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Time magazine Millennials: The Me Me Me Generation

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Liberty4all

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We had a separate line too. I was pretty into BBS's back in the day. Shoutouts to spending all night downloading the demo of Raptor and later saving it to my 200MB tape drive. Also, since I was born in 1981 I classify as a millenial, lol.



Yeah, my wife is disabled so she never brings in any money. A lot of my income goes to health-related stuff for her. I make very decent money for my area, but a lot of the time it just feels like I don't make anything at all. My house payment isn't huge, and my car is paid for, but by golly that money is disappearing into a black hole somewhere.

student loan payments, utilities, mobile, internet, mortgage/rent, car payment, insurance (house, auto, life) groceries, credit car debt, clothes, entertainment ... It adds up man no matter what you make, I totally understand.
 

Redford

aka Cabbie
This.

In any case, I'd rather be a selfish millennial than a baby-boomer who's generation single-handedly destroyed the world (they're not all dead yet - give them time).

And casually racist. My parents and people their age still make me cringe sometimes
 

Davey Cakes

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And casually racist. My parents and people their age still make me cringe sometimes
Yeah. My parents aren't bad people but they can be very judgmental, racist, and in my dad's case, sexist.

Say what you want about Millenials, especially the douchebag part of our generation. At least we're growing up in a world where the concepts of tolerance and equality are less alien than ever.
 

Perkel

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Nah old people are just jealous that young generation have more possibilities and easier life that they had at their age.

When they lived they didn't even had proper TV and if they wanted to phone someone they payed more than dolla for minute.

I would be pretty much pissed too if my kids would have ferrari in garage and worked on that a one life less (not that i have one :)).

IMO each new generation of people are better. Just 50 years ago hate toward race was common. Their kids generation will probably learn at school that there were people xx years ago that hated each other because they were different.
 
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Edit: Sorry, didn't want to make the impression I made it, I just found it somewhere else.
That about sums it up perfectly
 

FLEABttn

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the willingness to take a prestigious job for shitty pay ..

I understand why to some extent, but I hate that. A company contacted me through linkedin (unprompted) to do what I do now but basically at a managerial level (combined with what I do now, plus two other functions). It was a clear step up from what I was doing that would have given me a lot of prestige and visibility.

So when they asked me what I wanted my salary to be, I asked for 10% above the appropriate amount under the assumption they would counter with the appropriate amount (I have access to a database that tells me what the "appropriate" amount was). Their counter-offer, however, was "Why don't you make another offer, but lower". After enough dialogue with them, I found out they were looking to pay someone ~$7k below the market salary, figuring I'd undervalue myself because I was young; the guy who would have been my manager was insulted I didn't.

Fuck off, guy.
 
Damn you selfish Millenials. Why'd you vote for that selfish socialist Obama? You should've voted for an egalitarian like Ronald Reagan. Unless we're talking about The Greatest Generation who could've even be arsed to let black people into their schools.
 

relaxor

what?
Don't forget Thoreau's words, and I'm paraphrasing here, "Old people are always stupid".

"entitled" is one of the words I'm starting to really loathe considering the kind of people who use it.

Yes I'm always amazed they don't see the irony of calling the young entitled as they sit in their thrones of Entitlements and refuse to retire.
 
Damn you selfish Millenials. Why'd you vote for that selfish socialist Obama? You should've voted for an egalitarian like Ronald Reagan. Unless we're talking about The Greatest Generation who could've even be arsed to let black people into their schools.

hence the "why they will save us all" part of the cover ;)
 
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The wealth redistribution to the older Americans is sickening and documented. The boomers moan about working harder, but why would we do that when they would just get more money? And then when Occupy Wall Street. started, they had the nerve to proclaim the Occupiers didn't want to work. I'm so sick of the AARP crowd. I live in a state with pretty low unemployment, I imagine it must be pretty rough in most of the country. I really have no idea what we can do. I just don't see how it can continue like this without a nasty correction.
 
Because it's a burden on your parents and you don't (generally) experience the hardships that are part and parcel of being an adult (paying your own bills, being responsible for your own housing, food, etc.)?

I'm not saying it's a terrible thing to live with your parents, especially when the climate is so bad like now, but it's always seemed like clinging to a safety net and not making your own way to me. I personally find it weird.

You seem to be under the assumption that those who live with their parents don't contribute. Some probably do not, I'm sure. But living with family does not necessitate being a mooch.
 

Ikael

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I could technically being included into the millenial generation (born in 1983), and that being said, I kinda agree with the article. Millenials got the same selfish attitude as baby boomers, only main difference being that we are reaping the downfall of their economic model.

Also, one's gotta love how for how much weight gaf tends to put on scientific evidence on its arguments (rightly so), when said scientific facts screws with our world's visión they tend to be prolly ignored. While there are numbers in the article which can be easily attributed to other external factors such as this hugeass economic depression, which kind of justification do we have for the ones regarding the higher narcissism, then again? I don't think that it is a minor issue, considering that a big part of the personal and social problems have to do with the ego.
 

IceCold

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You seem to be under the assumption that those who live with their parents don't contribute. Some probably do not, I'm sure. But living with family does not necessitate being a mooch.

Not just that but how can it be a burden for parents to have their kids home? Not all parents want their kids out once they are 18.
 
You seem to be under the assumption that those who live with their parents don't contribute. Some probably do not, I'm sure. But living with family does not necessitate being a mooch.

As I said to SRG01, that hasn't been my experience. Obviously some do help out, but even so, the idea of living with one's parents and not making your own way is something I just find personally weird. I don't think everyone who is living at home still is a mooch, but I do feel like they're not experiencing some pretty important life lessons. Who's to say which is better? I don't know. I just find it weird to want to stay at home. Forever childhood.
 
Question, has anybody else here follow the path of dropping out of high school and working instead?
I dropped out of High school in grade 11, and honestly life has been a cake walk. I picked up a trade well (3 trades) and at this point in my life I`m fairly confident that I could go to almost any country and find work (barring any language barriers). I also moved out at 16.
 
As I said to SRG01, that hasn't been my experience. Obviously some do help out, but even so, the idea of living with one's parents and not making your own way is something I just find personally weird. I don't think everyone who is living at home still is a mooch, but I do feel like they're not experiencing some pretty important life lessons. Who's to say which is better? I don't know. I just find it weird to want to stay at home. Forever childhood.

Meh, who even cares? I for one would have loved for a second to live safely and securely under my parents until I was able to man up and move out. Makes life way easier.
 

RDreamer

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I could technically being included into the millenial generation (born in 1983), and that being said, I kinda agree with the article. Millenials got the same selfish attitude as baby boomers, only main difference being that we are reaping the downfall of their economic model.

Also, one's gotta love how for how much weight gaf tends to put on scientific evidence on its arguments (rightly so), when said scientific facts screws with our world's visión they tend to be prolly ignored. While there are numbers in the article which can be easily attributed to other external factors such as this hugeass economic depression, which kind of justification do we have for the ones regarding the higher narcissism, then again? I don't think that it is a minor issue, considering that a big part of the personal and social problems have to do with the ego.

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About that. There is another paper over at NIH.gov that argues that that is kind of maybe completely wrong. In a 2010 paper published in Perspectives on Psychological Science and titled "It Is Developmental Me, Not Generation Me," Brent W. Roberts. Grant Edmonds, and Emily Grijalva write:

"First, we show that when new data on narcissism are folded into preexisting meta-analytic data, there is no increase in narcissism in college students over the last few decades. Second, we show, in contrast, that age changes in narcissism are both replicable and comparatively large in comparison to generational changes in narcissism."

Basically, it's not that people born after 1980 are narcissists, it's that young people are narcissists, and they get over themselves as they get older. It's like doing a study of toddlers and declaring those born since 2010 are Generation Sociopath: Kids These Days Will Pull Your Hair, Pee On Walls, Throw Full Bowls of Cereal Without Even Thinking of the Consequences. Further, they write:

"In turn, when older people are told that younger people are getting increasingly narcissistic, they may be prone to agree because they confuse the claim for generational change with the fact that younger people are simply more narcissistic than they are. The confusion leads to an increased likelihood that older individuals will agree with the Generation Me argument despite its lack of empirical support."
 
Question, has anybody else here follow the path of dropping out of high school and working instead?
I dropped out of High school in grade 11, and honestly life has been a cake walk. I picked up a trade well (3 trades) and at this point in my life I`m fairly confident that I could go to almost any country and find work (barring any language barriers). I also moved out at 16.

While I didn't drop out of highschool I wish I could go back and stop myself from going to a university. Lifetime of debt, only to be stuck at the same type of shitty jobs I could have got right out of highschool.

It's hard to come to grips with the fact that I will never retire all because I had the audacity to try to better myself.
 
Question, has anybody else here follow the path of dropping out of high school and working instead?
I dropped out of High school in grade 11, and honestly life has been a cake walk. I picked up a trade well (3 trades) and at this point in my life I`m fairly confident that I could go to almost any country and find work (barring any language barriers). I also moved out at 16.

^I've seen this route work out REALLY well for those I know who took it. I won't say going to college is a waste (some of the best years of my life), but those who entered a trade early are the ones I see really raking in the bucks, and they don't have the same crushing debt as many college grads do.


Meh, who even cares? I for one would have loved for a second to live safely and securely under my parents until I was able to man up and move out. Makes life way easier.

I guess I just like doing things the hard way. :) But, what works for one doesn't mean it works for another. Believe me, I understand that. If people are happy and satisfied, then that's all that really matters. *shrug*
 

Ponn

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I sort of agree. I'm of course not talking in absolutes but I see alot more

1) I do what I want and its America, YOU deal with it

2) My kids do what they want and i'm busy on the phone, YOU deal with it

3) In my new jobs training class I was astounded by the amount of people that would keep leaving the room to check their cell phones. You're not that damn important.

4) Fuck the old people, stop taking my paycheck money for Social Security and Medicare I can manage my money better then the government...contribute to 401k? screw that I need my money to party this weekend.

5) Twitter/Facebook - LOOK AT ME! I can't count how many pictures my nephew has been posting of himself working out this last couple weeks.
 
As I said to SRG01, that hasn't been my experience. Obviously some do help out, but even so, the idea of living with one's parents and not making your own way is something I just find personally weird. I don't think everyone who is living at home still is a mooch, but I do feel like they're not experiencing some pretty important life lessons. Who's to say which is better? I don't know. I just find it weird to want to stay at home. Forever childhood.

Again, in other countries I thought staying with the family was considered normal. Humans aren't birds either from an evolutionary standpoint either. Having to leave the nest as a mark of adulthood is cultural.

1) I do what I want and its America, YOU deal with it

Hasn't this always been an aspect of American culture? And it has been so dearly loved by modern Conservatives and other members of the right.

Question, has anybody else here follow the path of dropping out of high school and working instead?
I dropped out of High school in grade 11, and honestly life has been a cake walk. I picked up a trade well (3 trades) and at this point in my life I`m fairly confident that I could go to almost any country and find work (barring any language barriers). I also moved out at 16.

College is largely a "scam" as far as most people end up doing work unrelated to their degree, but need the degree to look competitive. And high school education in the US is awful. I recall reading an article that claimed if you weren't planning on going to college you might as well drop out of high school because there's almost no pay difference between those with and without a high school diploma.
 
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The wealth redistribution to the older Americans is sickening and documented. The boomers moan about working harder, but why would we do that when they would just get more money? And then when Occupy Wall Street. started, they had the nerve to proclaim the Occupiers didn't want to work. I'm so sick of the AARP crowd. I live in a state with pretty low unemployment, I imagine it must be pretty rough in most of the country. I really have no idea what we can do. I just don't see how it can continue like this without a nasty correction.

The Boomers are amazing.

When they were in their 20s they wanted America to become Socialist or even Communist because they wanted as much money as possible with little work. When they were in their 40s they wanted to go neoconservative so they could pay as little taxes as possible and buy fancy toys. Now that they are in their 60s the want to have the government spend everything on them with while leaving scraps for everyone else. Fuck them.
 
The Boomers are amazing.

When they were in their 20s they wanted America to become Socialist or even Communist because they wanted as much money as possible with little work. When they were in their 40s they wanted to go neoconservative so they could pay as little taxes as possible and buy fancy toys. Now that they are in their 60s the want to have the government spend everything on them with while leaving scraps for everyone else. Fuck them.

ummm...isnt that the kinda the path the latest generation wants?
 
Again, in other countries I thought staying with the family was considered normal. Humans aren't birds either from an evolutionary standpoint either. Having to leave the nest as a mark of adulthood is cultural.



Hasn't this always been an aspect of American culture? And it has been so dearly loved by modern Conservatives and other members of the right.

But we're discussing an article specific to the US and the reaction stemming from that. Obviously the cultural norm is different in other countries.
 

TheSeks

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Holy fuck at that graph.

[quote=Burrito]College is largely a "scam" as far as most people end up doing work unrelated to their degree, but need the degree to look competitive. And high school education in the US is awful. I recall reading an article that claimed if you weren't planning on going to college you might as well drop out of high school because there's almost no pay difference between those with and without a high school diploma.[/quote]

Article is wrong. There's a small jump (read "SMALL" but still significant) in terms of pay with no GED/HS Diploma versus GED/HSD then it jumps from there to AA, BA's, PhD's, etc. The fact of the matter is, the minimum wage to live with for non-GED and with GED/HSD's is so low to where most people [i]have[/i] to get a degree to even get a wage that's liveable on.

This doesn't mean EVERYONE needs to do it because if you "hack your education"/self-learn enough and have the skillset to do that you can get hired at some places with just your skills/experience alone. Problem is, most people don't have that.
 
All these pissed off posts from people in their 20s is hilarious.

If you want to play this game, then who can speak about this issue without bias?

ummm...isnt that the kinda the path the latest generation wants?

I really think this is what anyone wants for the most part. It is rare that an individual would take the path of most resistance to get what they want. Nearly everyone looks for the path of least resistance.
 

bonercop

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Millennials automatically win over previous generations by being less racist, sexist and homophobic.


I don't get why living with parents is even looked at as shameful. Living close to family or with family is something that people in many less affluent countries do, but I don't think it is something that should only be done by the poor.

It's a uniquely American hang-up. It's weird.
 

Davey Cakes

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^I've seen this route work out REALLY well for those I know who took it. I won't say going to college is a waste (some of the best years of my life), but those who entered a trade early are the ones I see really raking in the bucks, and they don't have the same crushing debt as many college grads do.
To be honest I REALLY wish I took the "no college" route and went into a trade early.

Obviously, hindsight is 20/20. At the time I was naive and I thought I wanted to live the college life and gain a higher education. My parents also had no objections, and if anything wanted to see me go to college. So, I did, and I also chose the second most expensive one that I got into because I wanted to go to a higher quality college with a better name.

If I knew how my perspective would change over the next six years or so, I would have stopped myself. We have to take context into consideration though; ever since I got out of high school I had the idea implanted in my head that you need a degree to succeed. It's actually true in the sense that certain jobs require degrees now, even ones that aren't related to education at all. However, I at least wish I explored the alternatives first.

The idea of learning a skill, working full time, and making money right out of high school makes me drool. Education or not, starting early without a lick of debt would have been nice (if it actually worked out, anyway).
 
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