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There are too many shows starring neurotic white guys

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All you need to know about The Grinder

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It was one of my favorites, then it got canceled.
 
and 30 something dating shows.. I can't watch these things.. too uncomfortable
I watched S1 but couldn't even get past the first ep of S2.

Gus is already really difficult to look at but his personality makes it unendurable.

I've never seen it but how did that goofy looking dude land Gillian jacobs.. or is that not part of it
 

Serpico99

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If it hasn't been mentioned in this thread because it's an obvious trend, the "nerd" "beta" or however you label the trope has replaced the funny fat middle class husband (King of Queens). The only constant is the woman who is way out of his league. Fantasy...
 

Grizzlyjin

Supersonic, idiotic, disconnecting, not respecting, who would really ever wanna go and top that
I have a really hard time trying to come up with a male sitcom lead that wasn't annoying/whiny/jerk/insecure and jerk because of it.

There aren't many. But we always have...

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I think that's why Fresh Prince has endured with audiences for so long. Will is actually overconfident but he's still a nice guy trying to make his way in a new environment. Right off the bat he's a complete outsider that uses what he knows to help out the people around him. And even though the supporting cast all have quirks, they're still just put together people. I think a lot of writers would be tempted to play up the wackiness there and have Will be the dopey straight man. But instead it just lets the culture shock do the walking. The 90s were Black sitcom nirvana. What happened, man?
 

IISANDERII

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Usually I'm against the arbitrary trashing of "white males" as practiced by some corners on the internet, but this is a thing I've been seeing way too often on TV shows.

Santa Clariat Diet
Trial and Error
Dirk Gently
The Grinder (which was cancelled before its time)
Love

And those are just newer shows I've been trying to watch recently, look at TV history to see way more. Watching the first 2 back to back is grating as hell. Listening to Olyphant in SCD, and then watching the main lawyer from Trial and Lawyer play the exact same character in a different setting is annoying.

There's too many of these white guys who are super squeamish, whine about everything, and then gather confidence to do something super ballsy out of nowhere which impresses their standoffish female love interest, only to return to being whiny weirdos. The worst part about them is that they seem so much like author self-inserts, probably the creator directing his fantasies and making them into a TV show.

And I'm not saying these shows are bad. I enjoyed SCD, and The Grinder should have never been canceled, but holy shit tv writers, find another type of character to centre your shows around. We don't need the same awkwardly talkative white dude whining about his non-problems every two seconds.

If this topic offended you, I'm sorry. I just feel like I've had it. Watching the first 2 eps of Trial and Error, and the main character is making me so mad. I've seen him a million times before, enough is enough! Find new ways to write this character. The Good Place did it with Chidi (I can't say more without giving it away), other shows can too.
I really enjoy LOVE but I don't think I could watch another show like that.
 

Shredderi

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There aren't many. But we always have...

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I think that's why Fresh Prince has endured with audiences for so long. Will is actually overconfident but he's still a nice guy trying to make his way in a new environment. Right off the bat he's a complete outsider that uses what he knows to help out the people around him. And even though the supporting cast all have quirks, they're still just put together people. I think a lot of writers would be tempted to play up the wackiness there and have Will be the dopey straight man. But instead it just lets the culture shock do the walking. The 90s were Black sitcom nirvana. What happened, man?

Yeah that's a good example. I love that show.
 
Maybe. I should try to be open to criticisms I don't see myself though.

What's really the difference from this post and someone else saying "There are too many shows/movies starring heroic white guys?"


It is the over saturation of white guys is mass media presented as the default human being the problem, or you just don't like all the shows that have white guys being portrayed as less than traditionally masculine but are cool with all the media that presents white guys as the main people who have their stories of truimping over adversity told again and again and again?

My point is, people don't randomly "trash" white males. It's that we live in a world where white maleness in mass media is presented as better than everyone else and lots of people that comprise of everyone else can & do call bullshit on it.
 

Goro Majima

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I have a really hard time trying to come up with a male sitcom lead that wasn't annoying/whiny/jerk/insecure and jerk because of it.

Ted Mosby is my most hated sitcom character of all time.

Jim Halpert is a close second.

You might be onto something here. They're also both giant condescending assholes.
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
A lot of people who watch TV are neurotic white guys.
 

Goodstyle

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What's really the difference from this post and someone else saying "There are too many shows/movies starring heroic white guys?"


It is the over saturation of white guys is mass media presented as the default human being the problem, or you just don't like all the shows that have white guys being portrayed as less than traditionally masculine but are cool with all the media that presents white guys as the main people who have their stories of truimping over adversity told again and again and again?

My point is, people don't randomly "trash" white males. It's that we live in a world where white maleness in mass media is presented as better than everyone else and lots of people that comprise of everyone else can & do call bullshit on it.

I think you're assuming a lot about me.

I also misinterpreted your initial point. I thought you felt my post about too many white neurotic guys was an arbitrary criticism because there is no merit to pointing out too many white people in TV, but it seems like your problem is that I wasn't broad enough... which, fair.

And I agree with your second point, white people (not just men) are over represented in media. Part of why I love Chidi so much in The Good Place is because he's a nerdy black guy like myself, AND he's well-written which is a shockingly rare combination. Seeing representation matters, I get that. My point about randomly "trashing" white males has more to do with a certain type of criticism that has grown a lot recently that takes an extreme stance on a nuanced issue like this one without elaborating on it. I wanted to qualify my thread by saying I didn't think white actors shouldn't be allowed to play certain characters, but that there are too many of them.

I didn't want to offend one crowd of posters, but in my effort to do that, I feel like I offended you. I'm sorry for that.
 

AlexBasch

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There aren't many. But we always have...

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I think that's why Fresh Prince has endured with audiences for so long. Will is actually overconfident but he's still a nice guy trying to make his way in a new environment. Right off the bat he's a complete outsider that uses what he knows to help out the people around him. And even though the supporting cast all have quirks, they're still just put together people. I think a lot of writers would be tempted to play up the wackiness there and have Will be the dopey straight man. But instead it just lets the culture shock do the walking. The 90s were Black sitcom nirvana. What happened, man?
Whenever he gets serious it wasn't cheesy either. Loved the show as a kid but I'm understanding it a lot better now as an adult.

Ted Mosby is my most hated sitcom character of all time.
Same. He's so fucking creepy too.
 
I think you're assuming a lot about me.

I also misinterpreted your initial point. I thought you felt my post about too many white neurotic guys was an arbitrary criticism because there is no merit to pointing out too many white people in TV, but it seems like your problem is that I wasn't broad enough... which, fair.

And I agree with your second point, white people (not just men) are over represented in media. Part of why I love Chidi so much in The Good Place is because he's a nerdy black guy like myself, AND he's well-written which is a shockingly rare combination. Seeing representation matters, I get that. My point about randomly "trashing" white males has more to do with a certain type of criticism that has grown a lot recently that takes an extreme stance on a nuanced issue like this one without elaborating on it. I wanted to qualify my thread by saying I didn't think white actors shouldn't be allowed to play certain characters, but that there are too many of them.

I didn't want to offend one crowd of posters, but in my effort to do that, I feel like I offended you. I'm sorry for that.

The only thing I disagreed with in the OP is the "arbitrary bashing of white males from certain corners of the internet" thing, whereas I'm sure someone could take this post as just that. That line made me think you probably think "everyone is dumping on white guys these days, what's up with that?" Like out of the blue people just decided to hate on white guys
 

G0523

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It's mainly because the shows are written by neurotic white guys. I understand that the best material comes from writing what you know but I am totally there with you about there being too many neurotic white guys on TV, OP.

I still enjoy Love and Silicon Valley but holy shit do the leads on those shows just make me cringe every time they speak. But I understand, that's their "thing," it's just that TV shows need a new thing. Hopefully it'll pass but it's a good go-to character since it's based on one (or many) of the writing staff.
 

Goodstyle

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The only thing I disagreed with in the OP is the "arbitrary bashing of white males from certain corners of the internet" thing, whereas I'm sure someone could take this post as just that. That line made me think you probably think "everyone is dumping on white guys these days, what's up with that?" Like out of the blue people just decided to hate on white guys

Oh, fuck no. I really dislike it when people do that. White victimhood is a pet peeve of mine. I just didn't want people to accuse me of being intellectually lazy. It's bad that there's too many white characters in TV, but I wanted to go further and say that it leads to very similar, repetitive characters. I stated that this is an issue with "author self-insert" because I wanted to make the point that TV writers are disproportionately white.
 
The majority of TV writers are neurotic white guys, and the first rule of writing is write what you know.
I'm gonna respond to this one, though lots of others have said it. The problem isn't starting with the idea of writing what you know. The problem comes with assuming it's fresh and new forever (or, on the other side, standard, which is its own problem).

But until writers rooms diversify more it'll probably stay this way.
 
I think there was a "shift" in sitcoms from focusing on dumb middle-age family men to neurotic white guys after the success of Seinfield and Frasier. Except you're supposed to see the neurotic guy as sympathetic in these shows, whereas in Seinfeld and Frasier you were supposed to see them as unrelatable weirdos (although Frasier made them a bit more likeable).

Monk was a great show though.
 

Goodstyle

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I'm not sure I agree with Santa Clarita Diet. I mean the Star is Drew Barrymore who...unless I'm mistaken isn't a guy.

She is the star, but the point of view character is her husband. Most of the show and its storylines revolve around his reaction/adjustment to Barrymore. Olyphant dominated the show despite the fact that Barrymore was the one that went through a crazy change.
 

Chumley

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and 30 something dating shows.. I can't watch these things.. too uncomfortable


I've never seen it but how did that goofy looking dude land Gillian jacobs.. or is that not part of it

Girls fawn all over him, he doesn't just get Gillian Jacobs, he gets a ridiculously hot side girl and propositioned by 2 twins for a threesome. His looks were never brought up in S1.

It's kind of like the lack of awareness with Woody Allen always getting beautiful women in his films only multiplied.
 
Before you blame TV writers you best believe there are marching orders delivered from on high.

There's too much media in general about neurotic whining white people but there is an obscenely large market for 'kitchen sink dramas and comedies'. Like, what's so fucking funny about office life anywhere? Oh that's right, a large portion of the consuming public works in an office.

I think there was a "shift" in sitcoms from focusing on dumb middle-age family men to neurotic white guys after the success of Seinfield and Frasier. Except you're supposed to see the neurotic guy as sympathetic in these shows, whereas in Seinfeld and Frasier you were supposed to see them as unrelatable weirdos (although Frasier made them a bit more likeable).

Monk was a great show though.
Good way of looking at it too. I wonder where the success of reality programs in the 00's factors in as well.
 
Before you blame TV writers you best believe there are marching orders delivered from on high.

There's too much media in general about neurotic whining white people but there is an obscenely large market for 'kitchen sink dramas and comedies'. Like, what's so fucking funny about office life anywhere? Oh that's right, a large portion of the consuming public works in an office.


Good way of looking at it too. I wonder where the success of reality programs in the 00's factors in as well.

It's such a chicken-and-egg problem, though. The money would rather bank on proven concepts so we get stale, recycled shit because it's less risky and then people watch it because it's mindless so we get more stale, recycled shit... better shows are a risk, but once something more unique takes off, we get knockoffs so it turns into stale, recycled shit...
 

Sunster

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Powerless is the first show I've seen staring a non white guy as the neurotic male lead. So that's cool. Too bad it's not good.
 
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