Pre. I bought an SNES in fall 1991. A few months later an old friend recommended that I play a new game called "Final Fantasy 2" promising that I would love it because it was "just like D&D" (we had become friends about 10 years earlier because of D&D.) He didn't explain how/why. I bought it, played it, hated it. It was obviously very influenced by D&D, but not in any of the ways I hoped it would be. I had imagined a game that was basically a 16-bit single player version of WoW. I thought I'd be creating my own characters from scratch and then be set free to wander the world looking for quests, and accept or reject them as I saw fit. The prefab characters and linear story were a total turn off at the time. It took me like six months to eventually finish it. I would pick at it here and there, and I'm embarrassed to admit I remember thinking it was pretty hard. Mostly because I was stuck in my old D&D habits of thinking of healing potions and spells as rare and precious and should only be used in dire emergencies, and you should try to only ever heal by resting in camp or at in inn. So I died a lot.
A couple years later FFVI came out, and I couldn't have cared less. Had no intention of ever playing another FF. But by then I was online and had become a regular at some university's gaming BBS, and some of the other posters there made it their mission in life to get me to play FFVI, promising that it was "WAY better than FFIV in every way!" etc. etc. They semi-convinced me it might be good, but mostly I decided to play it just to get them off my back. But I guess because I knew what to expect this time, I ended up falling in love with FFVI. It was a little over a year later that FFVII got announced in Japan, and then about a year and half later FFVII was released in the US. Suddenly the FF fan community I'd been a part of for three years was in a flame war/civil war, and it spread out all over the internet to other video game message boards. I swear to god, FFVII is responsible for the online video game fan community being a loathsome pit of snakes for the last 20 years. I ain't kidding.
FFVI will always be my favorite, but I think VII is just as good. I loved VIII, though the story and characters were a little below FF standard. I would never say FFIX is a bad game, I liked it enough to play through it several times. But I didn't appreciate them back-pedaling to "classic FF" shit after they'd evolved and gone so deep into left field with VII and VIII, and even VI to a degree. I loved X for sort of picking up the process where VIII left off, but I didn't like that there was no overworld map or airship that I could pilot myself. I will go to my grave being butt hurt that they named FF Online "FFXI" and FF Online 2 "FFXIV". That was purely down to cynical marketing. I loved XII, but again, was a little disappointed in the story and characters. It was obvious that Matsuno leaving halfway through the project did a lot of damage. When XIII, vsXIII, and agitoXIII all got announced at E3 2006, the only one I cared about was XIII proper. I assumed that after XIII had come and gone, then I could start to get interested in vsXIII. But XIII turned out to be such a heinous piece of shit that it pretty much killed my fandom for the franchise for a while. I never really got interested in vsXIII. It was only after the FFXV Duscae demo came out that I started to get interested. My hype has been building up since then and I'm really looking forward to FFXV now. I was pretty bummed when it got delayed, I had scheduled a stay-cation for the first week of Oct. I moved it to the first week of Dec, but right now I'm actually more excited for Watch Dogs 2, so I'm pissed I didn't set it for mid Nov. Screw you, Tabata. Shoulda just given us a day 1 patch, even if it took a whole 24 hours to download. Idiot.
For the record, my first RPG was D&D. My first video game RPG was Tunnels of Doom on the TI994A. My first console RPG was Drakkhen, shortly before FFIV. But I didn't bother playing it for more than a few hours, it was atrocious.