Atramental
Banned
*watches steamy Queen music video*
What are you trying to pull here, Suairyu?
What are you trying to pull here, Suairyu?
Some of these success stories aren't necessarily about the program but more about getting yourself out of the house. The 90 days is for guys that got serious problems like ED. If you are healthy then just stop now and get out there.
This - a placebo? Why I never!
Still going through with it though. Some habits can be cut back.
Not a placebo and not just about ED. There are many symptoms this can help with.placebo or not, the feeling you get from not fapping for a while is AMAZING
I am merely the shepherd trying to herd his flock to a better tomorrow.*watches steamy Queen music video*
What are you trying to pull here, Suairyu?
I mean, hormones are a real thing, guys, for a start, and the chemical science of addiction isn't exactly a mystery either.
I am merely the shepherd trying to herd his flock to a better tomorrow.
Oh cool, another guy who hasn't read the OP or thread commenting on this. I get so lonely when you types aren't around.Chemical dependency is a real thing which is why we know that you can't be "addicted" to porn bar some psychological habit formation. All the issues that the challenge addresses is basically cutting back on over-stimulation that'll leave your hormones at lower levels when the actual sex starts.
Oh cool, another guy who hasn't read the OP or thread commenting on this. I get so lonely when you types aren't around.
You're not becoming addicted to porn per-se, you're becoming addicted to the dopamine (surprisingly, a chemical!) rush you get in your brain whenever you crave and look at porn. It's very real and not just a mental thing.
It's physiological, not psychological.
don't be that guy
don't be that guy
Does failure mean a complete reset?
I've caved twice so far (day 3 of my first attempt and day 8 of my second one), but both times it's been without porn and without visualising anything. Does each failure mean a complete restart at day 1, or will it just slow the process down?
Yep. You can't fap to it or look at it without fapping.Does porn we made with the person we are sleeping with count?!??!
Does porn we made with the person we are sleeping with count?!??!
This is one of those masturbation is bad and you should feel bad for doing it things?
Does failure mean a complete reset?
I've caved twice so far (day 3 of my first attempt and day 8 of my second one), but both times it's been without porn and without visualising anything. Does each failure mean a complete restart at day 1, or will it just slow the process down?
I'd personally advise a more "Fall off the wagon? Get back on the wagon." approach. No need to start all over just because you jacked off once. Add an extra 10 days to your target goal or something.If you viewed porn. You reset. The 90 challenge is to stay COMPLETELY away from porn. No masturbating to it, viewing it or having an orgasm to it. Stay away from it. You can have sex with your partner however.
Yes. Why wouldn't it?Does porn we made with the person we are sleeping with count?!??!
I'd personally advise a more "Fall off the wagon? Get back on the wagon." approach. No need to start all over just because you jacked off once. Add an extra 10 days to your target goal or something.
But twice in less than two weeks? Yeah, that's just you not even trying.
Yes. Why wouldn't it?
Goddamnit, people. Why do you keep making this all convoluted? This is really, really simple stuff. 2+2=4 kind of simple.
Originally made it 3 days when I first started. Then it was four days.
......I'm up to about 4 days again. I'm determined this time though. Especially because I'm pretty sure at this point that my last relapse is what drained my motivation to hook up with this girl that literally looks like Jessica Alba who texted me Saturday night to come over late late saturday night - or i guess sunday morning......... Still kicking myself for that one.
No, don't even look at it. Change your internet travels. Stop fucking this up.No porn is getting hard cause... I never realized how often it seems to pop up in my internet travels.
But not doing anything to porn, I think I can manage. Third time's the charm and all that jazz.
No, don't even look at it. Change your internet travels. Stop fucking this up.
You're being all, "Man, this success thing is really tough; I think I'll make it so I'm going to fail instead."
I'm just going to pretend the real kool-aid man is participating in this thread.
"O-H-H-H Y-E-E-A-H!" Stop kool-aid man! Stop abusing yourself, I say!
The no porn is pretty managable, the no fapping is to hard, caved in last night , i've been to much exposed to insane hot woman is short skirts the last couple of days.
So then why don't you talk to these "hot" woman?
Porn is the voice killer.
Procrastination (in this case) leads to masturbation. He will be missing out on soooooo many opportunities. Masturbation/pornography is nothing like the real thing.
So then why don't you talk to these "hot" woman?
Just saying. I would rather use my sexual energy trying to flirt with these "hot" ladies. Than staying home beating off. I'm not saying your doing that but just saying that's a better alternative.When did i say i didn't?
Just saying. I would rather use my sexual energy trying to flirt with these "hot" ladies. Than staying home beating off. I'm not saying your doing that but just saying that's a better alternative.
Just saying. I would rather use my sexual energy trying to flirt with these "hot" ladies. Than staying home beating off. I'm not saying your doing that but just saying that's a better alternative.