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What racist things have you done in your life?

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
Every once in while I think back to a day in French class where we had to grade other kids papers. The teacher, nice as she was, was kind of a doofus, and the classes tended to go right to the bell instead of finishing up a little before. She was also a teacher that liked us to keep all of our papers, so anything we turned in we ended up getting back, so at the end of this class everybody had to scramble to get the paper they were grading back to its owner.

I happened to be grading the paper of someone I didn't know, we'll say his name was Eddie. Not only did I not know Eddie, I hadn't before then been aware that there was anyone named Eddie in the class. So when the bell rang, I now had a piece of paper that I had no idea who to hand it to. I took a look around the room, knowing I needed to get rid of this thing quickly because my next class was across the school. Lot's of faces, none of them sent Eddie vibes.

I took one more look at the paper, and saw the last name was Kim. I think Kim could reasonably be an English surname, but I've never met any white people with the last name Kim. There is an Asian kid I see in class though, and there are more than a few Koreans named Kim. I also lived in an Army town, any Asians there were likely to be Koreans, so I walked over to him, handed him Eddie's paper, and rushed off to my next class.

I never spoke a word to that kid before or after, so to this day I don't know that this was in fact his paper. If I were to bet, I think the odds would favor his being Eddie, but it does boil down to an assumption based on appearance.

I bring this up only because I don't often see lots of stories about biases or assumptions told from the point of view of the person making a projection on another person. I don't think that people can learn everything by having half a conversation, which does seem to be what our society seems to have in regards to racism and cultural and racial bias. Hopefully some civil (and maybe even educational) discussion can be had before this is inevitably locked.
Also nb4 Snakes on Plane jokes.
 

ZiZ

Member
I wouldn't call that racist. I guess it might be stereotyping. But there was no ill will or negative feelings because of race.
 

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
I wouldn't call that racist. I guess it might be stereotyping. But there was no ill will or negative feelings because of race.
It was still an assumption. I don't think of it as destructive in any way, but it did use a piece of information to make a unfounded assumption about someone.
 

Media

Member
I broke up with a black guy because I was worried what my mom would think.

It wouldn't have worked out anyhow, I was 15, he was 19 >.<
 
I'm latino.

I was raised by a group of crazy and selfish latina females. I swore to never sleep with, get involved with, marry, flirt, or considered any type of personal relationship with a Latina women.

I grew up believing if I ever got into any relationship it would be with a cute black female or something.


I don't know if that's racist or personal scaring or trauma but besides my daughter I stay away from Latina females.
 

MogCakes

Member
Before I came to understand my own place as a minority, I would cast my eyes down and try to avoid black guys on the sidewalk, almost instinctively. It actually hurts to type that out, the small shit like that will fuck with a person's psyche and sense of worth over time. I imagine many, many people did that to them and the dudes probably internalized it, even though they're just regular people who had done nothing wrong, and I'm a minority like them. A seemingly small thing, but it's shameful to type. It took years for me to understand just how deep racial bias can run in even supposedly intelligent people, of any skin color or background. If I saw those same guys on the street today, I'd give them a hello and a smile.
 
We had this kind of an asshole private in basic training. He was talking shit in my room and I told him to stop. But he kept talking and eventually he said something really stupid and I just went off impulsively "someone get this nigga outta here".

I knew in that moment I have been watching too much boondocks. I apologized to him later on. I am brown if it matters.
 

neojubei

Will drop pants for Sony.
When i was in high school i worked a part-time job at the library in the mirco-film department and I used to give special attention to all the Asian guys that came into the department. I'd help them out with the microfiche machines and whatnot, as for everyone else i wouldn't help them even if they asked. My job was really was to go in the back and find the microfilm or microfiche cards and put into a bin when patrons requested certain film. I'd hardly interact with the public unless I wanted. Not sure if this was racist or not.

Being a gay non-white guy i never slept with a white guy before. I once told a friend this and he was shocked.
 
I loved, and still love 'les inconnus', a trio of french comedians who (in spite of one of them being from african-caribbean ancestry) had some satire which was frankly pretty offensive (though they were taking the piss at absolutely everyone, but they actually tended to be less clever when it was ethnic stereotypes)
 

Fat4all

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when i was a young lad I watched Blazing Saddles with my oldest sister, and without knowing the context of the word, would occasionally say the word 'nigger' (i was too stubborn to ask my sister what it meant, as i was a know-it-all brat).

My sister heard me say it a couple days later, then goated me into saying it in front of my mother, to which I was popped in the mouth, grounded, and told never to say it again. I remember being confused at first, but then my mom explained to me about implications of the word.
 

Linkark07

Banned
My mother isn't white.

Edit: ok, being serious now, using the n-word a lot when I was a kid and teenager. In my defense (no, it isn't justifiable at all), the society I live here is quite racist. Irony, considering we are a mix of races. Anyways, thanks to GAF I'm trying to redeem myself. It has been a while since I have used that word, I think since I joined this forum.
 

xkramz

Member
More of a stereotype than racism but,
A New watermelon flavored yogurt came out. And I tried my sales pitch on a black dude. I didn't think about it till after I tried selling it to him.
 

Camjo-Z

Member
If something as tame as giving a paper with a Korean surname on it to the one person in the room who looks Korean is racist then I'm practically a Klansman.
 

John Dunbar

correct about everything
i was genuinely shocked when i found out that forum member himuro is black. it just never occurred to me that a black person could like shenmue so much.
 

HylianTom

Banned
I feel deeply conflicted about this, but in the past I laughed at some older racial/ethnic/sexual stereotypes portrayed in movies and TV. Mickey Rooney's character in Breakfast at Tiffany's is a good example.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAafI9w7CY8

Now when I see it, I cringe. It's amazing to see how much things have changed, even in the past 15-20 years.
 

Captain Pants

Killed by a goddamned Dredgeling
I tend to either nod and smile at black people, or avoid eye contact. The first is to let them know that I'm not a horrible racist, and the second is so that they don't think I'm staring at them. I'm so afraid of coming across as racist that I act super racist.

It's all down to a lack of exposure. I live in a super white city. That's not an excuse, I just get tripped up. I worry so hard that I'm going to accidentally do something that will come across wrong. Hopefully the people on the receiving end of this either don't notice me at all, or just think, 'that fat guy at the grocery store was weird, smiling and nodding at me while simultaneously not looking me in the eye. Dude should keep shopping and mind his own business.'

This is all an extension of my anxiety issues about everything, and not the manifestation of any kind of hatred in my heart. I hate even writing this, as I know how bad it sounds. Minorities should have better things to worry about than wondering if they are making some white doofus in Idaho get tripped up merely by being in the same room.
 

Izuna

Banned
I'm really struggling to answer this.

Probably thinking that racism doesn't exist for the vast majority of my life?

edit: according to my past bans, thinking it's a conspiracy theory that an all white jury wouldn't convict a rapist cop -- GAF is taught me that USA != UK... but then again, post-Brexit UK is pretty damn bad
 

Aurongel

Member
Some casual use of the N word when I was younger, always targeted at my dumb white friends.

Real talk: If I'm in my car singing along to hip hop, is it more shameful if I omit the n word from the lyrics or if I say it to myself? I want to sing along to my jams but I hate sounding like a radio Disney edit.
 
Well this is super stupid but up until I was like 11 I thought the the actual act of homosexual sex (which I didn't even know what it was) created the HIV virus(I actually knew their was a difference between the HIV virus and Aids which makes this even more weird), so embarrassing, I was a stupid child, don't make that smart of an adult either.

I think I knew I was bi even back then.

I was born white

Hey, you're Black now, stay strong.
 

Javaman

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A couple of years ago I was walking down the summer isle at walmart which was packed with all kinds of florescent bowls and plastic cups. Total sensory overload. As I passed a black guy working on stocking the isle I said without thinking, "there's too much color in this isle!"
 

Izuna

Banned
Some casual use of the N word when I was younger, always targeted at my dumb white friends.

Real talk: If I'm in my car singing along to hip hop, is it more shameful if I omit the n word from the lyrics or if I say it to myself? I want to sing along to my jams but I hate sounding like a radio Disney edit.

Of course I can't speak for anyone else, but when I was doing karaoke in Tokyo one white girl wanted to constantly rap, and her omission of nigga was... It felt weird.

Know where you are. Context etc. I guess

As a white guy, I actually do the same thing. I get annoyed with people I perceive as 'generic white straight dudes' even though I am one.

Don't you understand that this causes more divide though? You shouldn't prejudge anyone based on their colour. Colour + hometown, maybe, but straight up what colour they are? =(
 

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
I feel deeply conflicted about this, but in the past I laughed at some older racial/ethnic/sexual stereotypes portrayed in movies and TV. Mickey Rooney's character in Breakfast at Tiffany's is a good example.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAafI9w7CY8

Now when I see it, I cringe. It's amazing to see how much things have changed, even in the past 15-20 years.

You know, I watched Scary Movie for the first time in years a few months ago. I still laugh at gay Ray, but I always have to justify it. I tell myself "I remember what our culture was like at the time, that media didn't consider gay people an offendable group, and jokes at their expense we're considered hurtful." But man, it really doesn't sound good if you say it out loud. To an extent it's true though, if a modern movie made the same jokes I couldn't laugh at it and I'd find it in bad taste, I give Scary Movie a pass because it's as old as it is.

But I wouldn't want my kids laughing at those jokes. If I wanted to share that movie with the next generation, I'd have to give a disclaimer before showing it, and tell them that those kinds of jokes were considered okay at the time, but that you shouldn't now emulate them.
 

entremet

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i was genuinely shocked when i found out that forum member himuro is black. it just never occurred to me that a black person could like shenmue so much.
Lmao.

The black nerd is a hard life, man. Rejection from all sides! Well this was before geeky stuff was cool.

I don't think this thread will last.
 

Reverend Funk

Comfy Penetration
Did you go "ching-chang-chong" in front of a group of Asians because I remember someone doing that in high school.
It was one of the kanye west parody songs I don't really remember how it went but as a white kid I was definitely out of my limits
 
As a white guy, I actually do the same thing. I get annoyed with people I perceive as 'generic white straight dudes' even though I am one.

too much internet, maybe?

Lmao.

The black nerd is a hard life, man. Rejection from all sides! Well this was before geeky stuff was cool.

I don't think this thread will last.

My first exposure to black people was with the tv show, Family Matters. I think urkel served as a good counter to Black stereotypes.
 

neojubei

Will drop pants for Sony.
Did you go "ching-chang-chong" in front of a group of Asians because I remember someone doing that in high school.

I remember when i was in junior high i was in a fight with 2 black kids who were picking on a Vietnamese kid. I think i was suspended for a week and my mother had to come to the school and pick me up.
 

Captain Pants

Killed by a goddamned Dredgeling
too much internet, maybe?
It's more of a too much TV thing. Like this season's Masterchef had this frat bro guy on it that seemed like a walking cliche of white dudeness, and I just couldn't stand him. I think I'm bored of what I think of as white/straight culture after so many years of watching it and living in it. That's maybe mixed in with a bit of passive aggressive nerdrage aimed at jock type people and being poor and annoyed with people who seem to be better off than me. Ha! I feel like I've been hit up with some sodium pentothol. Time to stop talking.
 

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
Lmao.

The black nerd is a hard life, man. Rejection from all sides! Well this was before geeky stuff was cool.

I don't think this thread will last.

I'm thinking 12 hours, but that's hopeful. If it gets to 24 I'll be shocked.
 
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