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Meeting Random People at College Isn't Always a Good Thing

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GavinGT

Banned
Okay, can we uh...not...
I just described a guy who came off as a complete creep to me and you're telling me hes a perfect match to me?

Yeah, not responding to this anymore.

I must be missing something but I'm failing to see what was creepy about his behavior aside from his peculiar interests (which you share). Was he too forward? Was it that he didn't tell you his name?
 

The Technomancer

card-carrying scientician
I must be missing something but I'm failing to see what was creepy about his behavior aside from his peculiar interests (which you share). Was he too forward? Was it that he didn't tell you his name?

He then notices I'm playing Saya No Uta, and says he feels like my father, and as such, he has to tell me that it's bad on me for playing them.
He then shows me his wallpaper, which is two anime girls kissing on a bench.
Lastly, he leaves and says bye Chris (my name). I ask his name to be polite and because he knows mine. He looks over at me and laughs, not answering and leaving my room.

..yes, you might be
 
I once made a mistake in college of telling a classmate that I played games and had a PS3. For the rest of the semester he LOUDLY kept taking about how the 360 was better than the PS3. I just had to nod my head and quietly agree to stop him from talking.
 

komplanen

Member
You should just tell him he smells bad. Nothing bad will come out of it:

- He might be offended and never come back. WIN
- He might apologize and start taking showers. WIN

- If he is insulted and still keeps coming over you can at least rest assured he won't be coming over to your computer. WIN
 

Soulflarz

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I must be missing something but I'm failing to see what was creepy about his behavior aside from his peculiar interests (which you share). Was he too forward? Was it that he didn't tell you his name?

Okay, I will respond to this then, because I see you're actually trying to understand me.

Basically, it's creepy to most people when a guy who you don't know comes up to you and starts asking you multiple questions about a game you played three years ago (while wearing a shirt for said game, which I get can be written off as being a huge fan). Theres no real reason I should care about said game at the time. It is also creepy when he then starts talking about various fanfictions, a thing I have never read and never plan or reading. He also looks at my computer and compares himself to my father as he tells me not to play a certain game as it is "bad", then proceeds to show me his anime wallpaper of two girls kissing on a bench when I haven't shown any previous interest or care in seeing it. To top it off, he goes and starts to tell me about Yuri visual novels to read, which...I never asked for? And have no plans on ever reading?

And to finish it off, he then leaves after laughing and not telling me his name?

I don't think this is an issue of too forward or not- that just describes creepy behavior to most people? I think you uhm, as you said, are missing something?
 

Boem

Member
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He then notices I'm playing Saya No Uta, and says he feels like my father, and as such, he has to tell me that it's bad on me for playing them.
(...)
I ask his name to be polite and because he knows mine. He looks over at me and laughs, not answering and leaving my room.

I don't even know what to say about that encounter.

He's totally you from the future.
 

Sami+

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I have to admit I always found it really funny that anime itself makes fun of anime fans all the fuckin time and that still doesn't phase them

latest
 

jooey

The Motorcycle That Wouldn't Slow Down
I agree, and I get it all the time about not looking like the hobbies I like. That said, I don't agree about making fun of people. Especially on GAF of all places.

this is not the nerd utopia you're looking for
 

Two Words

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I think college just has a lot of people that are finding themselves and have some odd convictions for a while. For example, yesterday at my class, some students and I were talking and getting ready for the first day of class. We're just casually chatting and eventually one guy asks another guy "I know how I can tell if we're gonna get along. What's your religion?" The guy says he is an atheist and the guy says "Okay good, we're definitely gonna get along" and has a little laugh to himself. It was kind of an awkward moment and nobody really had a good followup to it to move it past the weird comment.
 
I think college just has a lot of people that are finding themselves and have some odd convictions for a while. For example, yesterday at my class, some students and I were talking and getting ready for the first day of class. We're just casually chatting and eventually one guy asks another guy "I know how I can tell if we're gonna get along. What's your religion?" The guy says he is an atheist and the guy says "Okay good, we're definitely gonna get along" and has a little laugh to himself. It was kind of an awkward moment and nobody really had a good followup to it to move it past the weird comment.

Hahaha, if I had that exact conversation that's how I'd know we wouldn't get along. That would be the exact moment I knew
 
If I were OP, an encounter like this would probably shock me into joining one of those social sports leagues that are a front for going out and drinking a lot of Bud Light Limes and talking about Pinterest.
 

dcassell

Banned
We had a guy in the dorms who just watched hentai on his TV all night at least twice a week. With the windows open. Same guy had traits similar to the OP's example, but this said guy also got kicked out of dorms for strapping teddy bears to poles and "Fishing for women" in the stairs of other complexes. You meet all types in college, I guess.
 

Yasumi

Banned
Blatant anime and game fans really do tend to be the most awkward and lifeskill inept. Back in high school, there was a guy who would run through the hall screaming Captain Falcon quotes if he saw someone he knew. So much cringe.

A couple years ago at college, I dressed up as L for Halloween, and some guy recognized the character. We talked about Death Note for a bit, but he wouldn't stop following me. I had a library shift coming up, so I had to take off the costume. Dude stood at the bathroom entrance, just staring at me as I'm washing off the makeup. He eventually buggered off once we got to the Library. Never really saw him again after that.

We recently got a gaming lab, like 40 Alienware PCs, and it's just as awful as you can imagine. Disgustingly hot, smells like armpits, asscrack, and probably a mix of other bodily fluids, epic League of Legends/twitch memes being mumbled across the room, and computers filled with malware. I'm terrified of what these peoples' home computers must be like.
 

Hoo-doo

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When you spend like 80% of your waking life on your computer chair in your bedroom, common things get put on the backburner, like personal hygiene and normal human interaction. Hardcore gamers also fall into this category, but a little less so.

It's always the anime fans with the piss bottles too.
 
Blatant anime and game fans really do tend to be the most awkward and lifeskill inept. Back in high school, there was a guy who would run through the hall screaming Captain Falcon quotes if he saw someone he knew. So much cringe.

A couple years ago at college, I dressed up as L for Halloween, and some guy recognized the character. We talked about Death Note for a bit, but he wouldn't stop following me. I had a library shift coming up, so I had to take off the costume. Dude stood at the bathroom entrance, just staring at me as I'm washing off the makeup. He eventually buggered off once we got to the Library. Never really saw him again after that.

We recently got a gaming lab, like 40 Alienware PCs, and it's just as awful as you can imagine. Disgustingly hot, smells like armpits, asscrack, and probably a mix of other bodily fluids, epic League of Legends/twitch memes being mumbled across the room, and computers filled with malware. I'm terrified of what these peoples' home computers must be like.

Wait hold up. Were you just going to class and stuff dressed like anime? Not on your way to a party or anything?
 
Mostly talking from the perspective of gaming, which also has a fair amount of these kinds of folks.

I've found much better results when you meet someone via a class or acquaintance or something you find out they happen to be a gamer later, as opposed to meeting people/going to venues where the premise is "he/she's a gamer". The former are generally "normal" people who like that as a hobby. The latter tend to be socially stunted people with shitty personalities and questionable odor.

Well said. I used to do game testing and lordy it's utterly unavoidable meeting the latter type. One guy I worked beside smelled like cheese and only ever talked about anime and would pull out his vns every chance he could to do show and tell. /shudders
 
Your boy Gerstmann spitting 100% undeniable facts decades ago, yet still spits 100% promotion of animé on his weekly podcast. Y'need to shut up.

well when something as important as monster musume is airing even Jeff needs to let the world know it. he's really into lamias
 
people often will dress up a bit for halloween at work or school, plus its not like he was going as a magical girl or mecha or something

I just googled that character. Basically just looks like a dude who gets insufficient vitamin D. Don't know why an anime fan would even need makeup for that.
 
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