Feeling like shit right now.
So I was on a third date on Saturday with an amazing girl from Tinder. Like seriously, I couldn't imagine a more perfect fit for me. So anyway, the date was going great and I asked her if she'd like to go on another date, but without alcohol involved. She agreed and made plans to go to the cinema on Wednesday.
Anyway, long story short the night progressed and we end up at her place. And as much as I tried I just couldn't get an erection - which of course spurred questions from her, such as 'Are you even attracted to me?', and 'Are you secretly gay'?. This has never happened to me before, and I have no idea what caused it. I don't think I've ever felt this demoralized before. I left in the morning and we talked a bit over whatsapp afterwards but not much.
Should I ask her about the cinema date? I don't want to give up, but at the same time I'm not sure I can face her anymore. Is the whole thing ruined?
It happens. Just tell her you usually just have to know the person a little more before you're comfortable with the sex part. Most girls will not only be accepting of this, they'll usually prefer a guy like that, who takes their time getting to know them as a person before getting in their pants.