Really?So Okc has finally done it and destroyed the site...
Only being able to write after liking is insane for that site. There are so little women in my area that actively like people, it's insane. They are written to and then decide if they want to put in the time to read a profile and write back.
It's not an ideal situation, but I would have met almost no women on that site if I didn't write first, even with no liking.
So Okc has finally done it and destroyed the site...
Only being able to write after liking is insane for that site. There are so little women in my area that actively like people, it's insane. They are written to and then decide if they want to put in the time to read a profile and write back.
It's not an ideal situation, but I would have met almost no women on that site if I didn't write first, even with no liking.
Pretty much, I've been on it for three years and it's been nose diving since then. I'm not going to be on it as actively anymore but I won't delete it since I still like the ego boost.So Okc has finally done it and destroyed the site...
Pretty much, I've been on it for three years and it's been nose diving since then. I'm not going to be on it as actively anymore but I won't delete it since I still like the ego boost.
Tinder is the same way and I see in their most recent update you can't delete your profile anymore. No way to reset, you can only freeze the account.
Also got banned in that thread 😂Only got banned after posting the nice meme In one of those threads about a female teacher having sex with a student, I learned my lesson after that.
It's been in the past week.Really?
When did they implement this (idiotic) change?
I disabled my profile a couple weeks ago, and yeah, I agree with you, it's just an extra unnecessary step that will cut down on communication.
If they don't change it back, I may not use the site again.
I don't see the option for that, just a pause.
Really?
When did they implement this (idiotic) change?
I disabled my profile a couple weeks ago, and yeah, I agree with you, it's just an extra unnecessary step that will cut down on communication.
If they don't change it back, I may not use the site again.
Geez and I thought not being able to see new users was bad (Came to terms with that by just using who's online). Liking only for text is an odd change. Let me guess though. If you pay you can message anyone regardless of likes?
Pretty much, I've been on it for three years and it's been nose diving since then. I'm not going to be on it as actively anymore but I won't delete it since I still like the ego boost.
Perhaps I'm blind, or maybe deleted it 1 to many times but it's really not an option for me.
I deleted it by goi by to tinder.com, honestly didn't know that was I thing but the delete option was there.
It must be a bug, no way they would not let you delete a profile.
Yep.
The Jackie Chan thread, actually. Not even politics!
damn...ACB seems like the kind of poster who's inevitably going to catch a perma ban because of the way moderation seems to go down. The dating thread is one of the few places people seem to get away with just being fully candid. He seems like a straightforward poster.
That said, i'm sure my days are numbered, because i can't imagine what Gaia would have done to earn a perma.
Anyone can catch it i guess :/
That said, i'm sure my days are numbered, because i can't imagine what Gaia would have done to earn a perma.
Anyone can catch it i guess :/
I'd like to know this as well...How do you avoid burnout in relation to dating?
So my date from Sunday is coming over to mine at the weekend, and I said I would cook. But I am kinda stumped on what to cook. For context I am a pretty good cook, but I feel out of ideas.
So my date from Sunday is coming over to mine at the weekend, and I said I would cook. But I am kinda stumped on what to cook. For context I am a pretty good cook, but I feel out of ideas.
Just make a facebook account.
Tinder's algorithm is so idiotic you really need to delete it from time to time.
Good luck, but be prepared that no second date until so much later can make that momentum fade. If she postpones again, just leave the ball in her court and go back to swiping.
Pasta?
I had a similar situation come up when I was asked to a potluck a couple weeks ago.
What I did was took this super simple recipe:
https://therecipecritic.com/2016/07/grilled-asian-garlic-steak-skewers/
But since I only had a couple hours of prep I figured I would just hope that was enough.
It totally was, and it turned out great.
I went out last week with someone I've known for about a year now. Had a pretty fab time but since then, like zero interest in any meaningful conversation communication from her. We did arrange to meet this week, she said she'd let me know when she is free (unemployed until later this year so actually she's free all the time) but slowly the days drift away with no contact. Messaging up to that point had been pretty scattered too, like replying two days after I sent a message on LINE or Facebook. Been a bit frustrating especially as we hit it off.
Anyway, just venting a little. Tale as old as time. Japanese people are hard to pin down and communicate with at the best of times, so dating here in Japan for me has just been a bit tiresome.
I'm in the same situation. Shit was on fire the first two times we went out. Has sharply drifted off after that last date I cancelled. Latest meetup was relatively short-lived and the energy felt slightly odd towards the end.
I guess it's just my current financial/work/stress situation, but its really been bothering me. She mentioned wanting to go out again soon, and I might invite her somewhere later this week...but it's also kind of at the point now where I feel like if I just left her alone, there's a good chance I wouldn't hear from her again.
Oh well, fuck it. I been needing to hit the gym anyway lol.
I went out last week with someone I've known for about a year now. Had a pretty fab time but since then, like zero interest in any meaningful conversation communication from her. We did arrange to meet this week, she said she'd let me know when she is free (unemployed until later this year so actually she's free all the time) but slowly the days drift away with no contact. Messaging up to that point had been pretty scattered too, like replying two days after I sent a message on LINE or Facebook. Been a bit frustrating especially as we hit it off.
Anyway, just venting a little. Tale as old as time. Japanese people are hard to pin down and communicate with at the best of times, so dating here in Japan for me has just been a bit tiresome.
I didn't know OKC still had people using it. I recall it being popular like four or five years ago but it seems like tinder came along and online dating went over to mobile phones. Also tinder seems to have implemented a number of pay features successfully. The super likes I don't think are worth paying for but the boosts are. After a boost I always end up with anywhere from 10-20+ new matches. If I just go without using any of their features it could take several days. I think they put your account in a long queue before you pop up for others.
Thanks for the informed post. Would you say OKC is better than Tinder or do you use other app.
I think they put your account in a long queue before you pop up for others.
Thanks for the informed post. Would you say OKC is better than Tinder or do you use other app.
Thanks for the informed post. Would you say OKC is better than Tinder or do you use other app.
I think if you use the app for free they don't show you to as many people (less traffic for you). You can pay for boosts so more people will see you and swipe right.What do you mean specifically by this? I don't quite get what you're trying to say.
Update on the ex situation, advice required.
Also never quite had sex like that before haha, makes me realise what I have been missing lol.
So I broke up about an hour ago, been together 1,5 years. Thought I was pretty much over her before I even stepped into her apartment, but when it's all said and done I cried like a baby probably five times. She had seen it coming due to me acting distant the last month, and also agreed that this is probably for the best. No hard feelings from my end and it seems like there wasn't from her either. I asked to remain friends and she I got a cautiously optimistic response. We'll see.
Right now I'm pretty damn broken up despite knowing it's for the best. I'll just listen to some sad songs or something.