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A guy I don't know is threatening to kill me over a dumb joke

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Jeff-DSA

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I don't know if you guys have seen those 5 Gum wrappers that have truth or dares written on them, but my coworker had one that said, "Dare: Text-roulette a random number that they are beautiful."

So I put in random numbers, nobody on my contact list, and wrote, "Just wanted to let you know that you're beautiful." I go to lunch.

After lunch I noticed that they had responded, and it said, "who is this, do I know you?" and another that said, "haha, guess you're not going to let me know?"

I also noticed that I had a voice mail from a different number. I was about to text the number back and let them know it was a joke and that they didn't know me, but my phone rang again. It was the number that had left message.

I picked up.

It was this dude's wife accusing me of cheating with his wife. He had looked up my info using my number and said that he's coming to kill me (via stabbing or shooting, he didn't know yet), and he just kept going on and on about how he knew that she was cheating and the he's throwing her out of the house and that I needed to be looking over my shoulder constantly, because he's coming. I tried to explain the gum wrapper dare, he doesn't buy it. He just kept talking about how he's a crazy "mother fucker" and how I'm going to end up "mother fucking dead."

Now I wouldn't normally care, but I have a wife and two kids. I don't want this psycho showing up at my house and causing issues with them in any way. I don't really want to call the police, because I don't think they'll do anything. The voice mail I have from him shows him pissed off and saying that he's kicking his wife out, but the death threats came from when I actually talked to him (some of my coworkers witnessed it). I texted him and his wife a picture of the gum wrapper, he says that he doesn't believe it and that I probably picked her out of my contacts and that it wasn't random. Yes, they're both local (I stupidly used my own area code in the random dial).

WTF do I do? I have his name and phone number, but that's not much comfort right now.
 

XenodudeX

Junior Member
Nothing? He doesn't know where you live or who you are. Block his number and stop doing stupid shit next time.
 

Amory

Member
fake flirting with random numbers sounds like a terrible idea, tbh.

call the cops. tell them he threatened you
 

AMUSIX

Member
So, if I'm reading this correctly, a gum wrapper prank just potentially destroyed a marriage.



Yeah, he sounds imbalanced, but, from his perspective, his wife just got a flirting/affectionate text from a number he didn't recognize. Could be that she had cheated on him in the past, and they were already on shaky ground, and she was truly working on rebuilding his trust and their relationship, and then this happens....
 

Grizzlyjin

Supersonic, idiotic, disconnecting, not respecting, who would really ever wanna go and top that
You can't text on a home line so how did this guy get your personal info so quickly from a cell phone number?

You can search for numbers in Facebook messenger. I've used that to figure out who texted me when I got a random text out of the blue. That is assuming the person has their phone number linked to their Facebook account.
 

soleil

Banned
Here's another idea: Tell him you've been fucking his wife for over a year and that he's an idiot for not picking up on it sooner. See what he comes back with. Then you'll know if he's just messing with you or not. Cause if he's joking, he won't know where to go from there and it will all stop.
 
Here's another idea: Tell him you've been fucking his wife for over a year and that he's an idiot for not picking up on it sooner. See what he comes back with. Then you'll know if he's just messing with you or not. Cause if he's joking, he won't know where to go from there and it will all stop.


Or he's not joking and he'll come and kill him?
 

fallengorn

Bitches love smiley faces
I'm expecting this to end with an armless man saying, "... and that's why you don't send texts to random numbers."
 

Steamlord

Member
OK, you can ignore him and risk getting murdered like people here are suggesting, or you can not take chances and call the police. Your call, I guess.
 

AMUSIX

Member
Here's another idea: Tell him you've been fucking his wife for over a year and that he's an idiot for not picking up on it sooner. See what he comes back with. Then you'll know if he's just messing with you or not. Cause if he's joking, he won't know where to go from there and it will all stop.

Sounds like this is the most fair thing you can do to the wife...after all, she just has to deny it, right?
 
The first step is to try and gauge whether the guy actually has any info on who you are/live/work etc. which is still unclear to me

If he just has your cellphone number, that sucks but unless the below happens I don't see him finding you

You can search for numbers in Facebook messenger. I've used that to figure out who texted me when I got a random text out of the blue. That is assuming the person has their phone number linked to their Facebook account.
 

Sanjuro

Member
OP

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Ummm, wow. That's quite the coincidence. Assuming he's serious, try calling him back and explaining things calmly. Show him the gum wrapper again too.
 

cirrhosis

Member
I refuse to believe this isn't somehow a parody thread related to this one somehow

both random numbers

anyway if it's real, best prepare, arm yourself and wait for him OP
 

Jeff-DSA

Member
Ok, I've talked to him on the phone again. He still says that he wants to kill me, but I get the sense he's 100% talk right now. He's just crazy, and he's pissed.

I'm going the apologetic route, because I am truly sorry for whatever feelings I stirred up in him. I'm sorry for the whole stupid thing. I just told him over and over not to do anything that's going to land him in trouble. Truth is, I'm not scared of him, but I don't want him screwing with my family.

And yes, he looked up my name and address using my phone number. He could easily find me.

I refuse to believe this isn't somehow a parody thread related to this one somehow

both random numbers

It's no parody. It's unfortunately very real.
 

Amory

Member
in all seriousness if the guy is for real I'm way more worried for his poor wife than I am for OP, who is an idiot.
 

Kyoufu

Member
Okay it's a game/joke but why are you telling other women they're beautiful when you're married? What a waste of time for everybody involved.
 
You should sue 5 gum, afterall, it is their fault you're in this mess in the first place. Use your settlement money to change your identity and start a new life.
 

soleil

Banned
Ok, I've talked to him on the phone again. He still says that he wants to kill me, but I get the sense he's 100% talk right now. He's just crazy, and he's pissed.

I'm going the apologetic route, because I am truly sorry for whatever feelings I stirred up in him. I'm sorry for the whole stupid thing. I just told him over and over not to do anything that's going to land him in trouble. Truth is, I'm not scared of him, but I don't want him screwing with my family.

And yes, he looked up my name and address using my phone number. He could easily find me.
If you apologize, you're giving the impression that you have something to apologize for. Meaning, you are implicitly admitting you're guilty of something. While in your mind, you're guilty of a a dumb joke, his mind is focused on guilt of an affair.
 
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