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Are you "Internet Sexual"? Great article about Chaturbate (NSFW?)

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Just finished reading this long article written by a woman who used the site for "research" for some time and interviewed people on it. I found it both fascinating and funny, and I want to share some select paragraphs below.

Full article at the link (NSFW images): https://medium.com/matter/are-you-internet-sexual-1f855e113df

For the first few weeks after I started watching Chaturbate, these were some of the people I watched. Chaturbate is a live webcam site that launched in 2011. It distinguishes itself from the many other live webcam sites by its democratic approach. It is free to watch — really free, as in no logging in or setting up passwords — and open to everyone of legal age. Its tabs offer “Females,” “Males,” “Couples,” “Groups,” and “Transsexuals.” To start broadcasting, a person has only to register a name and beam herself to the world, eating Chipotle. Total sexual anarchy is forestalled by a zealous volunteer police force of users, who operate along the lines of Wikipedia moderators, reporting and shutting down any performers who look suspiciously underage or who break one of Chaturbate’s few rules — the usual bans on violence, animals, and excrement.
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Chaturbate first revealed its potential to be something I had not seen before the morning I watched a 27-year-old woman named “Elisa Death Naked” broadcast from a house in Iceland with glass bricks, a spiral staircase, warm-looking patterned rugs, and a cozy fire crackling in the fireplace. She did not reveal her face, and instead wore, at the beginning of her striptease, a rubber horse mask with a fedora on top, along with a gray crop top, black sweatpants, and rainbow knee socks. Her primary props were a chair painted with a replica of the Mona Lisa and a strap-on dildo. Maybe it was just the house that she was in or her high-definition camera, but even faceless she gleamed with the well-being that emanates wherever per-capita consumption of fish oils is high and citizens benefit from socialized health care. Her sex show, however, was strange.
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Chaturbate was aserendipitous experience — I came across people like Edith and Elisa Death Naked by chance, and sometimes I would never see them again. Some performers would schedule shows—one woman had a cooking show, a sex and cooking show, every Friday—but most didn’t. You weren’t supposed to record anything, although of course people did, and the porn tubes were filled with videos ripped from Chaturbate’s streams. Still, the feeling of clicking through the 18+ disclaimer into the opening matrix was the one of turning on MTV in the mid-1990s, when music videos played most of the day and kept viewers captive in the anticipation of a favorite performer or a new discovery. Or maybe, to reach farther back in time, it recalled the early days of the internet — the internet of strangers rather than “friends.” The earliest chat rooms on CompuServe, back in the early 1980s, had been called “CB,” in honor of the communicative free-for-all of CB radio. Here Chaturbate had revived the form, with the same initials, and the same cacophony of ingenuity and perversion.
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When Max and Harper get frustrated with their off-the-grid life, they usually evoke the specter of OfficeMax. Or sometimes, after a particularly enthusiastic session of sex on camera, they might high-five, and one will ask the other, “Want to quit and go work at OfficeMax?” The joke is about all that’s wrong in the world, to Harper and Max: big-box stores in concrete lots, the drudgery of the dead-end hourly wage, beige filing cabinets, obedience, the myth that hard work for a multinational corporation will be rewarded in any significant way.

Chaturbate was a sexual story, but it was also an economic one. The site offers a very clear picture of a society where wages are so low that they are no longer worth striving for, where ambitious young people cannot advance their educations without going into debt, and where the misfortune of illness results in financial catastrophe. For the people in phases of their lives where they had to serve as a caretaker to an ill partner or relative, the sex work offered flexibility, even if their earnings were often unpredictable or paltry. Other people I interviewed, like a woman from upstate New York who went by the username of JingleTits, were in their early 20s and saw themselves in an intermediary phase between high school and a hoped-for future in college. It was frustrating to be told of their concrete career ambitions and the extreme financial challenges they faced in achieving them simply because their families were unable to assist them with the exorbitant cost of higher education. Those young people who had gotten college educations found themselves questioning the worth of their degrees, and their attitude toward sex camming seemed to come from a kind of nihilism: Masturbating on camera for money was less humiliating and offered more opportunities for meaningful and creative endeavor than the jobs they saw as available to them.
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Chaturbate, meanwhile, changed its rules. Public sex — a mainstay for Harper and Max, who broadcast from hayfields and rest stops, from McDonald’s, Starbucks, Walmart, and even a McDonald’s inside of a Walmart — is no longer allowed. Tired of the hustle of Chaturbate, of the unpredictability of tipping, they have found a new income stream, a website called Clips 4 Sale that caters to obscure sexual fetishes. Harper and Max now spend their days recording clips appealing to people with fetishes about women doing things in aprons or ripping off their clothes. Harper has climbed the charts and for a time became the number one belcher on the site. They make foot-fetish videos with Vibram barefoot running sneakers. They live happily on an income that has ranged from $400 to $2,000 a month. Their plan is to buy a bus and eventually a piece of land. They call it “the quest.”
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Some people might look at Max and Harper, or anybody on Chaturbate, and disagree. They might think of clean sheets, a well-made bed, a clearly defined “partner,” and a closed door and think that they know exactly what sex is — loving, maybe; monogamous, probably; dignified by its secrecy; more authentic for not being shared; sacred because it’s not mediated through a cell phone. Spend enough time on Chaturbate and such a view starts to feel both rarified and unambitious.

Some people limit their internet sexuality to the private sphere of sexting or video chats with long-distance lovers. Others choose to meet their virtual partners in a semi-anonymous public forum. When mediated bodies can inhabit the same temporal dimension, the distinct purposes of porn, sex work, casual sex, internet dating, and social networking start to blur. Right now I see being sexual on the internet as a bold and risky form of performance. I anticipate that in the future it will just be thought of as sex.

So, how much of an internet sexual are you GAF? For me personally I'd say I'm probably "moderately internet sexual"; I was sharing my nude pics online as soon as I got my first digital camera as far back as the previous century (640x480 resolution!), I even had some of them "leaked" by someone else on GAF in the forum's early days (and I was unfairly banned for it).

Nowdays I maintain a Flickr and Tumblr accounts where I post carefully selected and edited photos where I use myself as a model in an attempt to create "artistic/erotic" images (I have no problems calling it porn either)
links available upon private request
. I have thousands of followers and receive "fan mail" regularly. More recently I've dabbled in making animated gifs, and I'd like to make videos some day, but I'm not sure if I'll ever be comfortable with live camming. Sounds like a nightmare for the perfectionist/narcissist in me.

How progressive are your views on expressing sexuality? Where do you fall on the Clean-sheet-closed-doors-type vs. full-on Chaturbator like Elisa Death Naked?
 

Cream

Banned
Me, my girlfriend, my bestfriend and her boyfriend have made about $1000 on Chaturbate, through an account we all share.
 

Cream

Banned
Right now I see being sexual on the internet as a bold and risky form of performance. I anticipate that in the future it will just be thought of as sex.

I truly believe this. Privacy is going away.

My best-friend got to the point where anytime she and her boyfriend wanted to fool around she would be like "Hold on, let me turn on chaturbate." They would do all their foreplay, while talking to the people, then get it on.

DING DING DING DING, constant tips. Not a very sexy sound to have in the background :p

But it is super kinky and fun.

Nice. So you guys like have a foursome on cam? Or you and your gf separately from the other couple?

Kind of a little. Playing strip and fuck games for tips was more common. Like, nude ping pong or something.
 

Slayven

Member
Going to watch cams on Chaturabate is like going to the cathouse in the back of the methhouse. There are better sites
 

GamerJM

Banned
cream I'm going to be perfectly honest I'm incredibly jealous of your sex life just judging from comments from the past several days
 

Cream

Banned
cream I'm going to be perfectly honest I'm incredibly jealous of your sex life just judging from comments from the past several days

It's just through the social circle you surround yourself with I guess.

You ask me a year ago if I would want to have sex on camera for the internet, I would tell you to fuck off
 

Symphonia

Banned
I know a girl who makes close to £700 a month doing a few live webcam shows a week. She starts off clothed then, as the tips come in, she loses her clothes. Every now and then, when she gets a big tip, she'll perform a cum show. She enjoys it, her viewers enjoy it - it's win-win.
 
I know a girl who makes close to £700 a month doing a few live webcam shows a week. She starts off clothed then, as the tips come in, she loses her clothes. Every now and then, when she gets a big tip, she'll perform a cum show. She enjoys it, her viewers enjoy it - it's win-win.

Apparently (I learned this from the article), most everyone there links to their Amazon Wish List, so that viewers can buy them stuff from their list instead of tipping, a way to avoid the 50% cut that Chaturbate takes.
 
As much as I think the concept of Chaturbate is kinda cool, the constant DINGing means I can't tolerate it.

It does sour the mood.

Is there no way to turn this dinging off? At the very least the broadcaster shouldn't have to hear it, they're only recording sound and responding to chat messages. Kinda sucks if spectators don't get turning it off as an option though.
 

Servbot24

Banned
Had to go check this out of curiosity

There are some legit beautiful women on there!

Too weird to actually enjoy it or something though, lol

I would honestly totally do this but I doubt there's much market for cock and I'm afraid of someone I know seeing me
 
Chaturbate - some kinda cam porn site?

You think?

I would totally do this but I'm afraid of someone I know seeing me

You don't have to show your face.

So I turned on my camera, made it password-accessible, and gave him the password. I sat there in my bedroom, fully clothed, waving like I was on the deck of a departing cruise, insisting nervously that I was just testing things out. He kept encouraging me to join him in nudity. I refused and apologized. Wendy encouraged me not to apologize — I could remain fully clothed if I wanted to. I was embarrassed to have Wendy and Stoner Boner on the line, but they knew they had taught me to crack some kind of code; they had taught me how to engineer a private and anonymous online sexual encounter, and they giggled wickedly at my embarrassment.

“There’s this freedom, in that you don’t actually have to meet any of these people and they don’t actually know you,” Wendy explained. “You can be whoever you want to be. You can show them any part of yourself that you want. You can be totally open and bare and share everything without having to worry about people rejecting you or you can totally make up a new self and be someone different.”
 

Cream

Banned
Had to go check this out of curiosity

There are some legit beautiful women on there!

Too weird to actually enjoy it or something though, lol

I would honestly totally do this but I doubt there's much market for cock :p

Interesting story.

So my best friend was interested in doing it for the first time, bout a year ago.

She comes to me and my girlfriend who had already done it and was like "Be our directors, show us what to do."

We went into the chatroom the day of, and moderated. You have the ability to check off states and countries that you don't want to see your chatroom. She unchecked our state so we could go in the chatroom.

LITERALLY THE VERY NEXT DAY, her ex boyfriend sent her a message on facebook just saying the username she was using, and called her a dirty slut.
 

Volcane

Member
I sometimes peruse cam sites like Chaturbate or Myfreecams. I've gone into a few private shows.

I don't see anything wrong with it.
 
My ex was a cam girl, I think we might have actually crossed paths online before real life.

We both got that vibe off of each other before we had even talked about it. It was quite electric.
 
I used to chat sex stories when I was younger. I'd be all

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Yeah baby where you gonna throw that ball? WHO IS GONNA MAKE ME SIT. YEAH DAWG.
 
Interesting story.

So my best friend was interested in doing it for the first time, bout a year ago.

She comes to me and my girlfriend who had already done it and was like "Be our directors, show us what to do."

We went into the chatroom the day of, and moderated. You have the ability to check off states and countries that you don't want to see your chatroom. She unchecked our state so we could go in the chatroom.

LITERALLY THE VERY NEXT DAY, her ex boyfriend sent her a message on facebook just saying the username she was using, and called her a dirty slut.
How rude. I didn't send anybody messages when my friend's sister was streaming.
 

Symphonia

Banned
Apparently (I learned this from the article), most everyone there links to their Amazon Wish List, so that viewers can buy them stuff from their list instead of tipping, a way to avoid the 50% cut that Chaturbate takes.
She has people buy her gifts, too, but she makes more money than recieving gifts. Her 'followers' are actually quite loyal to her, and many have got to know her on a 'friend' basis. I should point out it isn't Chaturbate she uses, it's MFC (MyFreeCams) which is similar to Chaturbate in many ways.
 

DJKhaled

Member
i've been trying to get my girlfriend to start using chaturbate with me, i only used it once but i made $3.50 in a 15 fap session and thats just me as a guy, if it was her and me or even just her we could be rolling in the cash.
 

Kisaya

Member
If I were more confident about my body, maybe. Otherwise I've never had the urge to cam up and do anything. Sending nudes to even someone I'm interested in/dating was something I never got into.

Definitely envious of people who can do it and make money off it though.
 

Cream

Banned
i've been trying to get my girlfriend to start using chaturbate with me, i only used it once but i made $3.50 in a 15 fap session and thats just me as a guy, if it was her and me or even just her we could be rolling in the cash.

Yeah I wouldn't advise any guy to solo. The amount of work isn't worth it for so little money.

But if you can get a girl to do it with you, it could really just be your only source of income if you did it daily.
 
Yeah I wouldn't advise any guy to solo. The amount of work isn't worth it for so little money.

But if you can get a girl to do it with you, it could really just be your only source of income if you did it daily.

I fap for free now.

If I made $3.50 for jerking off I would be a big in shit.
 

Cream

Banned
My friend could just have chaturbate on and do whatever, like her hair, makeup, talk to people, and she'll still make some cash.
 

Emerson

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Interesting article but all the stuff trying to make a political point about modern education and jobs was a bit of a reach.
 

totowhoa

Banned
Ha, I've thought about trying this. Don't really need the money but could be cool still.

Definitely have found my best friend's ex masturbating on cam though. She was always sexually open and adventurous so it didn't surprise me
 
Why not try to talk your partner into doing it together? It's more lucartive that way and could add some nice spice to your relationship.
My wife wouldn't go for it and I don't know if I'd want to do it with her anyway. We both really like the fact that we are the only ones who have seen each other fuck and there's still plenty of spice and passion. Maybe things will change in the future though.
 
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