entremet
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Obviously this question is for men.
Just curious do you still follow was are considered traditional western gentlemanly customs?
Quick audit of gentlemanly behaviors with my comments
-Opening doors--I do this for everyone honestly, but especially women and older people.
-Walking close to curb--I think I do this instantly in all types of company.
-Give up seat in public places-I do this for both women of all ages and older men and children of all sexes
-Limit profanity--I don't use too much profanity IRL and much less with someone I just met. I don't mind profanity in known company for humorous situations.
-Pay for dates--I do this. If it gets serious we usually do round robin style. I got her, she gets me next. Or per venue. I get dinner, she gets drinks. Etc. But only in committed relationships not during beginning stages of dating.
-Put on her coat--I actually never do this. I think this is a probably too outdated in my experience. I only really do this for the huge winter coats if we go to a place with a coat check like a swankier bar or lounge.
Those are the ones I can think of.
If you know more, add those.
Just curious do you still follow was are considered traditional western gentlemanly customs?
Quick audit of gentlemanly behaviors with my comments
-Opening doors--I do this for everyone honestly, but especially women and older people.
-Walking close to curb--I think I do this instantly in all types of company.
-Give up seat in public places-I do this for both women of all ages and older men and children of all sexes
-Limit profanity--I don't use too much profanity IRL and much less with someone I just met. I don't mind profanity in known company for humorous situations.
-Pay for dates--I do this. If it gets serious we usually do round robin style. I got her, she gets me next. Or per venue. I get dinner, she gets drinks. Etc. But only in committed relationships not during beginning stages of dating.
-Put on her coat--I actually never do this. I think this is a probably too outdated in my experience. I only really do this for the huge winter coats if we go to a place with a coat check like a swankier bar or lounge.
Those are the ones I can think of.
If you know more, add those.