starchild excalibur
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If so, how is the marriage going? I've been dating my first girlfriend for going on 3 years now and it's been pretty smooth sailing. While we've both talked about how neither of us plan to get married (in general) any time soon, I've always kind of wondered whether my lack of dating experience would be something that I'd wonder about if we did end up getting married.
She's a wonderful person and I have absolutely no desire to break up with her just to try dating other women, but there's definitely a part of me that wishes I'd had met her after experiencing a couple of breakups first. I know I lucked out with her, but never having been in relationships that were more trying or problematic makes me feel like I've skipped something in a way.
For those of you who married their first boy/girlfriend, was the "What else is out there?" feeling ever get to you? Was it ever a consideration? Just wondering.
edit: I'm currently 29. So, not a high school / college dating situation or anything.
She's a wonderful person and I have absolutely no desire to break up with her just to try dating other women, but there's definitely a part of me that wishes I'd had met her after experiencing a couple of breakups first. I know I lucked out with her, but never having been in relationships that were more trying or problematic makes me feel like I've skipped something in a way.
For those of you who married their first boy/girlfriend, was the "What else is out there?" feeling ever get to you? Was it ever a consideration? Just wondering.
edit: I'm currently 29. So, not a high school / college dating situation or anything.