If that doesn't help, grab him, smash your fist and your foot in his face a couple of times and see how that works out.

Or.. call the police. But you better have proof.
 
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Dagobert Duck

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Cant wait until he posts a screenshot of OPs post as a reply here :-D

I mean if he stalks your GAF account, he may have a GAF account...
 
jts

jts

...hate me...
He's probably mentally challenged.

Anyway, burn your current accounts and use new ones.
 
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